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bytemanderM
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bytemanderM's Information:
 
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   November 11, 1961
(62 years old)
Lives in:   Milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States
Relocate?:   Yes
Height:   5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking:   I don't drink at all
Race:   Mixed
Speaks:   English, Basic, C, C++, Java, XML/XSL, Assembly
Education:   Associate degree (2 years college)
Marital Status:   Single
Occupation:   Remaining Employed
Interests:   Cooking/Baking, Computer Programming, Fine Dining, Gardening, Healthy Living, Martial Arts, Music, Vegetarian cooking/eating
Level of Faith:   He is my life, my reason for being
Denomination:   Other Religion
Have Children:   Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children:   Happy with what we have
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   Glasses


   
62 year old Man in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States Looking For: Women

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[B]Three Steppenwolf gs[/B] [U][B]None of your doing[/B][/U] If I could show you where I've been Perhaps you'd know and never ask again Could I forget the things I've seen Perhaps I'd smile and we would be the same I can't return to where you're goin' What I have learned, it can't be undone Don't blame yourself, don't you know It was none of your doin' All my faith got caught in a maze Lost our dreams in a far a way place Now that I have seen you again Can't believe your world's still the same Sometimes I slip into the past When life was sweet I thought that it would always last It was so easy to believe that all is well They always catch the thief I can't return to where you're goin' What I have learned, it can't be undone Don't blame yourself, don't you know It was none of your doin' - Steppenwolf [U][B]Spiritual Fantasy[/B][/U] Humanity grew weary Of it's doubtful state of mind So it summoned from far and called from near All the wise men thought to be sincere To heal it's wounds and make it whole And the lead the way back to the soul The charlatans they stayed behind To count their bags of gold And some stayed away as if to say I know that my way's the only way Afraid to learn they may be wrong They preach their nothingness at home But the wise men came together with the hope to free man kind Of the rubbish that had gathered in god's name To embrace and trust each other in the search for the supreme And they found that all their teachings were the same And when at last the word went round That all were one and all Many returned to seek the light Nobody claimed that he was right It's sad to know it's just a g To dream and hope still can't be wrong [U][B]From Here to there Eventually[/B][/U] You've filled his house with things of gold While handing crumbs to the old and poor And then you preach about being pure And wonder why we're laughing In your old way you're trying to find us But we can't follow what's behind us Too much blind faith, it will blind us Though sometimes it's a blessing But I remember when I still embraced you A little prayer would ease my mind 'Til I saw that you hide from the misery outside so I left you behind But all the other teachings That I've tried were 'bout the same One grain of truth mixed with confusion caused by man But since you're around anyway May as well get you back on your feet again Get right back up on your feet Don't ya know we need somebody to Do some work down in the street You might just touch somebody Start to think about today Throw your robe and staff away And break away from yesterday Ah, tell me can we reach you I don't know, still we got to go From here to there eventually While others die up against the wall You take the time to tell us all 'Bout how we're not supposed to ball You really are a riot It's got nothin' to do with heaven or hell What I do in bed, I'm not gonna tell What I'm talking about you know damn well You really ought to try it

My Ideal Person
The same things Bytemander is.... It’s hard to say. I deal with others on a case by case basis. I can love almost everyone so I guess it’s all chemistry

What are your favorite television shows?: 24 even though it was total pro torture propaganda

Favorite films: The silence of the lambs, The Good Shepherd, The Matrix

What are your favorite musicians or bands?: I like any music that makes me feel something

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Please describe your faith. How important is your faith to you?
Its everything to me. It explains the world to me and gives me a direction to shoot for.

Which Scripture verses are most important to you?
I really like the 22nd psalm. It is a 'type' of Christs death on the cross and besides being very moving it also serves to document to me that the bible is very much divinely inspired.

Why is a Christian relationship so important to you?
Because it wouldnt be very good to hook up with someone who is going to drag me backwards to places I've already been since I came to hate them so much while I was there (spiritually speaking). My family didnt work because I was busy extending my 20's well into my 30's and now I have my head on straight. I should be alot farther along financially then I am. I'm looking for someone with their head on straight, who is either in the same boat, or willing to accept who and where I am

Where did you grow up? Where have you traveled? What are some of your favorite places to visit?
I grew up in a suburb of Philadelphia. In my 20's I moved to Milwaukee and started a family. But i still had a fair amount of wildness in me. Gradually I slowed down, partied less and paid more attention to God. This was a long slow process. My family disintegrated, my daughter became an adult and since then I've lived for a time in Iowa, Back to my hometown in PA for a few years and now I moved to Colorado after my Dad died last year.

What are your favorite activities both at Church and outside?
Worship duh.....

What is your day like? Describe your daily routine.
I go to work. I do what I need to do to keep my life running. I work on my hobbies, talk on the radio, listen to my podcasts or shortwave and then I read and go to bed. Thats the routine part..... yuk. Not very exciting usually.

What are some of your personal and spiritual goals?
To become a couple with a charming, attractive and spiritually whole woman To bear fruit for God and serve his kingdom. To not starve when I finally have to retire. To find good friends, that are worth having.


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