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Healing - 2/22/2005 Let's give God some more GLORY! <br> Has anyone here ever prayed for someone or been prayed for, and healed miraculously (not neccessarily straight away)? <br> God has already used and blessed me in these ways, but I love so much to hear others' stories! <br> <>< 4 response(s), 2 votes |
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Does being physically ill make us more lonely? - 2/22/2005 I had the stomach flu last week. I think with feeling the vulnerability of being on my own as a single person and not having anyone there to "nurture" me, AND being forced to rest and having a break in my routine, I was forced to get in touch with some of my sadness/lonliness. <br> I know that I only need to go to the Lord in prayer and ask him to fill the void. I know that ... 3 response(s), 1 vote |
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Anger vs. other feelings - 2/22/2005 I have learned over the years to get in touch with feelings as they come. Yet, an old habit that I've had in the past is to get angry first and feel the feelings second. Although this has improved, I can still see that many times it takes feelings of irritability or anger to make me realize that I'm actually feeling somthing deeper, like sadness, lonliness, guilt, or that I'm possibly ... 7 response(s), 7 votes |
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Why did God...? - 2/21/2005 Why did God not put an end to satan when he first fell from grace - would mankind not then have walked in peace? <br> Why did God put the tree of the knowledge of good and evil in the Garden in the first place, knowing all the trouble it would bring?! The moment someone is told not to do something (eat from the tree, sin etc.) is when it becomes attractive! When we didn't know it ... 6 response(s), 10 votes |
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Jesus suffered... - 2/21/2005 Jesus became man on earth, and experienced all our hurts, desires and emotions to the point of death on the cross. The New Testament shows some of His struggles - rejection, false accusation, mis-understood, laughed at, hounded, tortured, murdered. <br> How many of us say to someone in need 'Jesus knows what you are going through' a) because as a man He did and b) because He is ... 3 response(s), 7 votes |
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What is your favorite all time movie - 2/21/2005 Two come to mind for me. One is Forrest Gump. Forrest Gump was simple, yet completely unconditional in his love for others. I love the scene where they are on the shrimp boat and haven't had any luck. One of the characters is expressing his rage at God, not only due to no shrimp, but due to what he considers "bad breaks" in life. What does God do in return----but fill their boat to the ... 5 response(s), 1 vote |
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Is it wrong? - 2/21/2005 Is it wrong if in your heart you ideal man is someone called into some kind of leadership? I've felt this for a long time. I don't know why, except there is something very attractive about a man who is prepared to stand in the gap for God through good and bad. I've always seen myself supporting and walking with someone with leadership responsibilities. I'm not attracted to men who don't ... 10 response(s), 6 votes |
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What if... - 2/21/2005 What if you had been around during Jesus' ministry on earth? Do you think you would have accepted Him or rejected Him, bearing in mind that the New Testament wasn't around then?(!) <br> <>< 1 response(s), 7 votes |
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What do you say about "letting go".............. - 2/20/2005 I go through things a lot in life and I get bombarded with all sorts of injustice from other people. I understand this happens in life to everyone---but how do I get to a point in my life where I can let it go and give it all to God?? To let God take care of the situations or persons, even when humans overlook them and refuse to do things about it??? I know in the Bible where it says ... 5 response(s), 5 votes |
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Hobbies and Interests - 2/19/2005 Spring is on the way!! Is this anyone elses favorite time of the year? I look forward to hiking, taking some nature drives, maybe staying at a cabin by a lake, and starting some craft projects...... <br> What interests you? 3 response(s), 2 votes |
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is there any spirit filled men out there[spiritual I mean] - 2/19/2005 Hi there from queensland Australia just wondering on this subject it seams only the married ones are taken I wonder if theres any hope for us single ones Some have given there point of view please send information on this topic .Do you agree or do you disagree I know the born again experience is the most important because you can only know Jesus through salvation but what about the ... 2 response(s), 0 votes |
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Which is love? - 2/18/2005 Someone tells u he/she loves u, but doesn't do the things love would do. And yet, another does what love entails, but doesn't say the words, "i love u". 4 response(s), 14 votes |
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Adpting a - 2/18/2005 Has anyone had experience in adopting a ? I'm pretty sure that God would want us to be married before adopting, even though single's do adopt in todays world. I would like some feedback. Thanks. 5 response(s), 6 votes |
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Is this site being used by God? - 2/16/2005 I was just wondering if anyone had an encouaging story about how the Lord is using this site. I think I, as well as others, would enjoy hearing how the Lord had used this site to encourage my brothers and sisters in Christ here. Thanks a bunch! 8 response(s), 7 votes |
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Many Thanks!!! - 2/15/2005 Thank you so much for your advice Randombird. You are as usual quite right in what you say about the fiermen. I was feeling a lillle thrawt yesterday. I thimk I must have been suffering a bit from shock. As it turns out anyway the damage to my TV and cable box has been minimal and I will not have to have any work done to them they are now working fine. The fier that they thought was falty ... 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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End times - 2/14/2005 What is your understanding of events in the last days surrounding Jesus' return? <br> I am aware that there are different 'interpretations' out there, and that when it comes down to it, none of us actually know. I just wondered what you personally think... <br> Thanks <>< 0 response(s), 7 votes |
