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A Gambler,unfaithful but a good husband?Will you divorce? - 9/19/2004 I have a friend w/c have a gambler and a womanizer husband but a very good partner(e.g kind hearted to the less fortunate, never been hurt his wife, a good father, a loving husband and so on).Only this two negative traits he have my friend is thinking what she will do.....Can we help her or enlightening her some words.She is thinking of Divorce since she say her life will be miserable to ... 7 response(s), 0 votes |
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why do some act this way? - 9/18/2004 i try to get along with everyone, but there are some who only want to force their opinions on others, and some who take offense at any little comment. i could just use "ignore", but i don't want to have to do that. is there a way to require politeness. i hope there is. 9 response(s), 1 vote |
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How do you know what God's Plans for you are? - 9/5/2004 How does anyone know what Gods Plan is for them? When people keep jumping into your life that you think might be the one he has sent you? Only after you jump into it & things go wrong. Do you think how wrong that was. I am sure that was not Gods will. But too late it is done & there is no going back. I have a problem meeting men who have the same morals as I do. Most have little or ... 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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IHow easy is it to forgive? - 9/4/2004 The Bible speaks about every person needing forgiveness and every person needing to forgive. Why? Because we are all sinners in need of God's forgiveness. None of us is perfect. We need God's grace and we need to extend that same mercy to others. This is the very essence of true Christianity. <br> Sometimes it is not so easy to forgive, you have to forgive yourself in order to ... 15 response(s), 2 votes |
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why is love so difficult to have - 8/28/2004 i have been trying to have a new and sweet love, but it seem to me that true love is dificult to have, why 7 response(s), 0 votes |
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One more question about what your looking for when dating and family - 8/22/2004 Ok everybody, <br> I now have some information as to what other people look for when trying to date and I thank you for your input. All of this information was good information. Over the years, I have been and will always be myself, which is what a lot of you look for. Knowing this, makes me feel better, it helps me by giving me some comfort when thinking about my future. ... 9 response(s), 0 votes |
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What qualities do we look for in a potential spouse? - 8/21/2004 What to look for in a partner.... <br> I recently came across this list of 1-21, and thought it might be useful to share and add other things found in the Bible pertaining to qualities that we can look for in a prospective spouse.. .. <br> The Qualities of a Godly Husband - Proverbs <br> 1. A wise husband is kind and compassionate (12:10). <br> ... 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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Do soul mates exist or do you grow to become soul mates? - 8/21/2004 When you read ad's many state they are looking for their soul mate. A soul mate is someone you were connected to in another life, or so people assume. The notion of soul mates stems from the concepts of reincarnation and karma. Soul mates are defined as two souls reincarnating alongside each other repeatedly, playing different roles to each other. Some will argue soul mates were separated ... 5 response(s), 3 votes |
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What is unconditional love? - 8/20/2004 Am I wrong to think that love and respect requires two stable & healthy adults? I am learning that I need to work on being more humble; however, I choose not to yoke myself with someone who is unemployed, has untreated emotional disorders, and lacks longterm goals. My God is a loving God that wants the best for his people. Satan wants us to lack drive and to settle for less. I try very ... 2 response(s), 0 votes |
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Should I fight for it or move on? - 8/14/2004 I would like to thank all the members of BC who responded to my previous questions. Now, I've got another question. I have experienced being chased by a guy who thinks he likes me a lot, but I just ignored him, then he suddenly stopped chasing me (probably coz he's exhausted) The sad thing is , when he stopped chasing me, then and only then , did I realized that I'm falling in love with ... 10 response(s), 0 votes |
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If you were an animal what would you be? - 8/14/2004 If you could be any animal in the world what would it be? Why? 9 response(s), 0 votes |
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God's will - 8/14/2004 I need some advice I prayed to God to send me the right guy into my life . I recently met a guy where I go to college at both close in age and shy. even though I had prayed to God to send me the right guy I really thought maybe after college I would meet someone this just happened. This guy approached me first and went out of his way for me to notice him. I do not know if God wants me to ... 10 response(s), 1 vote |
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What do you find attractive when trying to find someone to date? - 8/10/2004 Ok everybody. I have read many different questions and as all of you may know, people have a hard time find the right person for one reason or another. So, I'm looking for something positive. If you could name one thing that you find attractive in the person, what would it be? I'm looking for something meaningful, something other than the eyes or the strong arms. <br> For ... 16 response(s), 0 votes |
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Rejection? - 8/2/2004 Would you rather reject someone or be rejected? I was reading some acticles about rejection on BC and I was just wondering how everyone felt about this. Like would you rather someone break up with you so you won't hurt them or would you rather break up with them to save face. Personally I don't like niether but I think it's easier to be turned down than it is for me to turn someone else ... 3 response(s), 1 vote |
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Why is it that members don't respond to my mail? - 8/1/2004 Why is it that members especially my favorites don't respond to email sent to them 3 response(s), 0 votes |
