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stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
What to do after we are born-again   12/1/2005

What to do after we are born-again When we are born again we have Christ and the Holy Spirit inside of us but that is not enough for us to fight the issues of life because that only takes us from condemnation to life. Having be saved we need to equip ourselves withthe weapon of war from the word of God, this most christians fall to do even some christians who were doing this sometimes ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
keep moving and don't stop   11/29/2005

“There comes a time in your life when you realize that if you stand still, you will remain at this point forever. You realize that if you fall and stay down, life will pass you by…so Keep moving and don't stop unti you achieve you goal”


0 Comments, 16 Views, 0 Votes
roseofsharon73 62 F
12  Articles
No thanks is not so easy   11/26/2005

Not to offend, is a goal that we all work towards. Rejection sometimes causes a person to hurt and sometimes leads to criminal behavior posted in news papers and television. <br> This is why saying: not right now, or maybe sometimes later, or thank you so much, but I will have to pass. <br> I have found that putting myself in the other person shoes, has helped me to think ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
saying no thanks   11/11/2005

saying no thank can be done in a mannerly and respectful way, people have a tendency to insult you than to say am sorry but no thanks.it also a very hard word to say especially if such a person is kind, tender and loving.but next time before you hurt someone gentle am sorry but no thank you.


1 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Itisi910 65 M
9  Articles
Saying No means 2 Things   10/21/2005

When you tell a Person No Thanks it Means 2 Distinctive Things (1) I know you said no, and that is a 2 letter word that anyone with 2 Eyes and 2 Ears and 2 Arms & 2 Hands Understands (2) If you don't fully undertand the meaning of #1 you are likely to start losing Body Parts Starting in Reverse Order Hands, then Arms, then Eyes ETC.


0 Comments, 80 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
Itisi910 65 M
9  Articles
Who me Totally Celebate!   10/18/2005

While I can say that I am a Man of God, I also am a Man and Satan is going to use any and every means he can to Attack my Spiritual Realm, Its just like any other form of Sin, When we first become Christians we Pray on a Continual basisabout 1 Sin or another we have a major Problem with and it is the same way with the matter of Sex we let our Spirit stay in Control of the Situation and hold ...


2 Comments, 76 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
nazarene45 78 M
5  Articles
Sexual Immorality.   8/19/2005

How often have you heard the statement"Everyone is doing it." Couples living together unmarried. "If it feels good, do it". We don't remember what it says in the word, that nothing is hidden from God. Darkness and night, etc. You may get away with it now, but there will come a time, when you will weep, and wail for your sin. The Lord says, " We all will give account at the judgment, ...


2 Comments, 170 Views, 23 Votes ,5.11 Score
joydancing 72 F
30  Articles
Not the   8/7/2005

NOT THE ONE? The profile was great, the emails were wonderful, the voice was captivating, you are excited to meet this person...What to wear? Where to meet? Oh my! You meet face to face for the first time and hmmmm after an hour, you are desperately searching for words to say, to thank them, to encourage them to keep seeking the "one". <br> NO REGRETS, each ...


6 Comments, 437 Views, 70 Votes ,8.41 Score
seekingmyprince 45 F
7  Articles
Just be honest   6/25/2005

I may still be single and alone, but I've NOT gone through what so many have in "bad" relationships. Why, because I want a mate that meets God's standards and the ONE God has chosen for me. I take dating seriously and don't believe it is something to be "casual" about. If there is just one thing that doesn't meet the desire God has placed in my heart, no matter how much I want to say ...


2 Comments, 146 Views, 29 Votes ,4.24 Score
joydancing 72 F
30  Articles
Saying NO when heart says YES   6/20/2005

Asking God for the courage to say no when your heart desires a YES, "I can make this work" this is obedience, and TRUST & OBEY is not easy. When faced with a strong desire to go against the tug on your heart, STOP, bend your knee, boldly go to God's throne, and ask for the courage to obey. BLESSINGS will come, and God will richly provide for those who rely on Him. <br> ...


