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siciliangirl 55 F
98  questions
FAITH Part 12 - 1/26/2009

There is a work out there that is speaking in the name of the LORD (Jm 5:10); This work is enduring persecutions, and afflictions because it has been given patience from the Lord to show mercy, and be compassionate (Jm 5:11).

Believers who are doing any other kind of work (than this work which endures through much longsuffering patience because of God’s mercy) fall into ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Life - 1/25/2009

Life

Life can seem ungrateful and not always kind. Life can pull at your heartstrings and play with your mind. Life can be blissful and happy and free. Life can put beauty in the things that you see.

Life can place challenges right at your feet. Life can make good of the hardships we meet. Life can overwhelm you and make your head spin. Life can reward those determined to win. ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Jesus Wept - 1/25/2009

Crystal tears fall from His eyes

When He looks upon the earth.

For what He sees breaks His heart

We live in abject dearth.

He died on the cross so all could see

The glories He created for you and me.

But if we do not believe He died for us

Then He cries, and cries for us.

The crystal tears roll down His cheeks

They ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
The Cloak of Humility - 1/24/2009

“Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” 1Peter 5:5.

Just what is humility? Can you think of a truly humble person? Perhaps you can, but this person will be the exception. In fact, few people really want to be ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Happy Birthday Chick Pea........ - 1/24/2009

Hi Mel,

I know its not til tomorrow (25th) but I thought we could get this celebration started a little early!

God's many, many wonderful blessings to you on this happy day. Lots of love and hugs...His4ever, Marianne

1 response(s), 0 votes
"Jesus Loves You?" - 1/22/2009

In dealing with popular phrases, and man made sayings that are commonly used to talk about Jesus, once comes to mind that truly annoys me, and makes me question the validity. The phrase of "Jesus loves you." Sure this can sound biblical since the name of Jesus is being used and also to describe something that he might say, but is this really true?

Many things can sound biblical, but ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
moon98 36 F
4  questions
Picture - 1/22/2009

Why some of us dont post their pictures?

2 response(s), 2 votes
droc171717 49 M
4  questions
How do I deal with the pain???!!!! - 1/21/2009

Im sure thaat each and everyone of us has had to endure the pain of a break up, There may even be some of us who are dealing with that pain even today.

I am about 8 months out of along-term relationship. This relationship carried the epitamy of "highs and lows". There were times when I wondered if GOD cared about the outcome and then I would go days, even months actually feeling his hand ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
moon98 36 F
4  questions
Your self?? - 1/21/2009

What do you think about your self?

0 response(s), 1 vote
mag414 75 F
27  questions
dating - 1/20/2009

do we look at the outward apperant of a person, or get to know the person

4 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Who Am I? - 1/20/2009

Your best friend or greatest enemy, I am your greatest companion. I am your greatest helper or your heaviest burden. I will push you onwards or drag you down to failure. I am completely at your command. Half the things you do, you might as well turn over to me and I'll do them quickly and correctly. I'm easily managed, but you must be firm with me. Show me exactly how you want something done ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Is your life dreary or joyful? - 1/20/2009

[Jesus said, ] "I have loved you even as the Father has loved me. Remain in my love. When you obey me, you remain in my love, just as I obey my Father and remain in his love. I have told you this so you will be filled with joy. Yes, your joy will overflow!" John 15:9-11 NLT

Why should joy flow from obedience? Because of the "never say die" misconception in some quarters that the ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
A Letter To You - 1/18/2009

The words you are about to read are true. They will change your life if you let them. For they come from the heart of God. God loves you. And He is the Father you have been looking for all your life. This is His Love Letter to you!

My ,

You may not know me, but I know everything about you. Psalm 139:1 I know when you sit down and when you rise up. Psalm 139:2 I am familiar ...

0 response(s), 3 votes
loki2007 69 F
103  questions
The Tragedy Of The Titanic - 1/17/2009

Proverbs24:11 Rescue those being led away to death, hold back those staggering toward slaughter.

