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Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Just Stay - 3/15/2009

A nurse took the tired, anxious serviceman to the bedside. "Your is here, " she said to the old man. She had to repeat the words several times before the patient's eyes opened. Heavily sedated because of the pain of his heart attack, he dimly saw the young uniformed Marine standing outside the oxygen tent. He reached out his hand. The Marine wrapped his toughened fingers around the old ...

1 response(s), 5 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Whisper Jesus - 3/14/2009

Today I got a burden, And I felt that I should pray, For God's spirit seemed to tell me, That you were having a bad day.

I don't know just what that problem is, But I sure do know the cure, And if you'll only let Him, God will keep you safe and secure.

In life there's always problems, Cropping up to spoil our day, But my friend, you know the answer, All you have to do is "Pray". ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
mag414 75 F
27  questions
God Gift. - 3/12/2009

Everyone of God is born with a gift.

0 response(s), 3 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
christian - 3/12/2009

Did, nt the bible says christian must greet each others with a holy kiss.

0 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Freedom For The Brokenhearted - 3/12/2009

“The Spirit of the LORD is upon Me, Because He has anointed Me to preach the gospel to the poor, He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives And recovery of sight to the blind, To set at liberty those who are oppressed;” Luke 4:18

If your heart is broken, if you feel enslaved and beaten down, look long and deeply at this comforting ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
How much do you see God in his creation? - 3/12/2009

Have I looked at the sun shining in the skies, or the moon walking down its silver pathway, and been secretly enticed to worship them? If so, I should be punished by the judges, for it would mean I had denied the God of heaven. Job 31:26-28 NLT

We understand the entire universe was formed at God's command, that what we now see did not come from anything that can be seen. Hebrews 11:3 ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Submitting To One Another - 3/11/2009

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. -- Ephesians 5:21

Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. ‒ Proverbs 31:11

We got married. It was the most unlikely match, yet we knew without a doubt God brought us together to be married. We had both experienced a great deal of pain and hardship in our past relationships, but God used ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
siciliangirl 55 F
98  questions
GOD'S Acceptance Part 14 - 3/11/2009

No one can come to the Father except through Jesus, and this is providing they are within “the way of truth” which leads to life (Jn 14:6), so its not just about Jesus, or Jesus and the Father, its all about Jesus, the Father, AND the Spirit of truth (14:17). Only these believers have the Father, the , and the Spirit with them (first) then unto being within them (Jn 14:2 and 17). ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
The Lesson Of The Pearls - 3/10/2009

Pearls are a product of pain. When a grain of sand pierces the shell of an oyster, all the otherwise dormant resources within the tiny oyster respond to the foreign irritant by caring for that sensitive spot. Over time, the sand particle is covered by healing fluids, and the wound becomes a pearl. That's true for you, too. When hardships invade your life, allow God's Spirit to shape your ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
The door - 3/10/2009

jesus said I am the door.

2 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
The Responsibility of Opportunity - 3/8/2009

“For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father's family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to royal position for such a time as this?" Esther 4:14 NIV

A large billboard in one of New England’s railroad stations once solicited recruits for the nursing profession. In bold ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
The Gift Of Encouragement - 3/7/2009

One of the most powerful things one person can share with another person is encouragement. Encouragement can stop a suicide, a divorce, and countless other tragedies. A word of encouragement can heal someone who is broken and wounded. It can give someone the courage to keep trying. Our world is full of negative, bitter, uncaring people who can't say anything good about anyone or any ...

2 response(s), 5 votes
Hello - 3/7/2009

I have not been to the sight for many many weeks now and dropped by yesterday to see who is still here and peruse the Magazine articles.



Interestingly enough 4gvnRN had a post and poll on this very topic of who is still here. It was nice to see old faces and the new as well.



Most surprising is ...

19 response(s), 30 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Reaching For Power - 3/5/2009

“Both riches and honor come from You. And You reign over all. In Your hand is power and might; In Your hand it is to make great. And to give strength to all.” 1Chron. 29:12.

Prayer is the only power in the world that defies and overcomes the laws of nature. Dr. Alexis Carrel, the great French surgeon and research scientist, defined prayer in this manner: ...

0 response(s), 6 votes
Turning the other cheek ? - 3/5/2009

Jesus teaching on turning the other cheek does not mean submission to evil. Take a look at the Scripture:



Matthew 5:39..."But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also."



BUT!



Take this passage and place it in first century Israel. Master and slaves are mentioned. How ...

