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bridget1967 56 F
6  Articles
please be careful!!   3/29/2007

i im sorry that i have to do this but i was dating a man off this web site and he was over loving and complimentary to me and well i guess he said all the things i wanted to hear. then as the weeks went by i noticed that his behaviour became less and less of that of a Christian and there seemed to be lies appearing .anyway then it came to light that he was using false names and dates of ...


8 Comments, 361 Views, 36 Votes ,6.69 Score
speeritwoman 66 F
4  Articles
About this 'meeting people online' business....   3/28/2007

Online ‘dating’ or relationship building as I would rather call it, has come under some question, both here and in some circles I move in. It is a normal thing to question as it is a relatively new medium for meeting people, and not very trusted with all the abuse of it that is out there. This does exist , but if you safeguard yourself, armed with the full armor of God, and ...


3 Comments, 140 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
Charity53076 47 F
36  Articles
gas prices   2/11/2007

sign this petition to lower gas prices ITS LEGIT i got it off of channel 7 action news http://bigchurch.com if you cant get it off that site click on this site http://bigchurch.com PS give it to everyone u know


2 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
poppy37 55 F
1  Article
Con men and scams....   1/21/2007

Just a little word of warning to all of those trusting female Christians out there... This could also happen to you guys too! If you meet someone on line, (as I did on here)start communicating, things seem to be going well.... all is rosy UNTIL... they ask you to set up a bank account for them to pay money into or ask for your account details, or want to send you a bank draft to pay into ...


4 Comments, 210 Views, 16 Votes ,6.36 Score
be safe when first meeting   1/20/2007

When you get to the point if meeting with someone that you have met online and have talked with on the phone here is my advise. 1. Have their full name and number. 2. Give that info to a trusted friend. 3. Arrange to meet in public. 4. Let that same friend you gave the info to know where you will be. 5. Take your own vehicle so that you can leave at any time and so that you ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 80 Votes ,8.90 Score
webchick 57 F
1  Article
Bigchurch Scammer   12/29/2006

profile id luvis1 and fletchhisheart
check out http://bigchurch.com
fletchhisheart will contact u with his im 'kelvin smith'...alias to same guy


3 Comments, 258 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
thekeeperofasps 58 F
1  Article
scammer made a mistake   12/18/2006

Can we say busted? Singlleman01 tried to scam me with cheesy emails and I thought something wasnt right to start with and mentioned it to the person that hooked me up with this website and it just so happened he sent her the same word for word email he sent me.
Watch out for him his name is KEN MOORGAN HENRY or at least that is what he is calling himself anyway He is also from ...


4 Comments, 195 Views, 18 Votes ,3.94 Score
conisings 58 F
21  Articles
How to Date Safely   12/15/2006

Use a little common sense to keep yourself out of trouble. <br> Steps: 1. Meet in public places. If possible, double date or go out with a group of people. <br> 2. Go Dutch. By paying for your portion you won't feel as if you are under any kind of obligation. <br> 3. Remember that alcohol affects your judgment and lessens your inhibitions. If you ...


3 Comments, 145 Views, 33 Votes ,7.83 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
appearance is deceptive   11/2/2006

Never judge a book by its cover when there is so much more on the inside, just as you should never judge anyone by his look when there are so much more in his or her character or attitude. Just as book content, so also are the attitude and or character of anyone. The reason why you should read the content or see someone character and or attitude before making conclusion is that appearance ...


1 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Nkama 37 F
1  Article
Fear of God & Respect   10/21/2006

Many claim that their born again....yes but remember that our bodies is enemy of what we believe(body require for world but spirit require heaven thing, So what we suppose to do?To stand according to God word leave by purity and respect our body as God temple and respect both partiner on dating moment coz that is dengeous part of courtship. Respect each ather untily marriage


0 Comments, 28 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
dicovering your originality   10/19/2006

When you discover your originality, you wont want to be like any other person and no matter what others do, you will always see yourself as unique and then you will be able to pursue your goal without feeling odd or out of track. To discover ones originality we need to discover who we really are in Christ as we were originality created in the image of God. That notwithstanding, just know ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
few things will catch your heart   10/19/2006

there are alot of things that will catch your eye, but few things will catch your heart, and once you verify them with the word of God and find out that they fall in line with HIS pur[ose for you, then PURSUE IT without restrains!


1 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
is it by force to marry?   8/21/2006

During a wedding reception; the groom was called upon to give his vote of thanks to his guests and this is what he came up with: I want to first of all thank the Lord Almighty for creating my wife and to also thank the pastor and his wife for lending us their wedding rings. Special appreciation to my landlord who lent us his car. I am most grateful to my boss for approving the loan I used ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
what make people look up to you is who you are   8/20/2006

It's not how much you have that makes people look up to you, it's who you are. What you have is a factor of your achievement or efforts. And that effort could be genuine or not genuine depending on what spirit leads the one concerned. But who you are, is a matter of your character and attitude which would either my people to look up to you or look down on you. So lets cultivate good ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Knightc 65 M
1  Article
How to tell if the person is right for you.   7/10/2006

With in the first two dates you should go out for a meal. When you do watch how the other person treats other if they treat others rudely then in 3 to 6 months they will treat you the same believe you me. For the way they treat others is the way they will treat you, most people drop their guard when eating a meal. Has save me a lot of heart ack.


