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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Zen Friendfinder.
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Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
The Gift Of Encouragement - 3/10/2009

One of the most powerful things one person can share with another person is encouragement. Encouragement can stop a suicide, a divorce, and countless other tragedies. A word of encouragement can heal someone who is broken and wounded. It can give someone the courage to keep trying. Our world is full of negative, bitter, uncaring people who can't say anything good about anyone or any ...

2 response(s), 5 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
YOU ARE... - 3/7/2009

You are strong...when you take your grief and teach it to smile.

You are brave...when you overcome your fear and help others to do the same.

You are happy...when you see a flower and are thankful for the blessing.

You are loving...when your own pain does not blind you to the pain of others.

You are wise...when you know the limits of your wisdom.

You ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Rules from God for 2009.......... - 3/3/2009

1. Wake Up !!.....Decide to have a good day. "This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it" Psalms 118: 24

2. Dress Up !!.....The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks. "for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on ...

0 response(s), 10 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
THANK YOU FATHER - 3/2/2009

Dear God:

I want to thank You for what you have already done.

I am not going to wait until I see results or receive rewards, I am thanking you right now.

I am not going to wait until I feel better or things look better, I am thanking you right now.

I am not going to wait until people say they are sorry or until they stop talking about me, I am ...

1 response(s), 6 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Acceptance of Forgiveness - 3/2/2009

“And when Joseph’s brethren saw that their father was dead, they said, Joseph will peradventure hate us, and will certainly requite us all the evil which we did unto him.” Genesis 50:15.

As a boy Joseph was treated cruelly by his brothers and sold as a slave into Egypt. But then through God’s blessing he became second ruler of the land, Joseph did not ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
Footprints.......... - 3/1/2009

Imagine you and the Lord Jesus walking down the road together. For much of the way, the Lord's footprints go along steadily, consistently, rarely varying the pace. But your prints are a disorganized stream of zigzags, starts, stops, turnarounds, circles, departures and returns. For much of the way it seems to go like this. But gradually, your footprints come more in line with the Lord's, soon ...

0 response(s), 5 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
That Secret Ingredient - 2/28/2009

Some years ago when I was a pastor, I walked into my church office after a Sunday morning service to find a sandwich bag on my desk containing three chocolate brownies. Some thoughtful and anonymous saint who knew my love for chocolate had placed them there, along with a piece of paper that had a short story written on it. I immediately sat down and began eating the first brownie as I read the ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Secret of True Greatness - 2/28/2009

“He has shown you, O man, what is good; And what does the Lord require of you But to do justly, To love mercy, And to walk humbly with your God?” Micah 6:8.

A literal translation reads, “Humble yourself to walk with God.” What a strange suggestion that a human being would be humbling himself to walk with Almighty God. Is a man greater than his Maker? ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
PrincessRegina 46 F
1  question
Advise for those who hurt - 2/25/2009

Healing DOES come into our lives but the scars will remain. Sometimes you will fall wounding yourselves all over again, ripping the scars open again. But just remember, healing WILL come again!!! Even though right now you do not see this happening.

5 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Have Patience - 2/25/2009

“That you be not slothful, but followers of them who through faith and patience inherit the promises.” Heb. 6:12.

I am acquainted with a young man who should be a professor in a college but instead is a common laborer, wandering from job to job, never knowing when he will be employed or when he will not. Some years ago he gave up a promising career in higher education ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
How do you respond to those who seek to hurt you? - 2/24/2009

"Love your enemies! Do good to them! Lend to them! And don't be concerned that they might not repay. Then your reward from heaven will be very great, and you will truly be acting as of the Most High, for he is kind to the unthankful and to those who are wicked! You must be compassionate, just as the Father is compassionate. Luke 6:35-36 NLT"

"Our enemies are out to hurt us. They ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Jesus Came On A Twofold Mission - 2/24/2009

“And she will bring forth a , and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins.” Matt. 1:21

At this time of year, people celebrate the birth of Christ with only a partial understanding about why He was born. Jesus came on a twofold mission–to redeem humanity and to reveal the truth about God. Disease, death, suffering, injustice, ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
siciliangirl 54 F
98  questions
God's Acceptance Part 12 - 2/24/2009

Acceptance Part 12



Do you know that we need to learn about grace (so that we could have its understanding) IF we are going to be pleasing to God? (Gen 33:8, 10) If so, then God is dealing with you graciously because you are being URGED to take the journey (through the instruction of grace) (33:11-12), so that you can FIND grace PROVIDING God helps you to endure ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Did Jesus Use A Modem? - 2/23/2009

Did Jesus use a modem, at the sermon on the mount? Did He ever use a broadcast fax, to get His message out? Did the disciples carry beepers, as they went out and about? Did Jesus use a modem, at the sermon on the Mount? Did the Apostle use a laptop, with lots of RAM and ROM? Did he use an email alias such as Paul at Rome.com? Did the man from Macedonia post an email saying "Come?" Did the Apostle ...

2 response(s), 2 votes
mag414 75 F
27  questions
trust - 2/21/2009

did you ever got dissapointed in some one you trust.