3 Comments, 186 Views, 31 Votes ,7.17 Score
HawthorneHeights 39 M
14  Articles
Saying   6/8/2005

No thanks.


1 Comments, 119 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
Sparkyman1000 51 M
3  Articles
Saying 'No' to sex before marriage could save you from constant relationship break-ups.   6/2/2005

I for one can say this to be very, very true from FIRST HAND experience. I have lived the relationships and lost many as a result to eagerness to sleep with that special someone before marriage. Guys and Gals, my only hope is that you must wait. God would want that. So much goes wrong when we seek desires of the flesh. Many serious sins and horrible demons come into your life when you ...


5 Comments, 260 Views, 26 Votes ,7.34 Score
'No' Doubt   5/6/2005

'No' is such a powerful word that sometimes we're afraid to use it. Perhaps we don't wish to cause offense or diminish someone's affection for us. At other times, we avoid saying 'no' even though by not saying it we're not being true to who we are. I think this happens, in part, because the word 'no' has got a bad . We're taught to perceive 'no' in a context of negativity and ...


2 Comments, 80 Views, 17 Votes ,6.24 Score
conisings 58 F
21  Articles
Avoiding Temptation   4/16/2005

Temptation is something that we all, at one point or time, encounter. As you know, Jesus was tempted also while here on earth. To be tempted IS NOT sinful. However, it IS sin when we ACT on that temptation. There are many different areas that we can be tempted in. When we are tempted, it is SO IMPORTANT to realize what it is, and to act accordingly. Shall we look at some scripture that ...


1 Comments, 121 Views, 20 Votes ,5.29 Score
electedpraise 48 M
9  Articles
Never Quit   3/17/2005

Never Quit <br> I have discovered that success in life is about taking one more step towards it. To succeed we must decide from the start never to quit in our pursuits of the good of the universe. It was Dolly Parton who said, “I never stopped trying and I never tried stopping.” This should be our attitude too. <br> Do not quit now. I believe that right ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
warriorwoman 64 F
56  Articles
Resisting Temptation   3/1/2005

Just got off the phone with someone I thought had been sent as the man I'd been praying for. We became very close, very fast. I had thought it was the Lord showing me from the beginning that he was the one. Prayed, read the Word, things were revealed by a Spirit, but I have to wonder if it was HIS Spirit. Since then this man has fallen back into alcoholism. With that the lying Spirit ...


2 Comments, 315 Views, 39 Votes ,5.19 Score
How do u explain to another culture that u only date your own kind without acting racist?   2/7/2005

I am not attracted to east indian, european, african, or asian men. I find that their cultures are too different from my own, as well as I just do not like accents, I find them very hard to understand. My parents are predjudiced and I want their blessing on who I date so that there is harmony in our relationship. Many times online I chat with guys without pics because they are interesting. ...


8 Comments, 401 Views, 31 Votes ,0.84 Score
My_Fortress 61 F
1  Article
What's Your View of Anew?   1/30/2005

Anew? What does that really mean? In the secular world it means bright and shiny, alluring and different than before! In the bible, it states that all things are made new through Christ Jesus. You are made anew and your sins are forgiven but your experiences, struggles and challenges are a part of you. The world would prefer not knowing about what "made" you the person you are today. ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
pebbles1964 60 F
5  Articles
It's ok   1/13/2005

I would like it if when I email a guy, and he is not interested that he would let me know. Bottom line is I want to make friends first anyway. I'm capable of being a friend to others and accepting friendship if a romantic attraction isn't there. I think that men sometimes think that they are being mean to "no thanks", but for me anyway it is very appreciated. I like to be emailed and ...


3 Comments, 223 Views, 26 Votes ,5.07 Score
italiangirl58 65 F
1  Article
Honesty is the best policy   1/10/2005

Especially when it deals with someone's emotions. Telling someone "no thanks" early on is a blessing in comparison to letting them think there might be a chance and then breaking their heart.


