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linci88 49 F
7  Articles
All the way my Saviour leads me.   4/24/2015

Ezekiel 1:4-20

Did you have any difficulty reading or understanding this passage today? You are not alone. Ezekiel had difficulty himself even trying to describe what he saw. Notice how many times he used the words “like” or “likeness”. He could not write down exactly what he was seeing. He simply said “It was like ...” But the hidden message is ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
spbpt 71 F
13  Articles
if you decide to meet   4/3/2011

personally I don't expect to meet folks from here unless they live very near me, but if I was preparing to see someone....it would be in a very public place and I wouldn't go alone.

Personal safety and common sense would be foremost in my mind and I would check someone out by asking for references...eg name of pastor and other references before I became very involved with someone ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
zayina 60 F
1  Article
Collect the data   4/3/2011

The purpose of dating is basically to collect data about the other person. That process takes time. I feel that if a person doesnt have the time, they shouldn't bother to date because it takes time to get acquainted with another. I believe first dates should be non pressure-filled. Something simple like meeting at a coffee shop, or lunch. Meeting in the daytime gives us the advantage to look at ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
How To Stay Safe   3/2/2011

How to stay safe in the world today.

1. Avoid riding in automobiles because they are responsible for20% of all fatal accidents.

2. Do not stay home because 17% of all accidents occur in thehome.

3. Avoid walking on streets or sidewalks because 14% of allaccidents occur to pedestrians.

4. Avoid traveling by air, rail, or water because 16% of allaccidents involve ...


1 Comments, 16 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
vivacious17 65 F
6  Articles
Keep Safe By Keeping A Spiritual Focus   9/15/2010

I think that one of the critical factors involved in keeping safe in a setting like this is to not take any one at face value or appearance value. Do not allow yourself to be swept off your feet because someone looks like a movie star.

Clarify ahead of time the inner and spiritual qualities that youare looking for in a future spouse or date. Pray for guidance. Take time to interact first ...


1 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Ladies Beware of This Man- Who Is on BigChurch-Now   8/3/2010

I'm a member on here- been on this site for about a month-I meet a very nice guy(I thought) and real nice looking too-Well he's a fruad & everything thats comes out of his mouth are lies-I'm trying to warn you about this- so if want to know who it is come to me and I'll be glad to tell you who he is-he's hurt me real bad-and I know he's got other women on here too-I'll give you a few clues-he's ...


3 Comments, 157 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
young62man 75 M
2  Articles
Who's safe anymore?   3/12/2010

Honesty doesn't seem to always prevail when two people connect on line. How do I know, really, just who you are? This is supposed to be a "safe" site catering to church folk or those wanting to know more about it. I have had dates where after two sent/received communications I was very convinced I wanted this date. I was right. The next couple of first dates were disappointing because they ...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
Ebonypriestess 60 F
10  Articles
Nagging Doubts - Very Important   2/21/2010

Do we always listen to our nagging doubts or gut reactions? If not, why not, aren’t they relevant?

As we interact with people in our respective communities, there's the odd occasion that we meet someone and during the first meeting(s) alarm bells are going off about them - but for some reason we choose to ignore them and then we're surprised when things go wrong.

When I ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
mag414 75 F
6  Articles
be careful   2/21/2010

When going out on a date always choose a place not to far from home it has to be in a public place always let some one know where you are going and with whome.


1 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
linci88 49 F
7  Articles
let the Spirit of God apply them deeply on your heart and your service for Christ.   12/1/2009

Ezekiel 1:25-28 & 2: 1-3

There are five major points to be noted in the call and to equip Ezekiel as a messenger of the Lord. These are still important today for any believer who desires to serve the Lord. Firstly, Ezekiel had a vision of God and His sovereignty. Today we may not see visions as He did but we ourselves need to be gripped by the same great important truths which impressed ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
linci88 49 F
7  Articles
Can the caring ministry of Christ be seen in us - today and every day?   12/1/2009

Luke 4:14-21

The earthly life of Jesus Christ is a remarkable example to us of how our lives should be day by day. There are those who make more of His living example than they do of His death for us. On the other hand we may perhaps tend to overlook the wonderful work He did as He moved around the land of Israel. In our reading today we have His declaration of His mission to the world ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
linci88 49 F
7  Articles
May God make this truth very clear to everyone of us as we look at this book together?   12/1/2009

Ezekiel 1: 1-5

Ezekiel was thirty years old when he became God’s messenger to the Jews in Babylon. He was standing alongside an irrigation canal called Kebar or Chebar, south of what we call Baghdad today. But to Ezekiel that ditch was more than a canal. It was a symbol of disappointment and frustration. That canal reminded him, “God has failed His people.” Ezekiel ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
skystar13 58 F
4  Articles
Red flag... penalty 15 yds!   3/23/2009

Hey folks... is it a common practice among men here to ask a woman if they want to meet...? Without any 'how do you dos' or previous discussion? I think that's a little creepy and at the very least bad manners...

This is a copy of the first email I ever recieved on my first day here and my response to them... it was titled... "Want To Meet?"

