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   2006-01-04

Why is it so hard to find a man that believes and follow allof god'd rules? Whay do they follow so and totally dis regard the others? <br> I am looking for a man that respect the " No Sex Before Marriage Rule". Unfortunately I'm getting the idea that he does not exisit! I am divorced and have a 13 year old son. I am interested in developing a long term relationship but I am getting pressured a lot b by men who don't believe in not having sex before marriage. what are you thoughts on this subject?


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Before you....(for the ladies)   12/27/2005

Before you fall head over heels in love with what you perceive someone to be ladies- protect yourselves and ask for a recommendation from someone like a pastor- this will make sure the fellow is who he says he is. Also make sure that his picture on the site- looks like him in person. I'd even go so far as asking him ahead of time to see his driver's license when you first meet. Then- you ...


2 Comments, 81 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
focusing on our goal   12/19/2005

goals, desire, and ambitions are common things in life, <br> but while many would wish for the best as goal in life, only <br> <br> few are able to achieve their goals. But one important thing <br> <br> about achieving goals is the ability to face it and be able <br> <br> to identify alternatives that could give ...


1 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
to specify who we want is appropriate   12/16/2005

Though it is right to say that without giving specification we can find out man/woman, I want to tell you that God is a God of standard and we are expected to follow suit. So if we set a standard of what will want, that becomes our desire and when we place this before God, as long as it is not selfish, God would answer us cos he said tha desire of the righteous shall not be cut short. So ...


1 Comments, 28 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Picture   12/11/2005

It's really important to have your date first post a picture on this site- or any site that you're on. Don't go for them saying they will email it to your private email. I've read about this. This is what a married person will do so that none of his friends or his wife will see his posting and realize it is him. If you get flack- stand your ground- make sure he posts it publically. ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 10 Votes ,5.97 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
You can d all by taking them one step after   12/5/2005

You can done all by taking them one step after another because attempting them all at the same time leads nowhere. In fact, No one can fully execute or finish any of all his vissions and goal when he wants to execute them all quickly and within same time. But the only one who does and execute all his vissions and goal with great success is the one who impliment and execute them one step at ...


1 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Knowing That God has plans for you   12/4/2005

there is not doubt that God knows the plan for our lives. I think the question is if we are aware that he knows. Because if we are, we wont say somethings we say and do somethings we do. we would only love him and believe that He knows the best plan for our life. then we could aba


1 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
true soulmate   11/30/2005

God's desire is for a man to cleave to the wife and live together forever till death and that is true soulmate. Yes this is the original plan of God and still remains his requirment from man though many today have tried to make it unimportant. God's desire id for a man to forever till date be united with the wife. Brethren why don't everyone just put away selfishness and love our wives and ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
sings4god4ever 39 F
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Watch out for wolf's in sheep's clothing!!   11/18/2005

Ladies and even gentlemen please watch out for wolf's in sheep's clothing.I was recently contacted by a man on this site that was interested in me. He e-mailed me and I e-mailed him back.We then decided to join yahoo messenger so that we could chat and get to know one another.Then we decided to start talking on the phone where he was such a sweet talker and knew all of the right things to ...


2 Comments, 278 Views, 62 Votes ,9.05 Score
Godsbaby71 43 F
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From single to married - the path of love...   11/18/2005

In the Biblical time, it was pretty much arranged for 2 people to marry, and they lived happily (sometimes), well the chosen ones did, Isaac, Jacob... Well, 'tis the modern age now, but God is still the same. If you faithfully walk before Him and serve Him the best you can - He is your father and He does see your lonely single heart! I believe that He knows what's best for us... Who ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 44 Votes ,7.99 Score
stev00400 43 M
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One step at a time   11/15/2005

when you are into dating, it is good and honorablr to move one step at a time in understanding one another. For when you move more than one step it will be difficult for there to be a balance and could lead to confusion and or dissapointment on the long run


2 Comments, 42 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Some Men have unrealistic expectations, or else they just arent the "Man of God" they claim to be.   11/12/2005

I don't understand this scenario, maybe one of you here can help me to understand it. Not at this site, but another yet, Christian Site: I received an email that started out by saying "Your man of God has arrived"......at first I was just a little wary at the presumption here, don't worry, it get's worse. This man talked about how coming to the state/city I lived at was not too much ...


12 Comments, 431 Views, 32 Votes ,5.96 Score
HawthorneHeights 39 M
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dating safety   11/11/2005

Don't date stalkers.


4 Comments, 206 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
Is there a different level of safety needed for Christians?   10/12/2005

Do you think that because we are on a Christian website, we can use less precautions when meeting for a first date? Is it safe to assume that people from this site are less of a threat to personal safety than someone from a secular dating site?


3 Comments, 76 Views, 38 Votes ,7.64 Score
traveller13 73 F
35  Articles
Are we really as strong as we think ???   10/5/2005

1Cor 10:12 "wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall" When it comes to dating , there is a custom that two people follow. They go out alone .. at night...in the dark..where it gives the illusion that what ever is done..is hidden. So the temptations are a little more appealing. But is this dating safely? As a christian, I see ...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
joydancing 72 F
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Happily ever After   8/27/2005

Safety before and After. Happily trusting God before. Praying knees on the floor. Hearts protected, no open door. <br> Happily we chase after, Delighting in His character. Hopes laid at His feet, Passionately we seek, His personal intimacy, His royal majesty, His unique supremecy. <br> Happy without inhibition With pure hearted intention, like we adore ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 13 Votes ,4.99 Score
Good Morning!   8/22/2005

He spoke to firmament yielding lights Dividing this day from the first night. Saying let these signs be for the seasons. We count days and years for this reason. <br> The earth is enlighten'd from His Love Receiving the light from heaven above. <br> He then gave us a gift of two great lights. The bigger lites day; the smaller lites night. <br> He made ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Signs   8/22/2005

I remember hanging out with my brother in his room when we were teenagers. I asked him for a little advice about dating and he said: "Self-control is the best self-defense." <br> That advice has served me well. I've tried to never do anything that I'll wake up regretting the next day. <br> Most important though, is learning to say no. Remember, anytime you say no and ...


1 Comments, 105 Views, 17 Votes ,5.81 Score
ddmministry 60 F
13  Articles
Are you thinking about marrying an Egyptian?   6/20/2005

If you think you're in love because of all the wonderful words your Egyptian friend has just told you, I really need to talk to you befor you say "I Do". I can give you some information that you really need to know. Are there any Good Egyptian Men? My answer is Yes. If they ask you if you want to hear their "SAD STORY" say NOOOOOOOO. Are there any Good Egyptian Men? Again my answer is ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 38 Votes ,1.00 Score
happyherbi 69 M
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A Different Kind of Date   1/3/2005

My pastor hates traditional dating. Ok, "hate" is such a strong word, but he has a better idea. <br> Try inviting the person you're interested in to your church, to your Sunday School, to a church function or social event. That way you can observe the person in a social setting and how they behave around other people, folks you are already comfortable being around. These same ...


1 Comments, 76 Views, 65 Votes ,7.20 Score