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Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
The Missing Rib   3/26/2010

A girl in love asked her boyfriend. Girl: Tell me. Who do you love most in this world? Boy: You, of course! Girl: In your heart, what am I to you? Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said, "You are my rib. It was said that God saw that Adam was lonely, during his sleep, God took one of Adam's rib and created Eve. Every man has been searching for his missing rib, ...


2 Comments, 29 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
karma1979 38 F
1  Article
Is Having Sex on the first date as bad as eveyone makes it seem?   12/27/2009

I have never been one to have sex on the first date, but I have friends who have. They have said to me that life is to short and you must enjoy it while you can just be safe. However I feel a man will never respect you if you let your gaurd down so easy. I have men friends who say that it's not true it just depends on the women. I have somw women who say if it's been a while and the night ...


6 Comments, 307 Views, 16 Votes ,1.80 Score
Silver12b 61 F
16  Articles
Can I get a word in?   12/21/2009

I once went on a "first date", all the guy did was talk about himself!! You know what happened at work, so and so did this, and so and so did that. Me, me, me!!

I just wanted to scream, "SHUT UP!!" It's bad enough you took me out to dinner, me all dressed up, to the "Flaming Wok" in the food center at the mall. Now I have to sit and listened to all of your woes!!

A first date ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
linci88 49 F
7  Articles
Thou art God alone   12/1/2009

Thou art great, and doest wondrous things; Thou art God alone."–Ps.



When anyone commences an important work, he takes time and gives his attention to consider the greatness of his undertaking. Men of science, in studying nature, require years of labour to grasp the magnitude of, for instance, the sun and the heavenly bodies. And is not our glorious God worthy that we ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
linci88 49 F
7  Articles
Beloved,   12/1/2009

"Beloved, do not be surprised at the ordeal that has come to test you…you are sharing what Christ suffered; so rejoice in it" (1 Peter 4:12).



Many a waiting hour was needful to enrich the harp of David, and many a waiting hour in the wilderness will gather for us a psalm of "thanksgiving, and the voice of melody, " to cheer the hearts of fainting ones here below, and to ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
linci88 49 F
7  Articles
The LORD will give grace and glory"(Psalm 84:11).   12/1/2009

The LORD will give grace and glory"(Psalm 84:11).



Grace is what we need just now, and it is to be had freely. What can be freer than a gift? Today we shall receive sustaining, strengthening, sanctifying, satisfying grace. He has given daily grace until now, and as for the future, that grace is still sufficient. If we have but little grace the fault must lie in ourselves; ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Hisglory77 64 M
12  Articles
Finding a date in Church (for the ladies)   2/19/2009

In church is the absolute best place to find a romantic interest, but it is also the very hardest place to get one started. I recently wrote the following in response to another blog, and as I think about it, this is a very good subject to get out there for everyone. In this one I will handle for the women, how to get asked for a date in church. Later on will be one for the men how to make it ...


2 Comments, 59 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
mariposa9 74 F
1  Article
What's Going on With That?   1/10/2009

Just had a chat with Christian woman who met a nice fellow at a community dance. He asked her to dance a lot of the dances, and at the end of the evening, he asked her if she would be attending the same dance the following weekend, as he was planning to be there again. She said she wasn't sure about her schedule. As it turned out, she didn't go. She later met him at another function, and said ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
when people say "you don't know what I have been through"   11/12/2008

So many people are where they are today not because they don’t want to move on but because they afraid to move on due to what they have been through. Meanwhile whatever we have been through are supposed to experiences to guide us from making same mistake. To such people when you tell them to do something or aspire to something, they quickly tell you, oh I can’t and when you ask why ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Silver12b 61 F
16  Articles
Get REAL!   10/20/2008

If you are going on a first date.......GET REAL!! If you are open and honest on your first date, I mean totally YOURSELF, they either like you or NOT. If they don't then, hey, you haven't waisted your time on somebody who isn't going to like you anyway. Come right out and say, "I just want you to know that from this moment on, I am totally myself. I believe in it, and I would like for you to do ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
rosebud1967 51 F
3  Articles
Going out again after a long time single   1/20/2008

Hi there, I just wanted to encourage all you who have been on your own a long time, and are facing the prospect of a first date again.
If you feel as nervous as you did when you were a on your first ever date, remember, the person you are meeting probably feels just the same - just be comfortable with who you are, if they can't accept you the way you are, it's not the ...


2 Comments, 172 Views, 19 Votes ,6.82 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Hello My BC Blog Friends   12/22/2007

When I post a blog, it doesn't mean you always have to comment on them, I appreciate you taking the time to just stop by and read and enjoy. On the other hand if you wish to do something for me then you can also send:

Cash, petrol, Cash, chocolates,

Cash, pizza , CAsh, Fruit, CASh,

BURGERS, CASH, FRESH FISH, CASH,

COKE, etc, CASH along with other gifts and did ...


1 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
be concerned about yourself   11/23/2007

You have to do more things for yourself because it is when you are happy and doing well that you can do better for others. If you don't take care of yourself, you can't help others because it is out of what you are that you give out others.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
lovegemini 59 M
4  Articles
Always look your best   10/18/2007

No matter what happens, when ever going out on a date be sure to look your best.Dont take it as an ordinary casual date.After the first date you could take every other thing casual.You will be judged by your date on your apperance.A mans look is his STATE of mind.


