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his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
If you can........ - 6/26/2009

If you can start the day without caffeine,

If you can always be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains,

If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles,

If you can eat the same food every day and be grateful for it,

If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time,

If you can take criticism and blame without ...

5 response(s), 6 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
"The morning star" - 6/26/2009

In Revelation 2:28 it says, "And I will give him the morning star." What does it mean?

2 response(s), 2 votes
archangel1954 68 M
17  questions
It's Not Too Good To Be True; But It Surely Is Too Good To Be Missed - 6/24/2009

This is an article by Keith Blades. Hope you enjoy it. -------------------------------------------





It's Not Too Good To Be True; But It Surely Is Too Good To Be Missed ------------------------------------------

Sometimes when people hear that God is offering to save them from the debt and penalty of their sins if they will simply trust in the Lord Jesus Christ ...

3 response(s), 8 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Revelation chapters 2 and 3 - 6/18/2009

It refers to the "Nicolaitans" and their false teaching. What does it mean?

3 response(s), 2 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Faith and Tragedy - 6/15/2009

Faith and Tragedy “Although the fig tree shall not blossom...the flock shall be cut off from the fold...yet I will rejoice” Habakkuk 3:17-18

FAITH will not purchase for the Christian immunity from the sorrows and tragedies of life. It will, however, empower him to triumph in them. Scripture and experience unite to teach that tragedy strikes in the life of just and unjust ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Angelhart1953 68 F
24  questions
Hi all - 6/13/2009

Hi everyone, it has been some time since I have, posted anything. As I did become engaged, not might I add to any one from this sight. However sadly, it did not work out for us, so here I am back again. Regards all your sister in Christ Angel heart1953

0 response(s), 0 votes
Marianne - 6/13/2009

Marianne,

YOU SAID: "I have to add this to my list above because I just read in another thread that Jeremiah states July 25th as his and his "beloved's" one year anniversary. That is a HUGE lie as in May when Jeremiah and I were having one of our phone conversations (the ones where I was supposedly romantically fantasizing about him) we talked about the lady he is involved with. I asked ...

16 response(s), 21 votes
santo82 33 M
1  question
People at big church - 6/7/2009

I am dissapointed with this dating site, I joined b/c I wanted to meet a christian women. I been observing differrent women on this site that have multiple profiles with differrent names, age, and locations. It seems like this is a only a joke and people are only playing games with each other.

5 response(s), 7 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Afterward Peace - 6/6/2009

“Now no chastening for the present seems to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless after it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.” Hebrews 12:11.

The chastening experience is common to the Christian. Often we cannot see beyond the dark clouds to the sun shining on the other side. A tragic experience came to the American ...

2 response(s), 6 votes
Mary Magdalene - 5/30/2009

Her Character: Though mistakenly characterized as a in many writings, the Bible says only that Mary was possessed by seven demons. She probably suffered a serious mental or physical illness from which Jesus delivered her.She is a beautiful example of a woman whose life was poured out in response to God's extravagant grace.

Her Sorrow: To watch Jesus'agony at Calvary.

Her Joy: ...

4 response(s), 5 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
lie - 5/22/2009

Why do men lie

4 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
KEEP THE CHANNEL CLEAR - 5/19/2009

“Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.“ James 4:8.

It is not uncommon for persons to wonder why God does not reveal Himself to them in a special way. I suppose that at one time or another we all have longed for such an experience. And probably the main obstruction to this ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Casting out demons - 5/19/2009

Here we have seen by the laying on of hands and casting demons out of people in the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ that these people are delivered from the demons and set free. How many practice this?

6 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
GRACE - 5/17/2009

Let us note them at the very beginning-‘grace’ and’ peace’. ’Grace be to you, and peace, from God our Father, and from the Lord Jesus Christ’ (Ephesians 1:2). No two words are more important in the whole of our faith than ’grace’ and’ peace’. Yet, how lightly we tend to drop them off our tongues without stopping to consider ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Divorce - 5/14/2009

I met a lady who was crushed when her husband divorced her. She couldn't forgive herself. But I told her that God does. We read 1 John 1:9 "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from ALL unrighteousness."

Our God is a God of mercy and grace. There is foregiveness through our Lord Jesus Christ. Praise be to God.

