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please be careful!! 3/29/2007
i im sorry that i have to do this but i was dating a man off this
web site and he was over loving and complimentary to me and
well i guess he said all the things i wanted to hear. then
as the weeks went by i noticed that his behaviour became
less and less of that of a Christian and there seemed to be
lies appearing .anyway then it came to light that he was
using false names and dates of ...
8 Comments, 361 Views,
36 Votes
,6.69 Score |
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About this 'meeting people online' business.... 3/28/2007
Online ‘dating’ or relationship building as I would rather
call it, has come under some question, both here and in some
circles I move in. It is a normal thing to question as it is
a relatively new medium for meeting people, and not very
trusted with all the abuse of it that is out there. This does
exist , but if you safeguard yourself, armed with the full
armor of God, and ...
3 Comments, 140 Views,
15 Votes
,5.73 Score |
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gas prices 2/11/2007
sign this petition to lower gas prices
ITS LEGIT i got it off of channel 7 action news
http://bigchurch.com
if you cant get it off that site click on this site
http://bigchurch.com
PS give it to everyone u know
2 Comments, 38 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score |
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Con men and scams.... 1/21/2007
Just a little word of warning to all of those trusting female
Christians out there... This could also happen to you guys
too!
If you meet someone on line, (as I did on here)start communicating,
things seem to be going well.... all is rosy
UNTIL... they ask you to set up a bank account for them to
pay money into or ask for your account details, or want to
send you a bank draft to pay into ...
4 Comments, 210 Views,
16 Votes
,6.36 Score |
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be safe when first meeting 1/20/2007
When you get to the point if meeting with someone that you
have met online and have talked with on the phone here is
my advise.
1. Have their full name and number.
2. Give that info to a trusted friend.
3. Arrange to meet in public.
4. Let that same friend you gave the info to know where you
will be.
5. Take your own vehicle so that you can leave at any time
and so that you ...
1 Comments, 82 Views,
80 Votes
,8.90 Score |
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Bigchurch Scammer 12/29/2006
profile id luvis1 and fletchhisheart
check out http://bigchurch.com
fletchhisheart will contact u with his im 'kelvin
smith'...alias to same guy
3 Comments, 258 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score |
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scammer made a mistake 12/18/2006
Can we say busted?
Singlleman01 tried to scam me with cheesy emails and I thought
something wasnt right to start with and mentioned it to
the person that hooked me up with this website and it just
so happened he sent her the same word for word email he sent
me.
Watch out for him his name is KEN MOORGAN HENRY or at least
that is what he is calling himself
anyway He is also from ...
4 Comments, 195 Views,
18 Votes
,3.94 Score |
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How to Date Safely 12/15/2006
Use a little common sense to keep yourself out of trouble.
<br>
Steps:
1. Meet in public places. If possible, double date or go
out with a group of people.
<br>
2. Go Dutch. By paying for your portion you won't feel
as if you are under any kind of obligation.
<br>
3. Remember that alcohol affects your judgment and lessens
your inhibitions. If you ...
3 Comments, 145 Views,
33 Votes
,7.83 Score |
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appearance is deceptive 11/2/2006
Never judge a book by its cover when there is so much more
on the inside, just as you should never judge anyone by his
look when there are so much more in his or her character or
attitude. Just as book content, so also are the attitude
and or character of anyone. The reason why you should read
the content or see someone character and or attitude before
making conclusion is that appearance ...
1 Comments, 14 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score |
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Fear of God & Respect 10/21/2006
Many claim that their born again....yes but remember that
our bodies is enemy of what we believe(body require for
world but spirit require heaven thing, So what we suppose
to do?To stand according to God word leave by purity and
respect our body as God temple and respect both partiner
on dating moment coz that is dengeous part of courtship.