2 response(s), 7 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
God Promise - 3/4/2009

God promise to fulfill all our need.

0 response(s), 3 votes
siciliangirl 55 F
98  questions
GOD'S Acceptance Part 13! - 3/4/2009

Acceptance- those who are under the charming favor of God’s grace that is known as “acceptance”. Strongs # 2580- This is ALL about God’s acceptance that is WITHOUT OUR ASSISTANCE; otherwise it is no more GRACE (Rom 11:5-6).



Believers who are in envy and/or fighting against others is because they have not (learned how to) crucify the lusts of their ...

0 response(s), 3 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Rules from God for 2009.......... - 3/3/2009

1. Wake Up !!.....Decide to have a good day. "This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it" Psalms 118: 24

2. Dress Up !!.....The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks. "for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on ...

0 response(s), 10 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
YOU ARE... - 3/2/2009

You are strong...when you take your grief and teach it to smile.

You are brave...when you overcome your fear and help others to do the same.

You are happy...when you see a flower and are thankful for the blessing.

You are loving...when your own pain does not blind you to the pain of others.

You are wise...when you know the limits of your wisdom.

You ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
Eternal life - 3/2/2009

And behold, one came and said unto him good Master what good thing shall i do, thatI may have eternal life matthew-19:16

1 response(s), 0 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
Eternal life - 3/2/2009

What is eternal life

0 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
THANK YOU FATHER - 3/1/2009

Dear God:

I want to thank You for what you have already done.

I am not going to wait until I see results or receive rewards, I am thanking you right now.

I am not going to wait until I feel better or things look better, I am thanking you right now.

I am not going to wait until people say they are sorry or until they stop talking about me, I am ...

1 response(s), 6 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Acceptance of Forgiveness - 3/1/2009

“And when Joseph’s brethren saw that their father was dead, they said, Joseph will peradventure hate us, and will certainly requite us all the evil which we did unto him.” Genesis 50:15.

As a boy Joseph was treated cruelly by his brothers and sold as a slave into Egypt. But then through God’s blessing he became second ruler of the land, Joseph did not ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Footprints.......... - 2/28/2009

Imagine you and the Lord Jesus walking down the road together. For much of the way, the Lord's footprints go along steadily, consistently, rarely varying the pace. But your prints are a disorganized stream of zigzags, starts, stops, turnarounds, circles, departures and returns. For much of the way it seems to go like this. But gradually, your footprints come more in line with the Lord's, soon ...

0 response(s), 5 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Thank God For Work - 2/28/2009

“But he said, “You are idle! Idle! Therefore you say, ‘Let us go and sacrifice to the Lord.’ “Therefore go now and work; for no straw shall be given you, yet you shall deliver the quota of bricks.” Ex.5:17, 18

To have one’s appointed work under God is something for which to feel deeply grateful. As long as a person can keep at work, ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
That Secret Ingredient - 2/27/2009

Some years ago when I was a pastor, I walked into my church office after a Sunday morning service to find a sandwich bag on my desk containing three chocolate brownies. Some thoughtful and anonymous saint who knew my love for chocolate had placed them there, along with a piece of paper that had a short story written on it. I immediately sat down and began eating the first brownie as I read the ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Secret of True Greatness - 2/26/2009

“He has shown you, O man, what is good; And what does the Lord require of you But to do justly, To love mercy, And to walk humbly with your God?” Micah 6:8.

A literal translation reads, “Humble yourself to walk with God.” What a strange suggestion that a human being would be humbling himself to walk with Almighty God. Is a man greater than his Maker? ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
I Shall Meet You There - 2/25/2009

Some years ago radio evangelist Charles E. Fuller announced that he would speak the following Sunday on “Heaven”. It was to be broadcast on radio. During that week he received a letter from an old man who was very ill. Here is part of that letter: “Next Sunday you are to talk about “Heaven”. I am interested in that land because I have held a clear title ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
mag414 75 F
27  questions
Believe - 2/24/2009

He is alive.

0 response(s), 0 votes
siciliangirl 55 F
98  questions
God's Acceptance Part 12 - 2/23/2009

Acceptance Part 12



Do you know that we need to learn about grace (so that we could have its understanding) IF we are going to be pleasing to God? (Gen 33:8, 10) If so, then God is dealing with you graciously because you are being URGED to take the journey (through the instruction of grace) (33:11-12), so that you can FIND grace PROVIDING God helps you to endure ...

0 response(s), 0 votes