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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Zen Friendfinder.
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Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
The Cloak of Humility - 1/26/2009

“Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” 1Peter 5:5.

Just what is humility? Can you think of a truly humble person? Perhaps you can, but this person will be the exception. In fact, few people really want to be ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Life - 1/26/2009

Life

Life can seem ungrateful and not always kind. Life can pull at your heartstrings and play with your mind. Life can be blissful and happy and free. Life can put beauty in the things that you see.

Life can place challenges right at your feet. Life can make good of the hardships we meet. Life can overwhelm you and make your head spin. Life can reward those determined to win. ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
siciliangirl 54 F
98  questions
FAITH Part 12 - 1/26/2009

There is a work out there that is speaking in the name of the LORD (Jm 5:10); This work is enduring persecutions, and afflictions because it has been given patience from the Lord to show mercy, and be compassionate (Jm 5:11).

Believers who are doing any other kind of work (than this work which endures through much longsuffering patience because of God’s mercy) fall into ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Happy Birthday Chick Pea........ - 1/26/2009

Hi Mel,

I know its not til tomorrow (25th) but I thought we could get this celebration started a little early!

God's many, many wonderful blessings to you on this happy day. Lots of love and hugs...His4ever, Marianne

1 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Who Am I? - 1/24/2009

Your best friend or greatest enemy, I am your greatest companion. I am your greatest helper or your heaviest burden. I will push you onwards or drag you down to failure. I am completely at your command. Half the things you do, you might as well turn over to me and I'll do them quickly and correctly. I'm easily managed, but you must be firm with me. Show me exactly how you want something done ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
GodChosenone2 48 F
1  question
Where are all the good man? - 1/22/2009

I would like to know if I'm the only one which is having an hard time finding a good Man.

2 response(s), 1 vote
loki2007 69 F
103  questions
The Tragedy Of The Titanic - 1/18/2009

Proverbs24:11 Rescue those being led away to death, hold back those staggering toward slaughter.

I sure most of you already heard the story of the "Titanic"by now.At the time of her making the R.M.s.Titanic was considered unsinkable, the crowning achievement of human technology in her time.Their were some of the most owerful and wealthiest movers and shakers aboard that boat together ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
warriorwoman 64 F
43  questions
Can we be TOO GOOD? - 1/17/2009

Only you can find the understanding of self from within self. Don't hang onto words that others have spoken to you as a means of searching or finding, only take them as words. If the words spoken over us or to us find a place within our being to assist us in our journey, the understanding will come, however some words can hinder our growth if we hang on to them too tightly in our search to ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
How often do you want to "get even? - 1/16/2009

The Lord despises double standards of every kind.

Proverbs 20:10 NLT Never pay back evil to anyone. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Do your part to live in peace with everyone, as much as possible. Dear friends, never avenge yourselves. Leave that to God. For it is written, "I will take vengeance; I will repay those who deserve it, " says the Lord. Romans ...

3 response(s), 1 vote
moon98 36 F
4  questions
LOVE - 1/16/2009

What is the love ?

0 response(s), 1 vote
warriorwoman 64 F
43  questions
Be Encouraged Isaiah 49:5-9 - 1/15/2009

Sons of God be Encouraged

Hear what the Lord says to the Sons of God. I know it has seemed too long and hard a battle, but I am still on the throne and my Grace is sufficient. When you look all around you, DO NOT SEE WHAT THE WORLD SEES. My eyes will give you the VISION to continue standing, OPEN THEM TO MY LOVE THAT IS YOURS. Do not let the cares of this life take you from the life ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
We Are Empty-handed And Helpless - 1/13/2009

“For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.” 1Timothy 6.

It was once stated by an evangelist that he had yet to see a U-Haul trailer being towed behind a hearse on its way to the cemetery. One of the things man most easily forgets is his helplessness. We seem to have lost the grace of humility and reverence, for we strut ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Breakthrough - 1/13/2009

May the Lord bring you into a deep understanding of the steadfastness of Christ.

Most of the flight from Atlanta to Ft. Lauderdale was delightful. We sailed high, in clear skies, with nary a bump to bother us. As the pilot announced our initial descent, thing began to change. The cloud cover in the area was thick, and we would have to go through it to land. As I peered out the ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Rain Washed - 1/12/2009

A little girl had been shopping with her mom in Target. She must have been six-years-old. This beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters. So much in a hurry to hit the Earth, it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the Target. We ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
finallysetfree 64 F
2  questions
Putting on the Armour - 1/11/2009

At church we are studying the armour of God. My question is this, "How frequently should we put on the armour? Should we wait until we are in a crisis or should it be done daily?" I agree with my 's view that it should be done daily because we are constantly sinning due to the devil's attacks and our fallen nature. Thus, we should constantly have our armour on to resists the schemes of ...

5 response(s), 5 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
God said.......NO! - 1/11/2009

I asked God to take away my habits. God said.....NO, it is not for me to take away, but for you to give them up.

I asked God to make my handicapped whole. God said.....NO, his spirit is whole, his body is only temporary.

I asked God to grant me patience. God said.....NO, patience is a by product of tribulations, it isnt granted, it is learned.

