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364  questions
Luke 15:18 "Father, I have sinned" - 6/19/2010

Luke 15:18 Father, I have sinned. It is quite certain that those whom Christ has washed in His precious blood need not make a confession of sin, as culprits or criminals, before God the Judge, for Christ has for ever taken away all their sins in a legal sense, so that they no longer stand where they can be condemned, but are once for all accepted in the Beloved; but having become , and offending ...

3 response(s), 1 vote
shyguy212 59 M
3  questions
so much love wishes.. - 6/9/2010

What a joy to know love Like the love I share today What a feeling to be blessed Since that day you looked my way It's like a script from my dreams When you walked into my life And there's nothing I want more Than to have you as my wife.

So I say with these words I will pledge my love to you And I swear with my heart That all my love is true With the warmth of my arm I will hold you at ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
siciliangirl 54 F
98  questions
Do You Understand What Needs to be Known? Part 2 - 6/7/2010

Understand What Needs to Be Known Part 2





Understand what Needs To Be Known [3045] Having experience because of acknowledgement (Strong’s Interlinear). This Hebrew word [3045] is all about what you need to consider, if you are going to understand with certainty, what needs to be acknowledged; and then experienced; and then declared. Now because knowing is attained ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
RISE UP AND WALK - 6/3/2010

“RISE UP AND WALK”

Then Peter said, Silver and gold have I none: but such as I have give I thee: In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth rise up and walk. —Acts 3:6

As we have seen, there is considerable confusion in the minds of men and women with respect to the message of the Gospel, and that is the tragedy of tragedies. This is, of course, the masterpiece of ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
single07 47 F
2  questions
SELF PLEASURE - 6/2/2010

PLEASE CAN ANYONE ENLIGHTEN ME TO ANY BIBLICAL REFERENCE ON MASTURBATION? I KNOW TOUCHY SUBJECT BUT AM SURE OTHERS WANT TO KNOW ALSO. HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 16 YEARS AND NOW AM ALONE AND HAVE TO DEAL WITH THESE NEW FEELINGS. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!...

5 response(s), 4 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Isaiah 55:8-9 - 5/29/2010

For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways, " declares the LORD. "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts." (Isaiah 55:8-9) Faith relies on the person of God and trusts that His ways are right! Faith reads God's word and says, "This is what God says". But so often our minds jump in and say, "God ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Why should I help the poor? - 5/23/2010

Oh, the joys of those who are kind to the poor. The Lord rescues them in times of trouble. The Lord protects them and keeps them alive. He gives them prosperity and rescues them from their enemies. The Lord nurses them when they are sick and eases their pain and discomfort. Psalm 41:1-3 NLT

He will rescue the poor when they cry to him, he will help the oppressed, who have no one to ...

4 response(s), 6 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Courage Is Born Of Heaven - 5/23/2010

“That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man.” Eph. 36.

Our age is one of "do it yourself." This slogan is emphasized in almost every phase of life. What used to belong to the expert or pro­fessional is now accomplished by the untrained. Many today have cour­age to tackle tasks that a ...

5 response(s), 3 votes
jettys 68 M
4  questions
Seperation of Church & State - 5/6/2010

In your opinon--How much should church & state be seperate--Or should they be intertwined? Please explain your thoughts in detail! Cuckhold Don

1 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
NOAH - 4/25/2010

NOAH Hebrews 11: 7 “By faith Noah, being warned of God of things not seen as yet, moved with fear, prepared an ark to the saving of his house: by which he condemned the world, and become heir of the righteousness which is by faith.” • It is possible for us to know that we are saved, and have assurance of salvation, and know that we are the of God. We are meant to have full assurance of ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Humility, Worship and our Adversary the Devil - 4/19/2010

Humility, Worship and our Adversary the Devil We are God's servants and living a life that worships God. But while we are living a life of worship we are being stalked by the most deadly and harmful predator in existence. His name is Satan and he is our Adversary. His goal is to devour us, making us stop serving and worshiping God. That is the warning we see in God's Word. And what does God say ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
The Authority of the Bible - 4/12/2010

The Authority of the Bible

We come now to consider the whole question of what the Bible has to say about itself. This is inevitable if we follow the biblical sequence in our consideration of the doctrines, but we also arrive at it in this way. As we have seen, the ultimate end and object of all who are concerned about the Christian faith is to know God. We have also seen that if we are ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Prosperity Preaching - 4/5/2010

Prosperity Preaching: Deceitful and Deadly

When I read about prosperity-preaching churches, my response is: "If I were not on the inside of Christianity, I wouldn't want in." In other words, if this is the message of Jesus, no thank you. Luring people to Christ to get rich is both deceitful and deadly. It's deceitful because when Jesus himself called us, he said things like: "Any one of ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
A Personal Relationship by Lloyd-Jones - 4/4/2010

A Personal Relationship Now when he was in Jerusalem at the passover, in the feast day, many believed in his name, when they saw the miracles which he did. But Jesus did not commit himself unto them, because he knew all men, and needed not that any should testify of man: for he knew what was in man. John 2:23 – 25 We come back to a further study of this incident recorded ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Husbands love your wives - 3/23/2010

Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church. What a golden example Christ gives to His disciples! Few masters could venture to say, "If you would practise my teaching, imitate my life;" but as the life of Jesus is the exact transcript of perfect virtue, He can point to Himself as the paragon of holiness, as well as the teacher of it. The Christian should take ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Close the door to the devil - 3/22/2010