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Why do some christians not believe in the trinity? - 7/30/2004 Why do some christians not believe in the trinity when the Bible teaches the fact that the Father, , & Holy Spirit are all one?! What is so hard to believe when the Bible says (in the new testament)"The Spirit IS THE Lord." Also, when Jesus NEVER rebuked anyone for worshiping him, NOT ONCE! Doubting Thomas said, "MY Lord, & my God!" to Jesus & was NOT rebuked. Yet, Jesus rebuked the ... 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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Irreconcilable differences...what are they, really? - 7/30/2004 Irreconcilable differences. I've read about Christian celebrities divorcing and giving that generic reason and I think it's so dishonest and a poor testimony. Shouldn't they say what really went wrong so that the millions of young people who look up to them can know what to avoid? 6 response(s), 0 votes |
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Relationship hide and seek - 7/29/2004 Why is it that most people hide who they really are when they first meet new friends? And is it wrong to wear your personality on your sleeves so that there is no mistake on what kind of person you are? 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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Response to "Church Wear" - 7/27/2004 Let me clarify my question. I was asking about what everyone thought of a pritcher dressing down or dressing up, I wasn't asking for your oppinion on me and my beliefs. I gave my oppinion and simply asked for yours, sinse I was courise of what people out side of my church thought. I don't look down on my pitcher or not like him, this is just an issue that came up in my church that I thought ... 3 response(s), 0 votes |
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Responding to Friends Network Invitations - 7/26/2004 I am writing this after reading the question on this magazine "Responding to Winks". That question is followed by many different responses concerning how to correctly respond to a wink that the receiver does not really want as he/she has no romantic interest in the sender. My question is how to handle sort of hateful responses I am receiving to my Friends Network Invitations. I am trying ... 8 response(s), 0 votes |
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Do age really matter in love? - filipinaslim- - 7/25/2004 Dear fellow BC members, I would like to ask your opinion regarding this problem my friend is having. My friend is in her forties single and a single guy aged 25 likes her a lot ( ala Demi and Ashton) but she had tried avoiding him for months now, for she knows that the guy is too young for him. The more she avoided him, the more he pursues her, to the point wherein my friend is starting to ... 7 response(s), 0 votes |
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Question for guys: - 7/25/2004 Hey guys, a little question, or more of a survey, how many of you would feel weird or "turned on" if a girl's bra straps were showing, say from under a t-shirt? Thanks to all who reply  2 response(s), 0 votes |
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Are our desires from God? - 7/25/2004 I was browsing profiles when I found a fellow that said in his intro line that he was looking for an interracial relationship. In the profile itself, he went on to explain that he didn't feel any qualms about saying that because that's who he's attracted to and our desires are placed in our hearts by God. I didn't agree. Some are, for sure, like Paul's desire to preach the Gospel! But I ... 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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Problems in love affairs - 7/22/2004 I need assistance.I have a boyfriend / Lover, he is well behaving and he comes from a respected family.But this man is not a born again yet am a born again and I feel am in love with him.So what can I do ? Can I leave him or continue with him? I do not understand because I love my God.Please help me because he is not willing to become saved, he fears his family. 8 response(s), 0 votes |
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Are we on a downward slide? - 7/22/2004 Online dating is on the rise and it's great for those of us who have few other opportunities to meet people. But I'm a little worried. Are we approaching an era in which the meat market mentality is the norm? Are they going to begin charging more for the more highly prized members of our species? Is it soon going to be routine to hear "Is that your husband? How much did you pay for him? ... 5 response(s), 0 votes |
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Needing opinions on helping family and trying to date at the same time. - 7/20/2004 I need some opinions no my situation. My dad past a way a few years ago, leaving my mom with very little. My mother, who is self employed, has a limited amount of money, which mostly goes toward doctor visits and insurance. Because she is unable to afford to live on her own and I don’t have the money to help her get a place, she lives with me. Not to mention, she doesn’t ... 7 response(s), 0 votes |
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Who calls who? - 7/19/2004 I'm sure everyone has been in this predicament. You meet someone you like and he calls but not as often as you like and you don't want to call him and make yourself seem desperate or needy so you don't call. Is it okay men for a woman to call you? Does it make you want to run? Should a woman call a man more than he calls her? 4 response(s), 0 votes |
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Did I act to hastily? - 7/15/2004 Some months ago, I met a Christian man at another online service. We corresponded for a week and then suddenly he put me on hold (similar to blocking here at BC). He had been the first to contact me so I was stunned by this turn of events. In retrospect, there was nothing stunning about it. It had been very difficult getting him to respond to me the whole time. I considered my options. At ... 6 response(s), 0 votes |
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Let your women keep silent in church! What? - 7/14/2004 What are your thoughts about the following from 1 Cor. 14: 34-35? 34 "Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak;..." 35 "...for it is shameful for women to speak in church." 4 response(s), 0 votes |
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Are introverts capable of relationships? - 7/12/2004 The title pretty much sums it up! The reason I ask is because someone who is introverted is by definition, someone who lives inside of his/her own head and is inwardly focused. So can such a person be in a relationship, long-lasting, romantic, or otherwise? 3 response(s), 0 votes |
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