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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Zen Friendfinder.
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watchman1945 70 M
17  questions
Who created the heaven, the universe, the earth? God or Jesus. - 4/12/2009

The universe was created by one or the other. which one was sit?

2 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
SAYING “NO” - 4/10/2009

“My , if sinners entice you, do not consent.”Proverbs 1:10

Much has been written about the power of positive living. It is certainly wise to develop a positive attitude toward life in the realms of negatives. But there are times when it is necessary, even essential, to be able to say a decided No and stand by it at all cost. Some people find it hard to say No. ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
The Perfect Heart - 4/10/2009

One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
watchman1945 70 M
17  questions
What is finished? - 4/10/2009

When Jesus said it is finished what did He mean when he said that. These are question that I have never heard of any one asking.

0 response(s), 3 votes
watchman1945 70 M
17  questions
Were was the cross originated at? - 4/10/2009

The cross was invented 500 yrs before the Romans put it to use. And 700 yrs before Christ died on it. It comes from one person in the bible but not mention of the making only in history.

1 response(s), 3 votes
watchman1945 70 M
17  questions
why were the palms laid down in front Jesus - 4/10/2009

They were laid down because it was symbolic to what and were is it used in the bible?

1 response(s), 3 votes
watchman1945 70 M
17  questions
Who raised Jesus from the dead? - 4/9/2009

Was it God our did Jesus raise Himself? May be know one has thought of it.

0 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Are You Feeling Old Yet? - 4/8/2009

Just in case you weren't feeling too old today, this will certainly change things. Each year the staff at Beloit College in Wisconsin puts together a list to try to give the faculty a sense of the mindset of this year's incoming freshmen. Here's this year's list:

The people who are starting college this fall across The nation were born in 1989.

They are too young to remember the ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
The door - 4/5/2009

jesus said I am the door.

2 response(s), 0 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
Walk - 4/5/2009

let us walk in the light of the Lord.

1 response(s), 1 vote
Ladymarz_1 44 F
1  question
Dreams - 4/5/2009

How important are dreams and visions, in a christian persons life? I have many dreams, some people dismiss them, and others embrace them..

3 response(s), 10 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Terrorist groups operating in churches......... - 4/2/2009

Latest news reports are that five terrorist cell groups have been operating in many of our churches. They have been identified as.....Bin Sleepin, Bin Arguin, Bin Fightin, Bin Complainin, and Bin Missin. Their leader, Osama Bin Lucifer, trained these groups to destroy the Body of Christ. The plan is to come into the church disguised as Christians and to work within the church to discourage, ...

5 response(s), 6 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
U-Turns Allowed - 3/31/2009

“And he brought him to Jesus. And when Jesus looked at him, He said, You are Simon the of Jonah. You shall be called Cephas which is translated, A Rock.” John 1:42.

There is hardly a busy street through which you can drive without seeing the familiar sign No U-turn. Is that a law of life? Well, at first thought it may seem so. As much as we often would like to turn ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Who is Jesus to You? - 3/27/2009

To the architect He is the Chief Cornerstone.

To the artist He is the One Altogether Lovely.

To the astronomer He is the Bright and Morning Star.

To the baker He is the Bread of Life.

To the banker He is the Redeemer.

To the biologist He is the Life.

To the builder He is the Sure Foundation.

To the carpenter He is the Door.

...

2 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
It Is Your Choice - 3/27/2009

John is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, John was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this style really ...

1 response(s), 5 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
When The Clock Strikes Twelve - 3/23/2009

“And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed.” Romans 13:11.

In the center of Berne, Switzerland, there is a rather remarkable tower of antique architecture. On the front of this tower there is an enormous clock that has unusual mechanism. When the clock strikes twelve, all kinds of ...

