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jettys 68 M
4  questions
Nudity& sexuallity - 11/27/2009

God gave us our bodies& sexuality Is it wrong to show that we take pride in what God gave us! We keep posting pics & they keep denying them! Alice& cuckhold Don

6 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Whom to invite for dinner - 11/26/2009

Then Jesus said to his host, 'When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or relatives, or your rich neighbors...But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.'" Luke 14:12-14 (NIV)

Devotion: My husband and ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
animals - 11/24/2009

which animals is your favourit

1 response(s), 0 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
  - 11/19/2009

why do parent leave there suffer

2 response(s), 2 votes
solution 44 M
1  question
ELECTRIC CURRENT - 11/16/2009

What is responsible for the flow that looks like electric current that comes out of the body of a believer when he or she is anointed?Pls give your reasons with proves

1 response(s), 3 votes
jettys 68 M
4  questions
Is enoying SEX & sexuality evil ? - 11/10/2009

A lot of religious teachings seem to say the only reason to have sex is to make babys!(not for Enjoyment)Even though when God made us he incorporated the love of sex!(& besides women can't have babys forever)(are our husbands supposed to leave us for Furtile women? As long as one isn't hurting anyone they why should differant ways to enjoy sex be wrong? As time ravages our bodies we ...

6 response(s), 6 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
The Most Perfect Man..... - 11/8/2009

May 19, 1928 - Oct 31, 2009....My dad went into the loving arms of Jesus yesterday evening.

Thank you to everyone for the prayers for my dad and for my family, it is so greatly appreciated. I would like to share something special between my dad and myself. At the end of a phone conversation or as I would be leaving his home instead of saying "I love you" either he or I would look at the ...

7 response(s), 3 votes
To Jeremiah1five - 11/6/2009

You know, when I came over to the blogs and started reading I was really hoping to see a changed man, Jeremiah. A man full of love, compassion, mercy, grace of Jesus Christ. A man dedicated to encouraging and lifting up his brothers and sisters in the Lord. Yet, I see your still the same ol man condemning his brothers and sisters when they don’t agree with you....

2 response(s), 13 votes
Hello - 11/6/2009

I have not been to the sight for many many weeks now and dropped by yesterday to see who is still here and peruse the Magazine articles.



Interestingly enough 4gvnRN had a post and poll on this very topic of who is still here. It was nice to see old faces and the new as well.



Most surprising is ...

19 response(s), 30 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
Days - 10/31/2009

do you believe that we are living in the last days ?

4 response(s), 2 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Next Time......... - 10/31/2009

The next time you feel like GOD can't use you, just remember.....



Noah was a drunk

Abraham was too old

Isaac was a daydreamer

Jacob was a liar

Leah was ugly

Joseph was abused

Moses had a stuttering problem

Gideon was afraid

Samson had long hair and was a womanizer

Rahab was a

Jeremiah and ...

2 response(s), 5 votes
jivi48125 50 M
1  question
Can Eunuchs enter into the kingdom of god. - 10/28/2009

As eunuchs are not in common gender.They themself get operated and try to be femenine.

5 response(s), 1 vote
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Lets get it right.....Jeremiah1five! - 10/28/2009

I was reading some of the things you wrote in your blogs to other BC members. Your always freaking out, wonder what your blood pressure is like. But I have to straighten some things out that you are saying, exagerating about. Lets start with.....

You said....."Because another member had stood with me, you and his4ever2007 searched her name and found personal and private ...

3 response(s), 10 votes
fornowandforever 67 F
1  question
Why do men lie about how tall they are? - 10/17/2009

I am a 5'6" woman and would like a relationship with a tall man but I am open to others too. I would at least like to look at a man in the eye. <br> Several of the men I have met had either said they were 5'10" or 5'6" when I met them they were 2 to 3" shorter than they said? Do they really think they are as tall as they say? <br> They are very sweet gentle men and ...

11 response(s), 0 votes
Turning the other cheek ? - 10/13/2009

Jesus teaching on turning the other cheek does not mean submission to evil. Take a look at the Scripture:



Matthew 5:39..."But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also."