1 Comments, 61 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
reallysaved 65 F
2  Articles
Don't Trust Liars!   7/9/2006

I have seen it over and over again in the short time that I have been on this site - black men from Africa putting their location down as somewhere in the United States. (I don't know if the Africa women are doing this or not.) If they will hide their location from you, that should send up a huge flare for us women. They are putting the wrong location down as a pure deception. If ...


9 Comments, 210 Views, 20 Votes ,6.95 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
So Good and so True about the Love of God   6/17/2006

THIS IS SO GOOD AND SO TRUE... If: A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z Is represented as: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 Then: H-A-R-D-W-O-R- K( 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11) = 98% And K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E( 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5) = 96% Yes, and B-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l (2-5-1-21-20-9-6-21-12)=97% But, A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E( 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 )= 100% AND, ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
the best way to get the right partner   5/26/2006

Many of us here and outside ther look for God sent partner and God perfected partner. at times we pray and pray fast and fast yet year in year out this God sendt partner seems elusive. But i want to let you know that the best way to find the God sent partner is to make ourselves a God sent one. For God can only send his love one to some who also has prepared himself or herself to be God ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Screening by phone (ladies)   5/6/2006

Ladies-- When you feel comfortable - switch from emailing to the phone. Don't meet in person until you feel comfortable on the phone. You can find out a lot of info. on the phone that will help you make a decision whether you should meet or not. Then, you can go with confidence to meet him knowing that you did what you could do.


6 Comments, 174 Views, 26 Votes ,6.48 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
You can make yourself happy   5/5/2006

HAPPINESS IS SOMETHING WE CREATE IN OUR MIND, IT'S NOT SOMETHING YOU SEARCH FOR AND SO SELDOM FIND. so know that you can make yourself happy when you determine to do so


1 Comments, 23 Views, 0 Votes
Warning concerning   5/5/2006

Several of us women have had to block this member. It is my suggestion you don't communicate with him at all. I reported him to the management and got no response.


4 Comments, 264 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
dancin9899 64 M
1  Article
A couple "nuggets of truth" for dating   4/11/2006

A couple of things that have been tried and true(especially when I've violated one of them). Let me know if these ring true to you; or if I'm "off the wall"... 1) Don't date your neithbors. If the relation ship "goes south" it really makes it diffi-cult to stay friendly as neighbors. I thought I could rationalize this one when I took out my next door neighbor...and we were "going Dutch". ...


2 Comments, 106 Views, 14 Votes ,4.10 Score
bowflexteecia7at 64 F
12  Articles
Dating is Practicing for Divorce   3/27/2006

THE GIFT OF SINGLENESS Giving Pieces of Your Heart Away
It was finally here–Anna’s wedding day, the day she had dreamed about and planned for months. The small, picturesque church was crowded with friends and family. Sunlight poured through the stained-glass windows, and the gentle music of a stringed quartet filled the air. Anna walked down the aisle toward David. ...


2 Comments, 101 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Scammers abound in Big church - be warned   3/20/2006

Scammers abound here I just want to place this again to alert well meaning brethren in here that scammers abound here. At time you might find it difficult to know them, but I trust God to continually expose them and give the sincere ones the discernment to identify these evil minded people. They pretend to be women when they are actually men, some pretend to be women when they are ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Life Is   2/28/2006

Life is an ADVENTURE, Dare it. Life is a BEAUTY, Worship it. Life is a CHALLENGE, Meet it. Life is a DREAM, Realize it. Life is ENDURANCE, Cope with it. Life is FRAGRANCE, Smell it. Life is a GAME, Play it. Life is HEAVEN, Make it. Life is an INITIATIVE, Take it. Life is a JOURNEY, Complete it. Life is KEROSINE, Burn it. Life is LOVE, Enjoy it. Life is a MYSTERY, Unfold ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Rules from God   2/17/2006

1. WAKE UP!!! Decide to have a good day. "Today is the day the Lord hath made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." Psalms 118:24 <br> 2. DRESS UP!!! The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks. "The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at outward appearance; but the Lord looks at the heart." I ...


1 Comments, 17 Views, 0 Votes
Came on to strong !!   2/11/2006

When I first joined this site I was really excited about meeting people. I completed my profile found what appeared to be a decent person and sent the "wink". Wow...he suddenly overwhelmed me with e-mails...calling me angel, etc and says he wants to come to the U.S. I had visions of "stalking" etc. It was kinda of scary.. I had listed my hometown and had given out some unique ...


1 Comments, 154 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
snowonroof2006 77 M
2  Articles
Dating/general safety   2/10/2006

Dating/general safety <br> Add to this General Safety list these common sense dating safety rules: <br> Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable with the way things are headed, run like hell. <br> When you are comfortable enough to meet for the first time. Meet in a busy (read, where there's a LOT of people) public place. <br> Get a picture ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 10 Votes ,5.77 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
balancing your personal conviction with God's word   2/10/2006

every live by his personal conviction as he or she journey along the pathway of destiny but no matter how our personal conviction is without a balance with god's word it will lead to frustration. so let always learn to balance our conviction with God's word for our lives


1 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
BETWEEN QUITERS AND GOAL GETTERS   1/17/2006

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN QUITERS AND GOAL GETTERS WHO KEEP ON THROUGH STORM AND STRUGGLE IN LIVES ENDEAVOURS IS A HOPEFUL HEART. HOPE SAYS, "NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES I FALL, I WILL STAND AND START AGAIN." FOR A PERSON OF HOPE IS NOT ONE WHO NEVER FALLS, BUT ONE WHO PICKS HERSELF UP ONE MORE TIME THAN SHE FALLS.


1 Comments, 16 Views, 0 Votes