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Jewishbeliever4 68 M
1  question
How do people on this site handle the numerous scammers? - 3/12/2022

These scam artists are quite crafty, stealing photos of people that are not them. I have already turned in 8 of them to this site. They all LIVE in Africa. It is so annoying! Also, how do people on this site handle (c the Lord's Love), those who don't even take the time to read your profile, constantly say "LOL", and want you to tell them more about who you are. I have had so many just look ...

12 response(s), 15 votes
What is really marriage - 9/23/2021

From my understanding marriage is between one man and one woman and that God Almighty honors marriage. In this world I have been taught that marriage is a piece of paper but does God Almighty actually see this paper. From my understanding He doesnt even see us this comes from 1John1:3 for God fellowships not with sinners so I would think the reason we are having this misunderstanding is because ...

2 response(s), 4 votes
princesa_sarah 32 F
2  questions
missionary experiences - 9/23/2021

hey peoples! i'm called to be a missionary to puerto rico. it wont be a short-term thing, but rather a life-long career. within baptist church circles, it is not unusual to meet a missionary couple who are in their 60s and 70s.

are there any missionaries on this site? anybody have any stories or want to share how missions is handled within their church or denomination?

7 response(s), 3 votes
princesa_sarah 32 F
2  questions
glorifying God with my body; i need some guidance :) - 5/19/2021

for almost a week now, i've been following a diet described in sheri rose shepherd's book _Fit for My King: hsi princess 30-day diet plan and devotional_. the point of this diet is not to lose weight or drop sizes, but to glorify God with my body. so far so good. i have to fast from: white flour, sugar, white rice, artificial sweeteners, white potatoes, corn, and processed foods.

i ...

2 response(s), 6 votes
jackey2010
5  questions
is a telephone computer? - 12/4/2019

is a telephone computer? if yes, what make it so? if not, what is the differences?

2 response(s), 4 votes
Beavertraaxx 62 F
1  question
Yoga. - 12/4/2019

Is Yoga spiritually safe? A friend asked me to go to a yoga class with her. Sounded innocent. And the slow easy moves and poses appeal to me vs. a fast paced and intense excercise program.

But, I've also heard that yoga has its roots in ancient east Indian idol worship. This is something I want nothing to do with.

What's your view on Yoga? Is it Christian-friendly?

5 response(s), 4 votes
Ztheberean1 54 F
2  questions
SPIRITUAL BELIEVERS Part 5 - 1/3/2019

SPIRITUAL BELIEVERS PART 5

Inside “our own” sufficiency, we are in “I will do”: I will pull down my barns, and then I will build greater; and then I will bestow all my fruits and my goods into “I will” take it easy in eat, drink and be happy (Lk 12:18-19 with 1Cor 10:6-. Jesus did not come to do His own will; but the will of He who sent Him (Jn 6:3. Many [attempt to] go ...

0 response(s), 5 votes
Bad Pastors - 6/16/2018

Here is a letter I sent to a pastor after he assulted me with a deadly weapon and then threatened me a second time:

Ephesians 5:1 commands me to expose your evil, and warns of people like you. 2 Timothy 3:1-2

The day you threw me out of a moving car, on the very day of my Fathers brain surgery was assault with a deadly weapon, and I am seeking legal counsel from my lawyer. Did ...

3 response(s), 6 votes
CALY2000 47 M
10  questions
Are gays truely Christians, and should they hold any church postion? - 1/2/2014

When God created the first humanbeings, he created man and a woman (Adam and Eve). And he joined them together as '1' (hus-wife). In the Bible, Romans chapter one condemns every kind of sexual practices outside a man versus a woman. Today, gay is not only legalised, there are gay christians in the churches. Some might even be aiming for church postions. My question is, can a gay truely be a ...

31 response(s), 12 votes
Do we test the spirits? - 12/30/2013

There has been alot of talk about spiritual warfare as of late here, with some very good points being made. But what about our own brothers and sisters, in our own spiritual homes we call churches? What really is this thing called slaying in the spirit?, Holy laughter? Do we test the spirits?, does God allow us to test what we may believe is the Holy Spirit? "if you receive a different ...

5 response(s), 2 votes
Information about self and ideal partner - 10/29/2011

I've noticed great similarity between various members in the way they describe themselves and their ideal person. Is this due to cutting and pasting suggestions from Big Church writers or copying something that sounds ok from members? Using our own phrases gives readers more clues about our personality than cliches which sound good - but not very informative! Even so - please do give some ...

1 response(s), 6 votes
spbpt 71 F
4  questions
on the subject of scammers - 10/10/2011

with all the recent publicity in blogs and here also......are more people seeing them for who they are?