"rudedude" is not the senders real ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
young62man 75 M
2  Articles
Make the first date fun and impressive   1/10/2009

I like to meet a nice restaurant for a first date. I pray over my meals and always ask if she would like to pray with me. Facial expressions vary drastically. I'm a talker but I know enough to keep talking until a subject is reached that she has an interest. Never do I answer questions about my ex, never. I don't really want to hear about hers either. I keep it light and enjoy the ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
buggs6306 53 M
2  Articles
Online Predators   9/14/2008

Are those who seek vulnerable women and the only on line predators? NO! These dating sites are also the play ground of on line predators: there are lots of people that I rate up in the ranks of molesters, these people are those who only come to the dating site to sell a false hope of finding true love. They blaitenly disobey the sites rules and try giving whom they contact their supposed ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
be concerned about yourself   6/24/2008

You have to do more things for yourself because it is when you are happy and doing well that you can do better for others. If you don't take care of yourself, you can't help others because it is out of what you are that you give out others.


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Where?   6/11/2008

My last chance is here to meet a christian born again partner.where else or how else can i meet a born again partner!


0 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes
JustChristian1 60 M
3  Articles
What type of feminine protection is????   4/25/2008

Greetings all, I was just curious, like usual, as to what type of feminine protection you ladies use???? NO NO, not that monthly thing. I mean, like a gun, or knife, or your four older brothers, or just the Wisdom of Discernment from the Lord, while keeping your brothers on speed dial. What do you use?


3 Comments, 35 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
how to make a woman happy   1/29/2008

some one sent this to me. -- How to Make a Woman Happy It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a carpenter 10. a plumber 11. a mechanic 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Silver12b 61 F
16  Articles
We still have SCAMMERS on here!!   1/28/2008

Whatch out ladies! There are still scammers on here!! One just tried to get me!! Claimed to be a widow from DC working as a spillage engineer in the UK. Suddenly he had too! Sent me a picture. Told me in our 4th email he was in love with me and our meeting was God ordained. Spoke lots of poetry and said, my love, my dear, sent ecards and bible studies.

I saw the clues but played along ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
celticgurl 50 F
1  Article
WOW   10/27/2007

I have recently joined this website in search of my soulmate/laughing partner. It's hard sometimes to meet men when you work a lot, etc., so I thought I'd give this a try. So far in the last 2 days I've found out that 1 guy I e-mailed back and forth with a few times has 2 profiles on this site ( completely different I might add!! ). Odd how I woke up in the middle of the night and had the urge to ...


2 Comments, 112 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
Don't drive with anyone new- protect yourself   10/25/2007

When you meet someone new - and you go out on a date- don't let the person fool you into going somewhere that you haven't OK'd in advance. This includes driving yourself to where you are going and not getting into the fellow's car. For example- here's a real life example. On a first date from the internet- a fellow made arrangements to meet a lady at a retaurant. He chose the restaurant. He ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Eradjoa 58 F
1  Article
Online safety   10/25/2007

Thanks Big Church for monitoring and taking note of those whom abuse this website. Recently I was penpaling with someone and I was getting a little suspicious.Then what do you know he has been removed for abuse. Thankyou for cleaning up and protecting others. Let us all be writing safely and let that little inner voice speak out loudly when we have rumblings that all is not what it seems.


0 Comments, 79 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
EMPYS 48 F
10  Articles
I kissed dating goodbye!   9/10/2007

I haven't read "I kissed dating goodbye" by Joshua Harris but I pretty much know what it is about, and I agree with it. I don't believe in dating as the secular world sees it. In order to maintain purity Christians need to keep the boundaries clear. You shouldn't get involved with someone physically at all until you both have discovered that you are totally compatible with one another and ...


4 Comments, 250 Views, 34 Votes ,7.19 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
when you look back   8/25/2007

whenever you look back, see your achievement and learn from your mistakes but never you regret anything for they were but experience for you to be able to manage the present situation


1 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
giftsoflove 45 F
6  Articles
COURTSHIP AND LOVE   8/25/2007

A time of Courtship and feelings of love are natural desirable progressions in a dating relationship.Becoming engaged to a person serves as a vauable learning exprience, exposing both people to many important feelings and dscisions.
How to deal with the intense desires assoiated with physical attraction and defining love are two very ...



3 Comments, 113 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
passionforJesus 55 M
1  Article
how to get right person for a date   8/25/2007



my advice for you is ask God to show you who is the right person for you for dating


0 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
callmeshye 53 F
1  Article
meeting someone online   8/12/2007

My best friend meet someone from Africa online and made a plane trip with her three to see him only four months from meeting him. Am I crazy to be mad at her? She is my bestest friend and I care for alot.


0 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
marian_pop99 39 F
1  Article
I look for a good husband..   6/9/2007

I have 25 years and i'm tired to be unmarried. I want to know how is to be married and that i look for an husband that must look good (don't matter the age). Please contact me if u are really interested. SEE YA


2 Comments, 253 Views, 35 Votes
LIONOFJUDAH771 52 M
2  Articles
beware of pushy people   5/8/2007

because if they are rushing you to do things there way its therefore knot of the kingdom of THE MOST HIGH GOD AND THE LORD JESUS THE CHRIST THE ONE AND ONLY AMEN.LADIES DONT LET PUSHY MEN LEAD YOUR LIVES ALLOW GOD TO LEAD AND GUIDE YOU WITH ALL OF HEAVEN AMEN


2 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score