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bk_preaches 50 M
7  Articles
Is This The Type?   10/17/2005

That's the key to a first date. Our goal is not to determine if this is the person God wants us to spend the rest of our life with. The goal of a first date is to begin to ask the question: Is this the type of person I should be with?
In order to answer this question we must begin with communication. As I say in my profile, a man on a first date should treat a woman as if he in ...


4 Comments, 285 Views, 64 Votes ,8.29 Score
joydancing 72 F
30  Articles
No chemistry?   10/15/2005

So you chatted online, you heard their voice, you are excited to meet them. What to wear? What to say? Oh my! <br> You meet face to face for the first time and hmmmm after an hour, you are desperately searching for words to say, to thank them, to encourage them to keep seeking the "one". <br> NO REGRETS, each person I have met, an open book, with eyes that reflect ...


2 Comments, 267 Views, 35 Votes ,7.29 Score
Randombird 50 F
17  Articles
A good first date   9/13/2005

I just want to share this. I went on a first date a few weeks ago. The guy turned up asking me if I wanted a tellie (!) - it was too big for my place but what a kind gesture! Eventually he gave it to someone else. He brought me a bottle of wine although he doesn't drink anymore. He opened doors for me all day and paid for lunch. And when he went to leave, he kissed my hand! Wherever it ...


0 Comments, 518 Views, 55 Votes ,5.20 Score
Dating and courtship   9/13/2005

I agree with godsgirl1597 for searching the scriptures to discover that essentials of godly living.Titus 2v11 tells God's viewpoint about relationships in Christ. Godliness is inthing beloved. Never allow the devil mess you up and keep you at daggers drawn with God.This is my scriptural stand.


0 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
joydancing 72 F
30  Articles
Attractive Chemistry   8/6/2005

Attractive from the inside out is what I am talking about. That chemistry, that familiar and exciting recognition of a like mind, that inner stirring that can be trusted as His affirmation. The older we get, the harder it becomes to find someone completely compatible. However there are some characteristics that are essential. Mutual chemistry, that drawing, exciting attraction that happens ...


2 Comments, 129 Views, 19 Votes ,6.82 Score
joydancing 72 F
30  Articles
Gold Beach Oregon   7/9/2005

What place on the map shall go to meet a bridegroom half way? Living in California with an Oregon state of mind, specifically Gold Beach, Oregon where my sister-in-law graduated from Gold Beach Union High with a class of 50 students. The postmaster was her dad, and she got to name the road she lived on "Hound Rd". Yes it is a small, quaint town, the kind I long to retire in. Loving the ...


2 Comments, 65 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
The Most Important   7/8/2005

When it comes to first dating, the most important thing to look out for is the peace hat supassess human understanding, and not excitement, and sweet attraction and beauty, good command of words, and all the physical attribute that could turn eve the most firmly rooted rock. once that peaceis got everyother would follow. Butmost people rahter than look out for this peace which the holy ...


0 Comments, 82 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
seekingmyprince 45 F
7  Articles
Enjoy it   6/27/2005

My opinion is that first dates should be relatively short and under conditions where the two of you can talk and get to know one another IF you have only just recently met. On the other hand IF you've known each other forever AND just now beginning a "romantic" relationship the rules change. Do what you know you both enjoy and just have a great time.


0 Comments, 131 Views, 18 Votes ,3.53 Score
Home26 45 M
1  Article
God is Love   6/23/2005

If there ever was a proverbial "book of love" there's only one who could write it. From beginning to end all romantic ideas, ideals of intemacy, passions and romance uncorrupted and pure are God's original and self instigated standard for those whom he created to love and those to love him in return. <br> lol.. that was fun. I like to practice wordy thuroughness, though I'm ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
barum2b 32 M
1  Article
have you had one before!   5/28/2005

there is only one thing to life, this is that thing, we all need to have someone to rely on in a human form. it is this that makes people want to go out for a date, now it is the first date.what do you do ? who will buy if it is food? who will pay for the taxi , if it be in such an event? who will say what time to leave? i have more questions but anyway maybe becoz ihave to leave it ...


0 Comments, 162 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
HOW TO GET A DATE IN 24 HOURS :)   4/12/2005

Even if you're reading this Friday night, you can still hook up with someone in the next 24 hours if you follow these 12 easy rules. <br> Difficulty Level: Average Time Required: 15 minutes to 3.5 hours <br> Here's How: 1.Go get groceries. We all have to eat. 2.Coffee shops are notorious for being cozy places to meet people. 3.No one can resist petting the ...


0 Comments, 376 Views, 65 Votes ,3.79 Score
sillygalred 50 F
1  Article
Gentlemanly?   3/22/2005

It seems to me that there is some debate if you should open a woman's door on a date. I say yes, a resounding YES. To open the door is not a way of saying females are a weaker sex but to give respect like I would to my mother or father. The woman should take great pleasure when a door is opened for her because the gentleman is saying to you I respect you, and all women for without you we ...


1 Comments, 176 Views, 490 Votes ,8.56 Score
Reply To : Time to get back to Tradition   3/3/2005

I agree with these comments. It's a real shame that even the church today has been corrupted with the idea of pre-marital sex. Many christians think it's ok between two people in love or in a steady relationship. They forget that God's standards have not changed, neither has His word changed. We have ephesians 5 vs3&5 and so many others too. I think those of us who are determined to ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 62 Votes ,8.77 Score
jd2b 63 F
2  Articles
Time to get back to tradition   1/6/2005

I have been divorced for 8 years and not dated. I have been going to school, healing and getting my life on track with God. Now I am ready to meet people and think about a dating relationship with the idea of marriage in the future should God bless that. However, I am afraid that I will be rejected for my stand on pre-marital sex, yes, even in the church I see that many view it as o.k. ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 133 Votes ,9.32 Score