I sure most of you already heard the story of the "Titanic"by now.At the time of her making the R.M.s.Titanic was considered unsinkable, the crowning achievement of human technology in her time.Their were some of the most owerful and wealthiest movers and shakers aboard that boat together ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Trust In God - 1/17/2009

“Preserve me, O God: for in Thee do I put my trust.” Ps.16:1

The story is told of a little girl who was about to be operated on by a nose and throat specialist. The doctor could not use an anesthetic because of the patient’s physical condition. He knew that it would be hard, and he did his best to prepare her for the inevitable pain. Taking a fifty-cent ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
warriorwoman 64 F
43  questions
Can we be TOO GOOD? - 1/17/2009

Only you can find the understanding of self from within self. Don't hang onto words that others have spoken to you as a means of searching or finding, only take them as words. If the words spoken over us or to us find a place within our being to assist us in our journey, the understanding will come, however some words can hinder our growth if we hang on to them too tightly in our search to ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
445223 49 M
2  questions
A NICE AND HONEST MAN - 1/16/2009

MEET YOUR WORLD AT: SPOILEDCHILD.CA

0 response(s), 4 votes
445223 49 M
2  questions
A NICE AND HONEST MAN - 1/16/2009

MEET YOUR WORLD AT: SPOILEDCHILD.CA

0 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
THE GENUINE ARTICLE - 1/16/2009

Whatsoever things are true, Whatsoever things are honest, Whatsoever things are just, Whatsoever things are pure, Whatsoever things are lovely, Whatsoever things are of good report ............think on these things. PHILIPPIANS 4:8

Father, I can see in my daily activities how people strive for easy perfection, a mathematical "proof" that solves a problem in the least number of steps, a ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
We Are To Cherish God’s Promises - 1/15/2009

But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things that I said to you. John 14:26. A discouraged invalid lay in her hospital bed ready to give up the fight. “There is no use trying to cheer me up, ” she said to her friend who came to visit her. “God has gone off and left ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
GodChosenone2 48 F
1  question
Where are all the good man? - 1/14/2009

I would like to know if I'm the only one which is having an hard time finding a good Man.

2 response(s), 1 vote
moon98 36 F
4  questions
LOVE - 1/14/2009

What is the love?

3 response(s), 3 votes
moon98 36 F
4  questions
LOVE - 1/14/2009

What is the love ?

0 response(s), 1 vote
warriorwoman 64 F
43  questions
Be Encouraged Isaiah 49:5-9 - 1/13/2009

Sons of God be Encouraged

Hear what the Lord says to the Sons of God. I know it has seemed too long and hard a battle, but I am still on the throne and my Grace is sufficient. When you look all around you, DO NOT SEE WHAT THE WORLD SEES. My eyes will give you the VISION to continue standing, OPEN THEM TO MY LOVE THAT IS YOURS. Do not let the cares of this life take you from the life ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
What Do You Mean IF? - 1/13/2009

I remember someone asking my friends father, the owner of a successful business, "What will happen to the business if you die?" "What do you mean if?" the father replied. "I am going to die; it's just a question of when, not if, " he stated. So he began the preparation of his sons to handle and carry on the business. After his passing at nearly 80, the business not only survived but grew. ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Breakthrough - 1/12/2009

May the Lord bring you into a deep understanding of the steadfastness of Christ.

Most of the flight from Atlanta to Ft. Lauderdale was delightful. We sailed high, in clear skies, with nary a bump to bother us. As the pilot announced our initial descent, thing began to change. The cloud cover in the area was thick, and we would have to go through it to land. As I peered out the ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
How often do you want to "get even? - 1/12/2009

The Lord despises double standards of every kind.

Proverbs 20:10 NLT Never pay back evil to anyone. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Do your part to live in peace with everyone, as much as possible. Dear friends, never avenge yourselves. Leave that to God. For it is written, "I will take vengeance; I will repay those who deserve it, " says the Lord. Romans ...

3 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
We Are Empty-handed And Helpless - 1/10/2009

“For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.” 1Timothy 6.

It was once stated by an evangelist that he had yet to see a U-Haul trailer being towed behind a hearse on its way to the cemetery. One of the things man most easily forgets is his helplessness. We seem to have lost the grace of humility and reverence, for we strut ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Rain Washed - 1/8/2009

A little girl had been shopping with her mom in Target. She must have been six-years-old. This beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters. So much in a hurry to hit the Earth, it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the Target. We ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Mighty Mouse - 1/7/2009

Taiwan firefighters, caring for a very poisonous foot-long viper, tossed a tiny mouse in the cage as a snack, but they watched as the mouse turned mighty and killed the snake. The furry little rodent skirted in and out of range of the snake's gaping jaws and long fangs, darted in for a bite, then skittered away, constantly on the attack. At the end of a fierce 30-minute battle at the Nanoun fire ...

1 response(s), 3 votes