Respect each ather untily marriage
0 Comments, 28 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score |
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dicovering your originality 10/19/2006
When you discover your originality, you wont want to be
like any other person and no matter what others do, you will
always see yourself as unique and then you will be able to
pursue your goal without feeling odd or out of track. To
discover ones originality we need to discover who we really
are in Christ as we were originality created in the image
of God. That notwithstanding, just know ...
1 Comments, 11 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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few things will catch your heart 10/19/2006
there are alot of things that will catch your eye, but few
things will catch your heart, and once you verify them with
the word of God and find out that they fall in line with HIS
pur[ose for you, then PURSUE IT without restrains!
1 Comments, 29 Views,
2 Votes
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is it by force to marry? 8/21/2006
During a wedding reception; the groom was called upon to
give his vote of thanks to his guests and this is what he came
up with: I want to first of all thank the Lord Almighty for
creating my wife and to also thank the pastor and his wife
for lending us their wedding rings. Special appreciation
to my landlord who lent us his car. I am most grateful to my
boss for approving the loan I used ...
1 Comments, 54 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score |
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what make people look up to you is who you are 8/20/2006
It's not how much you have that makes people look up
to you, it's who you are. What you have is a factor of
your achievement or efforts. And that effort could be genuine
or not genuine depending on what spirit leads the one concerned.
But who you are, is a matter of your character and attitude
which would either my people to look up to you or look down
on you. So lets cultivate good ...
1 Comments, 13 Views,
1 Votes
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How to tell if the person is right for you. 7/10/2006
With in the first two dates you should go out for a meal.
When you do watch how the other person treats other if they
treat others rudely then in 3 to 6 months they will treat
you the same believe you me. For the way they treat others
is the way they will treat you, most people drop their guard
when eating a meal. Has save me a lot of heart ack.
1 Comments, 61 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score |
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Don't Trust Liars! 7/9/2006
I have seen it over and over again in the short time that I
have been on this site - black men from Africa putting their
location down as somewhere in the United States. (I don't
know if the Africa women are doing this or not.) If they will
hide their location from you, that should send up a huge
flare for us women. They are putting the wrong location
down as a pure deception. If ...
9 Comments, 210 Views,
20 Votes
,6.95 Score |
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So Good and so True about the Love of God 6/17/2006
THIS IS SO GOOD AND SO TRUE... If: A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S
T U V W X Y Z Is represented as: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16
17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 Then: H-A-R-D-W-O-R- K( 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11)
= 98% And K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E( 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5)
= 96% Yes, and B-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l (2-5-1-21-20-9-6-21-12)=97%
But, A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E( 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 )= 100% AND, ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score |
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the best way to get the right partner 5/26/2006
Many of us here and outside ther look for God sent partner
and God perfected partner. at times we pray and pray fast
and fast yet year in year out this God sendt partner seems
elusive. But i want to let you know that the best way to find
the God sent partner is to make ourselves a God sent one.
For God can only send his love one to some who also has prepared
himself or herself to be God ...
1 Comments, 41 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score |
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Screening by phone (ladies) 5/6/2006
Ladies--
When you feel comfortable - switch from emailing to the
phone. Don't meet in person until you feel comfortable
on the phone. You can find out a lot of info. on the phone that
will help you make a decision whether you should meet or
not. Then, you can go with confidence to meet him knowing
that you did what you could do.
6 Comments, 174 Views,
26 Votes
,6.48 Score |
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You can make yourself happy 5/5/2006
HAPPINESS IS SOMETHING WE CREATE IN OUR MIND, IT'S
NOT SOMETHING YOU SEARCH FOR AND SO SELDOM FIND. so know
that you can make yourself happy when you determine to do
so
1 Comments, 23 Views,
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Warning concerning 5/5/2006
Several of us women have had to block this member. It is my
suggestion you don't communicate with him at all.
I reported him to the management and got no response.
4 Comments, 264 Views,
9 Votes
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A couple "nuggets of truth" for dating 4/11/2006
A couple of things that have been tried and true(especially
when I've violated one of them). Let me know if these
ring true to you; or if I'm "off the wall"...