I asked God to give me ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Would it be possible to feel that I have finally found the rite site - 1/9/2009

I have always had FAITH and have raised my to believe in it as well. I am so glad to know that there is a site on religion. maybe now I can get some answers, help others to get answers and just feel at home while doing what I always wanted. which was to find a site like this one THANKYOU LORD GOD BLESS

1 response(s), 3 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Mighty Mouse - 1/8/2009

Taiwan firefighters, caring for a very poisonous foot-long viper, tossed a tiny mouse in the cage as a snack, but they watched as the mouse turned mighty and killed the snake. The furry little rodent skirted in and out of range of the snake's gaping jaws and long fangs, darted in for a bite, then skittered away, constantly on the attack. At the end of a fierce 30-minute battle at the Nanoun fire ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
What was the most effective discipline you have experienced? - 1/7/2009

Now his father, King David, had never disciplined him at any time, even by asking, "What are you going?" 1 Kings 1:6 NLT

Suppose you get home from grocery shopping and discover your six-year-old is eating candy you didn't buy. It might be tempting to just scold him, send him to his room, and let it go at that. After all, it's only worth a dollar, and you're tired. But you'd miss an ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
A Good Man - 1/7/2009

“For he was a good man, and full of the Holy Ghost and of faith: and much people was added unto the Lord.” Acts 11:24.

We do not read of many heroic deeds accomplished by Barnabas. History does not speak of him as great man, but he is known in the Bible as a good man. Goodness is more to be admired than greatness. Barnabas owned a large tract of fertile land on ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Which Window Through Which You Look At - 1/7/2009

A young couple moves into a new neighborhood. The next morning while they are eating breakfast, the young woman sees her neighbor hanging the wash outside. "That laundry is not very clean", she said. "She doesn't know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap." Her husband looked on, but remained silent. Every time her neighbor would hang her wash to dry, the ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
kyrose 58 F
4  questions
Dancing and Music..... What Do You think about It? - 1/5/2009

Hi Every One! I hope All are having a Great evening where ever You are and have a Fabulous weekend! I was wondering what You thought about Dancing...Different types of music other than Gospel, Contemporary Christian... <br> My Favorite music is Gospel, especially Bluegrass and Southern Gospel...and The Isaacs are a Family Group whose voices are a Blend of a Wonderful ...

10 response(s), 4 votes
kevin22 44 M
4  questions
GODLY GOALS AND DESIRES - 1/5/2009

GODLY GOALS AND DESIRES Numbers 23:19 Has He [God] said, and will He not do it? Or has He spoken, and will He not make it good?



One key to successful living is learning to distinguish a godly goal from a godly desire .

A godly goal is any specific orientation reflecting God's purpose for your life that does not depend on people or circumstances beyond your ability or ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
kevin22 44 M
4  questions
Isn't It About Time You Got Married? - 1/2/2009

Isn't It About Time You Got Married? Wendy Widder I've got a few unanswered questions about my life. I'd like to know if I'll ever be a homemaker and homeowner. I'd like to know how to sell and buy, as well as manage maintenance on, a car as a single woman. I'd like to know if I'll ever walk down the aisle as the main attraction instead of as a member of the supporting cast. I've discovered, ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
kevin22 44 M
4  questions
As Goes the Family, So Goes the Church - 1/2/2009

As Goes the Family, So Goes the Church Chuck Colson December 30, 2008

This has been a great Christmas. Our Wendell and his Rebekah are about to arrive. And Emily and our grandson Max were just with us. As you may have heard me say before, Max, who is autistic, can be a handful. I marvel at Emily's love for him and at the strength God has given her to be such a good mother. I am so ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
luv2luvu1976 46 F
1  question
How do you deal with harrasing collection calls? - 1/2/2009

NEVER hang up on a collector.....

When you hang up that action only feeds the fire of their determination to get ahold of you. If it was a wrong number they will assume you would take the time to tell them so. Hanging up means the person is there and you are hiding them. For a unethical collector you may then become a target, they may start calling your relatives and neighbors to get you ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
kevin22 44 M
4  questions
Tethered Preaching - 1/2/2009

'Tethered' Preaching: John Calvin & the Entertaining Pastor by John Piper The Bible tethers us to reality. We are not free to think and speak whatever might enter our minds or what might be pleasing to any given audience--except God. By personal calling and Scripture, I am bound to the word of God and to the preaching of what the Bible says. There are few things that burden me more or refresh me ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
TOTAL DEPENDENCE - 1/2/2009

“But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, Lord, save me.” Matt. 14:30.

The human heart is proud and independent. It is difficult to recognize our need of the Savior. Though we give verbal assent to our dependence upon Him, we are inclined to feel that by some human effort or goodness of our own we merit salvation. ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
referring to me poem "What if?... (read poem on: article near me) - 1/1/2009

This poem was written inspired by me when I recently suspected a romance online scam with someone on this website, yet there is no evidence, onl "inconsistencies" through one of Oprah's shows on online scams. I'm brokenhearted still, but healing. Searching for answers and wondering if anyone has any suggestions on how to find true evidence as I find this to be a way of healing for me....Thanks.

1 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Four Words That You Need To Remember - 12/31/2008

A king called all of his wise men and counselors together for a meeting. He addressed them and said, "I want you to go and think, read, and research. Consult the wisest and most learned men in the land. Spare no expense." "I want you to find the ONE statement that will get me through all situations in life. Whether I am on top of the world or in the pits, find that statement." "I don't want ...

1 response(s), 2 votes