BUT!



Take this passage and place it in first century Israel. Master and slaves are mentioned. How ...

2 response(s), 7 votes
Please Do Not Respond. - 10/11/2009

Now, my dear brethrens, I make public my fairwell. I cannot say that I will miss any of you, for I am always with you in Spirit. Thus, it is impossible for me to miss anyone. For those of you who have received, or even given consideration to the things I have shared, I thank you profoundly with all my heart. For those of you who have not, my heart goes all out for you. For while others are ...

2 response(s), 8 votes
Y They hate Christiens - 10/11/2009

Why are many people whom you tell that your a Christien resentful of you

1. because they would have to stop doing wrong when they enjoy it.

2. Or, Because they would have to start being accountable.

3 Or, they have to believe that they do not know everything anymore.

What say you folk ney or yea

6 response(s), 4 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
The ........ - 9/26/2009

A wealthy man and his loved to collect rare works of art. They had everything in their collection from Picasso to Raphael. They would often sit together and admire the great works of art.

When the Vietnam conflict broke out, the went to war. He was very courageous and died in battle while rescuing another soldier. The father was notified and grieved deeply for his only .

About ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
sweety616 62 F
1  question
suicide - 9/26/2009

If a person commits suicide will they be in heaven if he/she is a Christian?

7 response(s), 3 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Heaven or Hell?............ - 9/24/2009

While walking down the street one day a US senator is tragically hit by a truck and dies. His soul arrives in heaven and is met by St. Peter at the entrance.

“Welcome to heaven, ” says St. Peter. “Before you settle in, it seems there is a problem. We seldom see a high official around these parts, you see, so we’re not sure what to do with you.” ...

0 response(s), 3 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Blessed............ - 9/24/2009

The way to be blessed?.....Read the Bible.

The way to be really blessed?.....Do what it says.



Blessings, His4ever.

0 response(s), 5 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Character - 9/10/2009

“A new command I give you; Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”(John 13:34-35) Love is the most telling hallmark of an authentic Christian disciple. Of course, knowledge and service stem from the growth process, too. But without love, your credibility both inside and ...

2 response(s), 2 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Concerning Dying Ones Hair........ - 9/10/2009

There is a blog called "Should Fieldlilies Dye Her Hair?" I have been reading this blog and have rolled my eyes, laughed, said OMG, and shook my head. But I just have to say something because there are scriptures being used there that are totally taken out of context.

Jeremiah1five said this...."God ordained ones makeup. To change that makeup is to defy God's plan for your life." ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Did? - 9/4/2009

Did Jesus ever laugh?

1 response(s), 2 votes
Authenticity of paul? - 8/27/2009

Has anyone else heard the validity of what Paul wrote being questioned?

I once has a friend question the validity of the entire bible because most of it was written by Paul, a man whom was a Roman soldier.

...And with him being a military man, he may have used manipulation to "sneak into the back door" of Christianity and may have been a spy in order to deceive and take over, ...

4 response(s), 5 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Not doing what you know you should do is sin! - 8/27/2009

"Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin" (James 4:17).

1 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Humility - 8/27/2009

"Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He shall lift you up."

0 response(s), 1 vote
mag414 75 F
27  questions
praise - 8/25/2009

Why do we give praise.

2 response(s), 1 vote
jeremiah1five 63 M
92  questions
The Lord's Supper: Pt. 3 "The Invitation" - 8/23/2009

Only those who believe in Christ and trust Him for their salvation should participate in the Lord's supper, because it is a sign of being a Christian and continuing in the Christian life.

Paul warns those who who eat and drink unworthily face serious consequences:

1 Cor. 11:29-30..."For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not ...

31 response(s), 25 votes
"Turning the other cheek?" - 8/21/2009

Jesus teaching on turning the other cheek does not mean submission to evil. Take a look at the Scripture:



Matthew 5:39..."But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also."



BUT!



Take this passage and place it in first century Israel. Master and slaves are mentioned. How ...

12 response(s), 4 votes