1) Don't date your neithbors. If the relation
ship "goes south" it really makes it diffi-cult
to stay friendly as neighbors. I thought I could rationalize
this one when I took out my next door neighbor...and we were
"going Dutch". ...
2 Comments, 106 Views,
14 Votes
,4.10 Score |
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Dating is Practicing for Divorce 3/27/2006
THE GIFT OF SINGLENESS
Giving Pieces of Your Heart Away
It was finally here–Anna’s wedding day, the day she had
dreamed about and planned for months. The small, picturesque
church was crowded with friends and family. Sunlight poured
through the stained-glass windows, and the gentle music
of a stringed quartet filled the air. Anna walked down the
aisle toward David. ...
2 Comments, 101 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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Scammers abound in Big church - be warned 3/20/2006
Scammers abound here
I just want to place this again to alert well meaning brethren
in here that scammers abound here. At time you might find
it difficult to know them, but I trust God to continually
expose them and give the sincere ones the discernment to
identify these evil minded people. They pretend to be women
when they are actually men, some pretend to be women when
they are ...
0 Comments, 73 Views,
10 Votes
,4.58 Score |
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Life Is 2/28/2006
Life is an ADVENTURE, Dare it.
Life is a BEAUTY, Worship it.
Life is a CHALLENGE, Meet it.
Life is a DREAM, Realize it.
Life is ENDURANCE, Cope with it.
Life is FRAGRANCE, Smell it.
Life is a GAME, Play it.
Life is HEAVEN, Make it.
Life is an INITIATIVE, Take it.
Life is a JOURNEY, Complete it.
Life is KEROSINE, Burn it.
Life is LOVE, Enjoy it.
Life is a MYSTERY, Unfold ...
1 Comments, 46 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score |
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Rules from God 2/17/2006
1. WAKE UP!!!
Decide to have a good day.
"Today is the day the Lord hath made; let us rejoice
and be glad in it."
Psalms 118:24
<br>
2. DRESS UP!!!
The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive
way to improve your looks.
"The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.
Man looks at outward appearance; but the Lord looks at the
heart."
I ...
1 Comments, 17 Views,
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Came on to strong !! 2/11/2006
When I first joined this site I was really excited about
meeting people. I completed my profile found what appeared
to be a decent person and sent the "wink". Wow...he
suddenly overwhelmed me with e-mails...calling me angel,
etc and says he wants to come to the U.S. I had visions of "stalking"
etc. It was kinda of scary.. I had listed my hometown and
had given out some unique ...
1 Comments, 154 Views,
14 Votes
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Dating/general safety 2/10/2006
Dating/general safety
<br>
Add to this General Safety list these common sense dating
safety rules:
<br>
Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable
with the way things are headed, run like hell.
<br>
When you are comfortable enough to meet for the first time.
Meet in a busy (read, where there's a LOT of people)
public place.
<br>
Get a picture ...
1 Comments, 64 Views,
10 Votes
,5.77 Score |
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balancing your personal conviction with God's word 2/10/2006
every live by his personal conviction as he or she journey
along the pathway of destiny but no matter how our personal
conviction is without a balance with god's word it
will lead to frustration. so let always learn to balance
our conviction with God's word for our lives
1 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score |
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BETWEEN QUITERS AND GOAL GETTERS 1/17/2006
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN QUITERS AND GOAL GETTERS WHO KEEP
ON THROUGH STORM AND STRUGGLE IN LIVES ENDEAVOURS IS A HOPEFUL
HEART. HOPE SAYS, "NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES I FALL,
I WILL STAND AND START AGAIN." FOR A PERSON OF HOPE
IS NOT ONE WHO NEVER FALLS, BUT ONE WHO PICKS HERSELF UP ONE
MORE TIME THAN SHE FALLS.
1 Comments, 16 Views,
0 Votes
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