1 Comments, 150 Views, 31 Votes ,4.97 Score
Widesmileangel 37 F
8  Articles
Run the Race   12/25/2004

No matter how hard live get <br> Run the race <br> No matter what never look back <br> Run the race <br> Choosing the right paths <br> Run the race <br> Praying on your face <br> Run the race <br> Hiding in God's hands <br> Run the race <br> Chasing after your dreams <br> Run the ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 17 Votes ,2.28 Score
EMPYS 48 F
10  Articles
What about STD's?   12/23/2004

What about genital herpes? (or any other std for that matter) As Christians and plain human beings, how are we to handle finding someone that is a great person, loves the Lord, could be a great mate for you, but not by their own fault had contracted genital herpes? Do you go ahead and marry them if it calls for it in the relationship, or should you not consider that person to be your ...


2 Comments, 426 Views, 25 Votes ,4.35 Score
Widesmileangel 37 F
8  Articles
No thanks   12/22/2004

Saying "no thanks" and not no many think of it as respect. I myself was raise that it was the way. but it more then respect it a kind way to make people smile or make ther day a little better. Sometimes you have to say no. IT is always better to say no thanks


0 Comments, 69 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
VICTORIOUS JOY   12/14/2004

“Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” - Romans 12:12 <br> VICTORIOUS JOY How can we keep our circumstances from determining our mood? How can we emancipate ourselves from the limitations that life deals us? The last in the trio of commandments opens the door for the other two to be true -- we can rejoice in hope and we can be ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 20 Votes ,4.15 Score
Good Morning!!!   12/6/2004

He spoke to firmament yielding lights Dividing this day from the first night. Saying let these signs be for the seasons. We count days and years for this reason. <br> The earth is enlighten'd from His Love Receiving the light from heaven above. <br> He then gave us a gift of two great lights. The bigger lites day; the smaller lites night. <br> He made ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Wounded Soldied   11/25/2004

I am the wounded soldier treading back to war. I do not brandish weapons, that's what faith is for.
The Messiah is my leader, and commander of relief. He is the Omnipotent Savior condemning disbelief.
The enemy is Lucifer; Masquerader, Tempter, Thief. His weapons are deception, and our very own belief.
The battlefield is chosen, it's every place we see, ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
shehaspeace 59 F
3  Articles
seems simple enough......   11/19/2004

but its not!!!!..Just saying No thanks? It seems to me that people are alot more brazen and rude on the net then if you were to meet them in person. I have never had problems in a public social setting when I say "no thanks". I have never had the need for an IGNORE button while in public.


3 Comments, 123 Views, 17 Votes ,3.97 Score
1ofHisdotters 53 F
1  Article
Women that seem to not take "no" for an answer   8/22/2004

Well first Id like to start by saying, isnt it annoying when a woman sends you a message, along with their photo and your not interested in the least. So we skip it and keep browsing the ones we are interested in. Then she sends another message and possibly another, doesnt this woman give up?? Well guess what women are not trying to be annoying and obnoctious, they are not stupid, they ...


1 Comments, 202 Views, 58 Votes ,7.29 Score
albefun36 55 M
1  Article
Honesty and Integrity are Key   7/5/2004

It all starts right here with you profile. If we are honest with ourselves and other about who we are and what we are looking for in a relationship then it is easier to remain honest throughout the process. Ok. someone initiates contact that you are not interested in. You have two choices 1.) Ignore them. and 2.) Reply with a short polite note saying no thanks" If you have a clear reason ...


1 Comments, 76 Views, 71 Votes ,7.70 Score
When You're Not Interested   6/12/2004

What is the best way to say 'no thanks' to someone who is really interested in you? I've found that a lot of guys are personally offended if I say 'no thanks'. They want a reason. Is it ok to tell a guy that he's just not my type?


0 Comments, 121 Views, 126 Votes ,4.86 Score