3 response(s), 2 votes
siciliangirl 54 F
98  questions
What is Faith? - 10/1/2011

What is Faith?



Those who have lifted “their own selves” up cannot be upright/righteous, because to live just can only be by His faith (Hab 2:4). His faith has the way of truth {same word for faith} (Ps 119:30). By “our own will”, we cannot believe this (Hab 1:5). The truth, which is for the faith is from how to be faithful and where all of this comes from, ...

2 response(s), 2 votes
evangelist4fire 59 M
5  questions
PRALYSING EVIL HANDS - 7/11/2011

PRALYSING EVIL HANDS Jer17:18 For those who feel that they are being suppressed by hosts of darkness. You can nip in the bud the growth of evil powers which may lead to a major disaster in your life. Rise against all evil hands through your fervent and importunate prayers: Ps 140:4 , 9:16.Keep me Lord from the hands of the wicked, preserve me from the hands of the violent man, who has purposed ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
kirill2010 33 M
2  questions
I am virgin... This bad or good? - 6/23/2011

I am virgin... This bad or good? ..has girls and women dislike virgin - men...

6 response(s), 6 votes
gemsy 48 F
1  question
Do men feel threatened by a woman's success? - 6/15/2011

Often men who are successful in their careers are wary of women being gold diggers etc.

But on the other side of the coin, would a man who is not as successful feel threatened by a woman's success? Or would he think it's an opportunity to get hitched and get a free ride ?

How about a successful man? Would he think that a successful woman will not be an ideal wife because she's ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
moon98 36 F
4  questions
LOVE - 6/14/2011

What is the love?

3 response(s), 3 votes
evangelist4fire 59 M
5  questions
U WILL NOT DIE - 6/14/2011

U WILL NOT DIE

My enemies do U 4get d people who dropped Daniel inside den lion died. Enemy that dropped shad rack, Meshack & Abednego inside fire died. Prayer 1) Every evil conspiracy on my life, marriage, ministries, calling, finance & health scatter by fire. 2) Every word of evil that says the promise of God will not come to past in my life be nullify 3) Every evil desire against my ...

2 response(s), 2 votes
Ako_ito 45 F
1  question
Chatting - 6/14/2011

What are the important questions that you will ask to the one you are chatting with when looking for a future life partner?

1 response(s), 3 votes
tonyforestman 53 M
1  question
off to do vietnam and thailand june and july inc a little missionary stuff - 6/7/2011

Anyone got any must dos or suggestions. anyone going to be over there, vietnam till 5th july and then thaniland to 26th july? tonyforestman from byron bay australia

0 response(s), 1 vote
Scammers - 6/3/2011

When people send you messages and you reply to them but then never reply back to you, Can I call these people scammers?

3 response(s), 5 votes
jackey2010
5  questions
are you ready to make me your friend?? - 5/28/2011

sure i need friends but i dont have access since am a standard member, plz how can i dears???

1 response(s), 2 votes
evangelist4fire 59 M
5  questions
Promiseing Of God Almighty - 5/27/2011

PROMISING OF GOD ALMIGHTY In the beginning God made the world and everything there in. Remember prophesy can change but the word of God abide for ever. But the meek shall inherit the earth, and shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace. Ps 37:11 If they obey and serve Him, they shall spend their days in prosperity and their years in pleasures. Job 36:11-12 He that dwelleth in the secret ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
kampo2 45 M
1  question
online dating - 5/21/2011

gdmrng fellows, can we realy be sure of geting hookedup with our dream partner online..?

2 response(s), 6 votes
jackey2010
5  questions
hating and liking - 5/15/2011

dears! my side i hate to hate but i like to like; on your side what do you hate and what do you like mostly??

1 response(s), 2 votes
jackey2010
5  questions
is romance sin for un married christian? - 4/29/2011

hi!everybody; hop you are doing very great...! is it sin for un_married christian to have romance?

3 response(s), 3 votes
natalia251278 44 F
2  questions
what would you say to God when your birthday? - 4/17/2011

what would you say to God when your birthday?

5 response(s), 6 votes
kirill2010 33 M
2  questions
How did you come to God? - 4/3/2011



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7 response(s), 3 votes
is anyone else here vegetarian? :) - 4/3/2011

Hi everyone

I was wondering are there any vegetarians around here? Iam vegetarian at heart since "forever" -but did eat a lot of meat til i was 18 and have eaten occasionally since then as well. But if I do eat meat, I need it to be organic and well-cooked ...otherwise I feel bad and something like moral hangover long time afterwards:~ I cannot really explain, I just feel bad thinking ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
natalia251278 44 F
2  questions
when in prayer, you say "Amen" - 3/31/2011

when in prayer, you say "Amen". what you believe with Amen?...

1 response(s), 1 vote