2 Comments, 108 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
genuineness   10/7/2007

when we walk with genuineness of heart there will always be some great measure of satisfaction left behind in the mind even though it might sometimes be painful during such genuine walk. so we must endeavour to always walk in genuineness of mind at all time


0 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
seeing beyond looks   9/5/2007

I have been writing to someone online for a few weeks now. We even talked on the phone. than at one point we exchanged pictures. I e-mailed her but I never heard from her again. Are people really just looking for what is on the outside? In my book, Those kinds of people are Shallow. Why do people do that?


8 Comments, 180 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
Lordoverall1988 32 M
9  Articles
What should I do on a......   9/4/2007

Hey everyone,
I wanted to know (sence I have never gone on a date ever in my life, nor kissed a girl) What I should do on a first date, and how to act. Where do I take my date? How many places should I take my date? If there are more then one place, then what place should be last before I take her home? Girls this is mainly open to you, because I need a girls point of view. (all ...


7 Comments, 135 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
So, i got his number   8/19/2007

And i called right away, BIG MISTAKE!, i stuck my foot in my mouth big time, i didnt' know what to say, i mumble and my mind drew a blank.I think i made a bad phone impression. What do you say the first time you call a men you're interested in?, should i rehearse a line?, what's a good phone ice-breaker?, and can i fix my phone bad impression with this guy?.[/[/I...


7 Comments, 104 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Thought For Today   7/23/2007

Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grown beyond what you were.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
Hisglory77 64 M
12  Articles
Dating in your church   7/10/2007

How does one actually go about getting a date with an available woman in your church. I've tried with two different women, and failed on both. The first one was polite and said no, and I never brought it up again, nor told anyone else I asked her out. We sometimes talk a bit after service or class, but nothing meaningful

The second one was actually offended, and asked I not contact her ...


4 Comments, 58 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
seriously_funny 35 M
2  Articles
Keep it real!   7/10/2007

Too many people make the big mistake of paralleling a first date with a job interview. You don't have to size up your date for marriage just yet! Relax, have fun, and be yourself! Trust me, the date will be a lot more enjoyable if you let loose and engage in light conversation. Stay away from the typical questions regarding work, family, and future plans. Believe me, you'll be doing your ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
chautauquagrl 56 F
3  Articles
Before internet dating...   7/10/2007

we all had to work much harder at this! you met through family and friends, girls waited for guys to call (and they didn't have caller ID, IMing, cell phones, etc) so they had to call and call if they wanted to meet someone. also, there were no 'compatibility profiles', etc. until you were in counseling before you married (if you pursued such a thing). Is this all good? i a too new to it to say. ...


0 Comments, 100 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Caunedhiel 42 F
1  Article
hmmmm   6/8/2007

i was so nervous and so scared. i was just hoping that he wouldn't kill me. fortunetaly, her just almost ran over a pedistration not me...hahaha! but he was cool enough and he took where ever i wanted to go and ate at whatever resturant i so desired. the end of the relationship, was bad for me because it ended. however, he thought we ended on a good note and the 9 months (ya nine months!) ...


2 Comments, 54 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
One Liners For Today   6/8/2007

Marathon runners with bad footwear suffer the agony of defeat.
When I get real bored, I like to drive downtown and get a great parking spot, then sit in my car and count how many people ask me if I'm leaving.
Yesterday I parked my car in a tow-away zone when I came back the entire area was missing.
It's a small world, but I wouldn't want to have to paint it. ...


2 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
bridget1967 56 F
6  Articles
pre- date nerves???   6/8/2007

hi guys i thought i would ask this one to see if anyone else has felt like me. it has been 4 months now that i have been on my own, and during this time i have not had any dates even though i have been asked on plenty i have turned them down as personally i felt it was way too soon. anyway recently on line i have met the most wonderful gentleman he is the same age as myself shares many of the ...


4 Comments, 86 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
mayflower26 49 F
1  Article
What Do You Take On Your Date?   6/8/2007

When you date someone what do you take with you? By this I mean do you take your chemistry filter and attraction barmeter and decide and base your decisions for love and romance on feelings alone? Or do you pack other valuable goodies such as your values?
I once read that people who make bad decisions in dating or are caught in a pattern of bad choices sometimes only take their feelings with ...


4 Comments, 110 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
ro_yal_ty 45 F
16  Articles
another date at the movies!!!!   3/20/2007

Hello people . thank you for the responses. <br> I just got back from a date and the fella got very upset with me because I didnt give him a kiss or hug or hold his hand in the movie theatre. he got mad at me and told me that I was an unafectionate person! <br> What do you think about that?


6 Comments, 291 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
chautauquagrl 56 F
3  Articles
Be a Good Listener   3/6/2007

Jesus said, "he who has ears let him hear"...OK a little out of context... Outgoing people tend to forget one of the most important keys about communicating with people. People generally LOVE to talk about themselves. This is something I had to learn early in my career as a consultant in the high-tech arena. Have you ever met someone and realized at the end of the evening, that you ...


3 Comments, 70 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
tulipsnsunshine 54 F
4  Articles
Date Disappointment   3/2/2007

I recently went on a date with someone I met from this site. What I thought was going to be a fun and exciting time getting to know this man and developing a friendship turned into a day of regret.
This man is a recent widower who claimed that after only three months that he was ready to get back into the dating game. I questioned this decision but thought that he was just ...


4 Comments, 391 Views, 38 Votes ,5.31 Score
TinaT 63 F
5  Articles
Now try this out for Size...   3/2/2007

"Ladies"...tell me how does it feel when the gentlemen you have went out with actually ask you if they may Kiss you? Just curious as how this makes one feel honestly.. I was simply amazed that this mannerism even existed anymore....Wow, How pleasant....Let me know your responses...


15 Comments, 369 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score