2 response(s), 6 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
Eternal life - 3/23/2009

And behold, one came and said unto him good Master what good thing shall i do, thatI may have eternal life matthew-19:16

1 response(s), 0 votes
mermaid777a 63 F
1  question
What if a Scammer falls in love with one of his Scammees? - 3/21/2009

I was a victim of a game-player yet God miraculously lead me to see his multiple profiles all around the net, most on dating sites and some on pornography and sex sites, and more than one here on BC. My question is, supposing one of the women or men (who are online to play games with precious people's vulnerable lives)actually for once DOES fall in love with one of their scammees and has to ...

3 response(s), 8 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
WORRY IS YOUR ENEMY - 3/21/2009

“Be careful for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” Phil. 4:6.

The successful life is a balanced life, and includes thought, action, rest, and recreation. The chronic worrier is out of balance. Problems are puzzles offered us for solution, and we solve them by keeping in balance–alert ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
a good christian - 3/20/2009

How do you discribe a good christian.

0 response(s), 3 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
How does your life reflect God's forgiveness? - 3/19/2009

Brothers, listen! In this man Jesus there is forgiveness of sins. Acts 13:38 NLT

Be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you. Ephesians 4:32 NLT

Proclamation of the Good News of God's forgiveness is what my Christian testimony is all about. That includes forgiveness within my marriage. There is great testimony of ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
The List - 3/18/2009

Do you have anything to be thankful for? In his classic novel Robinson Crusoe, author Daniel Defoe has shipwrecked Crusoe take inventory of his life. He makes two lists. One is a list of his problems. The other is an inventory of that for which he can give thanks. A problem he writes is that he has no clothing. On his corresponding list he writes that the weather is warm and he really has ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Healing Hand of God - 3/18/2009

We grow with an understanding that God is an all Healing God, full of Love Mercy and Grace. Having the love of God in our lives we tend to look past the ugliness of this sometimes cruel world. Why is it that we see Healings of certain sicknesses and diseases, while others are still living with theirs?

I know and understand that God has a purpose for each of us, and is no respector of ...

4 response(s), 5 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Preferred tortures.......... - 3/17/2009

I think I would rather listen to fingernails scraping on a chalkboard, or walk on hot coals barefoot, or lay on a bed of nails than to read another complaint about the negative votes. Maybe I just dont get it, but really, what is the big deal about this? If people are coming here just to see who is getting a good or bad vote then they are coming for the wrong reason. And, if the people who are ...

0 response(s), 8 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Just Stay - 3/16/2009

A nurse took the tired, anxious serviceman to the bedside. "Your is here, " she said to the old man. She had to repeat the words several times before the patient's eyes opened. Heavily sedated because of the pain of his heart attack, he dimly saw the young uniformed Marine standing outside the oxygen tent. He reached out his hand. The Marine wrapped his toughened fingers around the old ...

1 response(s), 5 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Submitting To One Another - 3/13/2009

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. -- Ephesians 5:21

Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. ‒ Proverbs 31:11

We got married. It was the most unlikely match, yet we knew without a doubt God brought us together to be married. We had both experienced a great deal of pain and hardship in our past relationships, but God used ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
How much do you see God in his creation? - 3/13/2009

Have I looked at the sun shining in the skies, or the moon walking down its silver pathway, and been secretly enticed to worship them? If so, I should be punished by the judges, for it would mean I had denied the God of heaven. Job 31:26-28 NLT

We understand the entire universe was formed at God's command, that what we now see did not come from anything that can be seen. Hebrews 11:3 ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
God Gift. - 3/13/2009

Everyone of God is born with a gift.

0 response(s), 3 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
christian - 3/12/2009

Did, nt the bible says christian must greet each others with a holy kiss.

0 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
The Lesson Of The Pearls - 3/11/2009

Pearls are a product of pain. When a grain of sand pierces the shell of an oyster, all the otherwise dormant resources within the tiny oyster respond to the foreign irritant by caring for that sensitive spot. Over time, the sand particle is covered by healing fluids, and the wound becomes a pearl. That's true for you, too. When hardships invade your life, allow God's Spirit to shape your ...

1 response(s), 2 votes