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Social - 2/14/2005 Do you think it is wrong for a Christian to have a little wine, once in a blue moon, with dinner? 5 response(s), 6 votes |
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His mighty protection. - 2/13/2005 I experianced a really horrible experiance last night I had a small fier in my flat. It has only caursed minor damage thank the Lord as I am not insured at all. I can't imagine why but the young fiermen who attende the call have poured a buket of whater over the flames and it has gone inside my television and cable box. It appears that my eletric fier is falty and it has caused the fier. ... 1 response(s), 2 votes |
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What to do if you are a standard member and you wish to invite friends to your friends list - 2/13/2005 I was wondering if one of my other brothers and sisters at BC how are standard members could possably tell me how I can invite people to my friends list. At the pressent time if I go to this part of the cite and click on intite more friends, I am sent back to the page to up grade to either the silver or gold memberships. I can not at the pressent time afored to up grade my membership. I was ... 0 response(s), 4 votes |
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More on dreams - 2/13/2005 I thank you for your input on dreams. Yes I agree that God speaks to us, not only in dreams, but in every area of our life. Praise God. <br> I know that for me dreams can represent my sub-conscious--maybe something is bothering me that I'm not thinking clearly about in my waking time and God may reveal something to me I need to be thinking about. I do believe, and it is ... 1 response(s), 2 votes |
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I hope you stay! - 2/13/2005 I have for some time now wished to expres an hope that I have concerning a very special member of our BC family. I have wondered if it is apropreate to express this view however after a lot of prayer about it I have decided to go for it and see what you my other brothers and sisters have to say about it. I am sure that there are many of you out there that would feel the same as I do ... 3 response(s), 6 votes |
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Reaping what we sow - 2/12/2005 Im realizing that in life we really do reap what we sow. If we treat others lovingly and accept them, we are accepted in return. <br> If we have a negative attitude, doesn't it seem like everyone around us is negative also? <br> Likewise, if we are worried about something in ourselves, do we end up attracting others to us who are worried about the same things and ... 5 response(s), 12 votes |
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Favourite worship songs... - 2/12/2005 Most of us know songs or hymns that we really love. As worship is part of our daily living for Christ, and music is an expression of that, I was just wondering what songs or music really speak to you and why? 9 response(s), 10 votes |
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Dreams - 2/11/2005 Do dreams sometimes represent our fears or can they reveal things that we are not seeing clearly in our lives? I think that mostly dreams are just bits and pieces of our lives that form into images in our brain and assist in the process of our daily lives. <br> Does anyone have any expertise on this..... 5 response(s), 5 votes |
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Blurred vision... - 2/11/2005 I am a spirit-filled Christian who loves the Lord, people and worship. I have also come slightly unstuck. I've recently realised that I have lost touch with my sense of purpose. <br> Cicumstances in my life are: due to stress (mainly withdrawal symptoms from coming off meds for mild depression over a year ago - still off!) and lack of understanding by my boss in my last ... 6 response(s), 6 votes |
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Should I be open about my feeling with my Bible study friends? - 2/11/2005 Thanks again for all your responses to my earlier questions. I agree countrygirl, it feels great to have good christian people who don't mind sharing thier heart and advice when needed. <br> Well here I go again. I recently started going to an in home Bible study with some really nice people. There are six people besides me and of course it is 3 married couples. I have found ... 3 response(s), 5 votes |
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Being single - 2/10/2005 Why can being single be such hard work? Do you think it's because within us is that God-made desire for a spouse, or pressure from Society, or...both?! Why does waiting in expectation have to be painful to the soul at times, even if you're contentedly single (as I'd say I am)? LOL <br> <>< 5 response(s), 12 votes |
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An apology to the guys - 2/9/2005 I had posted a "to the guys" message on the 7th, that I felt was a little harsh and a result of some hurt I was feeling and I need to apologize for saying, "are there any guys who have a heart"... 2 response(s), 8 votes |
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Need an honest answer - 2/9/2005 I emailed a man for 2 months, and we talked on the phone. We shared a lot of depth and I would have considered us friends definitely. He is a widower. His wife died two years ago. I had listened to his feelings about her, spoken nurturing comments about her, asked questions about her and his relationship with her. One thing that was bothering me a little is that he kept referring to ... 7 response(s), 7 votes |
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Once again ! - 2/9/2005 Yet again I posted an question here only to have it wiped off. I can not imagine what was wrong with it or how it could cause offence to any one. I wish that BC would post some guide lines as to what they will and wont accept on this question forum. It is most frustrating to spend time writing an question only to have it wiped off. My time is busy with studies and it is often late at night ... 2 response(s), 7 votes |
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