0 response(s), 0 votes
MelKay 30 F
1  question
Culture - 2/19/2009

Is the culture of the person is important to you. Let me explain. Ex. You are a Canadian and you are talking to a lebanese girl. Would this affect something because she's Lebanese ?

GBY all

Mélissa
...

2 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
How to Deal With Unforgiveness - 2/15/2009

The bible tells us that we are to forgive those who hurt us. Below is a list of ways to deal with the matter head on. Feel free to share with your friends if you wish, cheers.

Take the issue of unforgiveness seriously.

Assume full responsibility for your feelings or actions, do not attempt to blame others for your shortcomings.

Confess it honestly. Be specific and ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Every Day Matters - 2/10/2009

FACTS

In the world:

-- Every 3.5 seconds someone dies of hunger. -- Every 11 seconds someone dies of AIDS. -- Every 15 seconds a dies from a waterborne illness. -- 40 million people are living with HIV/AIDS. -- 1 billion have no access to clean water. -- 2.6 billion live without basic sanitation. -- 5 million live in refugee camps. -- 1.08 billion live on $1 or less per day. -- ...

3 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Who's in your front row? - 2/8/2009

Life is a Theater. Invite Your Audience Carefully. Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a DISTANCE. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of, or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not going anywhere relationships or friendships. Observe the ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Pretending To Be God - 2/8/2009

“The Lord your God is God of gods, and Lord of lords, the great God, mighty and awesome, who shows no partiality nor takes a bribe.” Deut. 10:17.

Friedrich Nietzsche, a man greatly disturbed and filled with contradictions and inner turmoil, once dared to make the declaration, “If there were Gods, how could I endure it to be no God? Therefore, there are no ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
What has God told YOU to do? - 2/6/2009

What has God told YOU to do? In reply you've said:

It's too hard!I don't want to do it! It's not time!Get someone else! I've got too much to do!I'm scared! I'm not prepared!It's not popular! Your reason here_____________________________________!

The key is not if God told someone else something. Too often we focus on what someone else is doing or not doing instead of what ...

5 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Truly Lonely - 2/6/2009

“And, behold, they brought to Him a man sick of the palsy, lying on a bed: and Jesus seeing their faith said unto the sick of the palsy; , be of good cheer; thy sins be forgiven thee.” Matt. 9:2

There are some very lonely people in our world today–not because they lack the companionship of fellow men, but because they have somehow separated themselves by sin ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
Hello Friend - 2/4/2009

HELLO friend

Did you know that a simple "HELLO" can be a sweet one? I received one recently from a friend through an e-mail. Here's what it said:

The word "HELLO" means:

H = How are you? E = Everything all right? L = Like to hear from you. L = Love to see you soon. O = Oh, and don't forget to write.

So, HELLO!

It has made me smile every time I say ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
"Jesus Loves You?" - 2/4/2009

In dealing with popular phrases, and man made sayings that are commonly used to talk about Jesus, once comes to mind that truly annoys me, and makes me question the validity. The phrase of "Jesus loves you." Sure this can sound biblical since the name of Jesus is being used and also to describe something that he might say, but is this really true?

Many things can sound biblical, but ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
Dundeal 67 M
1036  questions
WHO SHOULD READ THE BIBLE - 2/3/2009

The Young - To learn how to live. The Old - To know how to die. The Ignorant - For wisdom. The Learned - For humility. The Rich - For compassion. The Poor - For comfort. The Dreamer - For enchantment. The Practical - For counsel. The Weak - For strength. The Strong - For direction. The Haughty - For warning. The Humble - For exaltation. The Troubled - For peace. The Weary - For rest. The Doubting ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
sarahsdad1 72 M
1  question
How do you find time to do all you do ? - 2/3/2009

I really enjoyed reading your bio...Your Friend in CHRIST...James

0 response(s), 0 votes
Sometihng to think about - 2/3/2009

Those whom block people from posts just because they dont like somones responce, are cowards! Even Jesus was harsh with most people he encountered becaue he didnt let others just walk all over him!

As far as the person that quoted bible verses to me in the post that they cowardly banned me from, use the bible verses in CONTEXT!!!

0 response(s), 7 votes
stev00400 43 M
138  questions
When you do what you do - 2/3/2009

when you do what you do, people Will always see you do them and some would even speak about it in different ways while there Will be those who would commend you there would be others who would blame you for what you should have done to avoid certain things. but watch out for those who would always tell you well done no9 matter what you choose to do in life, and some others who would tell you well ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
his4ever2007 72 F
45  questions
A Fairy Tale............. - 1/30/2009

One day, a long, long, time ago, there lived a woman who did not whine, nag, or complain.

But that was a long, long time ago, and it was just that one day.

The End



I know, I know, I just made myself look bad but I couldnt help it, this made me laugh!

God bless...His4ever.

4 response(s), 2 votes
moon98 36 F
4  questions
Picture - 1/27/2009

Why some of us dont post their pictures?

2 response(s), 2 votes