2 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Comments on Ephesians Chapter 3 - 5/13/2009

Ephesians 3:1-6 1 for this reason I, Paul, the prisoner of Christ Jesus for the sake of you Gentiles- 2 Surely you have heard about the administration of God’s grace that was given to me for you, 3 that is, the mystery made known to me by revelation, as I have already written briefly. 4 In reading this, then, you will be able to understand my insight into the mystery of Christ, 5 which was ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Revival - 5/13/2009

Revival (Part 1) Duncan Campbell described revival as ‘a community saturated with God.’ “Revival is a church word; it has to do with God’s people. You cannot revive the world; the world is dead in trespasses and sins; you cannot revive a corpse. But you can revitalize where there is life.” ‒ Douglas Brown 1922 Evan Roberts made the same claim in Wales in ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
A Reason, A Season Or A Lifetime - 5/11/2009

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Our Spiritual Wealth - 5/11/2009

In the early 1900s, there was a woman named Hettie Green who was known for her miserly ways. So much so, that she was called America's greatest miser. But Hettie Green was worth a lot of money. When she died in 1916, she left an estate valued at $100 million. Still, Hettie Green lived as through she were poverty-stricken. She would eat cold oatmeal every day to save the expense of heating ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
LET US HONOR OUR MOTHERS - 5/11/2009

“She watches over the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her.” Proverbs 31:27, 28.

“Mothers Day” is the one day of the year which we set aside to honor our mother in a special way. Someone has said that most of the beautiful things in the world come in ...

2 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
What is your concept of heaven? - 5/9/2009

"How happy are those who fear the Lord–all who follow his ways! You will enjoy the fruit of your labor. How happy you will be! How rich your life! Psalm 128:1-2

Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that there is a God and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him. Hebrews 11:6

He died for us so that we can live with him forever, whether we are dead or alive at ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Matthew 18:11 - 5/6/2009

Last night in our Bible study when the leader said to turn to Matthew 18:11 "For the of man is come to save that which was lost." It was in both the Authorized King James Version and Revised Standard Bible, but not included in the NIV version. How could the NIV not include this verse?

2 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
God Has Brought Me Out For A Reason - 5/2/2009

God has brought me out for a reason. I survived because he has a plan for me. All my bad relationships, all the suicidal thoughts, the bad credit, the repossessions, the death of my loved ones, the back stabbing from my friends, the negative thoughts or the lack of support. I made it because I am blessed! I release and let go of all past hurts, misunderstandings and grudges because I am ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Praising God For Closed Doors - 5/2/2009

We need to learn to praise the Lord as much for a closed door as we do an open door. The reason God closes doors is because He has not prepared anything over there for us. If he didn't close the wrong door, we would never find the right door. God directs our path through the closing and opening of doors. Once a door closes, it forces you to change your course. Another door closes, it forces ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Forgiveness - 5/2/2009

A letter written to a man on death row by the Father of the man whom the man on death row had killed:

You are probably surprised that I, of all people, am writing a letter to you, but I ask you to read it in its entirety and consider its request seriously. As the Father of the man whom you took part in murdering, I have something very important to say to you. I forgive you. ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
GOD DOESN’T CHANGE - 4/30/2009

“For I am the Lord, I change not; therefore ye sons of Jacob are not consumed.” Mal. 3:6.

Our friends often change their attitude toward us. Those who were once our trusted colleagues may through misunderstanding or mali­cious gossip cease to hold us in high esteem. Such experiences are pain­ful, but it is a comfort to know that God never changes! We can come to Him ...

4 response(s), 3 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Witnessing To Others - 4/27/2009

Many of us are intimidated by the fact of trying to witness to others. Many times we make this more complicated then it needs to be. Another point is that we tend to say or recite more then needs to be said. If I may share something in order to assist you in your witnessing is a very simple formula that I have used over the years. The first thing is to be prepared. Yes it is ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Sin a hindrance to answered prayer - 4/27/2009

"If I regard (cherish) iniquity in my heart, THE LORD WILL NOT HEAR ME" (Psalm 66:1.

3 response(s), 1 vote
mag414 75 F
27  questions
What do you do. when ask for money - 4/27/2009

what do you do when some one you dont know asking you for help with money.

2 response(s), 3 votes
watchman1945 70 M
17  questions
10 conditions of answered prayer - 4/26/2009

In order to have a prayer answered one most have the 10

1 response(s), 1 vote