Close the Door to the Devil

When Jesus faced off with the Devil His weapons were simple—three carefully chosen verses from God's Holy Word. As we open to Revelation 2, we find that same Jesus writing to a church that had learned the same lesson—how to use God's Word to overcome and resist the devil, his demons, and their own flesh. As we open to these verses we are reading Christ's ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Blessed are the peacemakers - 3/19/2010

Matthew 5:9 Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the of God. This is the seventh of the beatitudes: and seven was the number of perfection among the Hebrews. It may be that the Saviour placed the peacemaker the seventh upon the list because he most nearly approaches the perfect man in Christ Jesus. He who would have perfect blessedness, so far as it can be enjoyed on earth, must ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Do not worry then - 3/11/2010

Do not worry then, saying, 'What will we eat?' or 'What will we drink?' or 'What will we wear for clothing?' For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. (Matthew 6: 31-33) When you put God first in your life and follow His call, you never ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
What God says to look for in a good man - 3/3/2010

What God Says to Look for In a Man The outlook for a joy filled lifelong marriage is bleak without the Lord! To help us, God has left a colorful guide to marriage; it is a timeless list of personalities to avoid at all costs, and personalities to be attracted toward. What do you want most of your years of life to be like? Do you want them to be hard times of tension, agony, frustration or pain? ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
The Ten Commandments - 3/3/2010

The Ten Commandments are the foundation of the moral laws for all mankind, they are the one portion of our Bible written by the finger of God (Ex. 31:1. Verse for Today: The Lord our God is one Lord (Deut. 6:4). The Hebrew word translated our God is Elohenu, meaning "our Gods." This, then, is what Moses said: Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God(s) is one Lord (6:4). The word one ('echad) expresses ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
What God Says To Look For In A Woman - 3/3/2010

What God Says to Look For In A Woman

Attributes of an Ungodly Young Lady Moms and dads, what are you raising? Is the young lady who lives with you heading towards being a wise woman or a foolish one? To find out, hold your 's direction of life up to the truths of God's Word and see what He has to say. Not the culture, not their peers, not the latest fads, but the timeless truths of God's ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Mark 10:21 - 3/1/2010

Mark 10:21 Take up the cross, and follow Me. You have not the making of your own cross, although unbelief is a master carpenter at cross-making; neither are you permitted to choose your own cross, although self-will would fain be lord and master; but your cross is prepared and appointed for you by divine love, and you are cheerfully to accept it; you are to take up the cross as your chosen badge ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Why are alot of things in the Bible written in parables? - 2/28/2010

The Bible is meant to be a guide for us to live our lives by but so many things in it are written in proverbs or parables. How are we to understand and intrepret it? Each pastor or prophet intreprets and spreads the word in his own way. I wish it was more user friendly.

3 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Trust the God Who Performs His Word - 2/23/2010

Trust the God Who Performs His Word

The Bible you hold in your hands, and have backed up in the memory/storage spaces of your mind, is the Plan of God for your life; God's Word is single most valuable commodity that you can hold.

This Book holds the only key, to making the right decisions about: • How to know God's choice for a mate, and for your career; • How to care for an ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
How Godly Dads Can Bless Their - 2/22/2010

How Godly Dads Can Bless Their

God's Word declares that He has chosen husbands to lead their homes and marriages with Christ like love. Jesus showed us how to love by His example to His disciples. Part of what every born again husband and father will stand before Christ's Throne and explain is how he did at blessing his wife and family with Christ's sacrificial love.

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0 response(s), 2 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
The Comforter - 2/20/2010

John 14:16 He shall give you another Comforter, that He may abide with you for ever. Great Father revealed Himself to believers of old before the coming of His , and was known to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob as the God Almighty. Then Jesus came, and the ever-blessed in His own proper person, was the delight of His people's eyes. At the time of the Redeemer's ascension, the Holy Spirit became the ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
The cross is foolishness to those who are perishing - 2/19/2010

For the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God... For since in the wisdom of God the world through its wisdom did not come to know God, God was well pleased through the foolishness of the message preached to save those who believe. For indeed Jews ask for signs and Greeks search for wisdom; but we preach Christ crucified, ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
He is an addict . - 2/11/2010

Her husband is an addict !

I know a young woman married 6 years ago whose husband has been addicted to drugs and lost most of his wealth because of that.This has affected badly his married life . She is now separated from him and lives in another house and asks for divorce . What is your opinion ?

Any comment ? Opinion ?
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1 response(s), 0 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Song of Solomon 1:7 - 2/9/2010

Song of Solomon 1 Tell me . . . where Thou feedest, where Thou makest Thy flock to rest at noon. These words express the desire of the believer after Christ, and his longing for present communion with Him. Where doest Thou feed Thy flock? In Thy house? I will go, if I may find Thee there. In private prayer? Then I will pray without ceasing. In the Word? Then I will read it diligently. In Thine ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
MMINT 34 F
364  questions
Satan wants you to doubt God's Word - 1/28/2010

Satan Wants YOU to Doubt God's Word

Satan Doesn't Want You To Listen To God's Word Today

Satan is in an all out attack to make you and me doubt, reject and become deafened to the voice of Jesus. We are not listening to the voice of Jesus when we think wrongly about God! Will you listen to that voice? Adam and Eve chose to not listen to God. Instead of following God obediently ...

1 response(s), 3 votes