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SongofSolomonD 46 M
10  Articles
The Right Thing at the Wrong Time Is Still the Wrong Thing   9/19/2008

The Right Thing at the Wrong Time Is Still the Wrong Thing Joshua Harris Author and Speaker Chapter five of "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" shows that when we pursue romance is a major factor in determining whether or not dating is appropriate for us.

And we can only determine the appropriate time to pursue romance when we understand God's purpose for singleness and trust His timing for ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
yourprincesstobe 36 F
1  Article
when do you feel you in love   9/29/2007

when do you fell you in love i want to know


0 Comments, 42 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
genuineness   9/2/2007

when we walk with genuineness of heart there will always be some great measure of satisfaction left behind in the mind even though it might sometimes be painful during such genuine walk. so we must endeavour to always walk in genuineness of mind at all time


2 Comments, 28 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
ICorinthians13 66 F
2  Articles
How'd They Move So Fast??   6/15/2007

It's int'resting with some dates, Even if they're crippled and hard of hearing, Just mention that you're celibate, And see how quick they're disappearing!


3 Comments, 119 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
Ebonypriestess 60 F
10  Articles
Just Maybe   3/15/2007

Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person too....


2 Comments, 58 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
greatguyhere 41 M
1  Article
Really Get To Know The Person   1/22/2007

I've been a new member for a couple of weeks now and I've had a few hits. These hits are NEED TO BE MISSES. The women I've met saying we should be together and the only way to do so is send money to get them out of their situation.


9 Comments, 182 Views, 17 Votes ,6.80 Score
seriously_funny 35 M
2  Articles
Attraction isn't a choice!   1/12/2007

Guys, don't take it personally if you get shut down. Women don't decide to feel attraction for men. They don't consider all of his positive qualities, then add up all the dinners and flowers a man has purchased… and finally consider how “nice” he has been… then mentally say “OK, I’m going to feel attracted to him”.
It's either there ...


2 Comments, 184 Views, 30 Votes ,5.20 Score
I WISH I COULD HAVE BEEN WITH THEM THEN.”   11/29/2006

THERE'S A STUPID SONG: “WHEN JESUS WAS HERE WITH HIS DISCIPLES, I WISH I COULD HAVE BEEN WITH THEM THEN.” How ridiculous can you get? You have Him closer to you now than they had Him then. He was only with them then. Now He's in you, every moment of every day, for all eternity! He will never leave you nor forsake you. For lo, He is with you, even unto ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
arttree76 47 F
2  Articles
being honest   9/24/2006

If your not interested in that person just be honest and tell them. Don't beat around the bush. If you don't tell them it will hurt them in the long way. And try to break it to them gently; following the golden rule. Treat others as you would have them treat you.


8 Comments, 266 Views, 43 Votes ,7.47 Score
kmart 42 M
2  Articles
Learning to say NO   9/12/2006

Many are the times that we try so much to live out of our own lives in order to please others and remain generally acceptable to friends, family and people around us.But for how long are we going to live lives that are not fulfilling because we cxan not stand up and say NO when its needed? When a person reaches a level where they can ably say NO when its necessary then that is what i call ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
yoshi_p 32 M
1  Article
saying not to sex.   7/26/2006

yes i have had sexual relationships in the past, which makes me able to talk to you on this topic. it isn't easy saying NO, and that is why i have entered into sexual relationships before. i deeply regret NOT saving myself for the person who i will spend my life with, when god sends me that special somone. now i have to live with the mistakes that ive made when i could have listened to the ...


6 Comments, 332 Views, 53 Votes ,8.78 Score
blazin_kristin 35 F
1  Article
† HONESTY: an easy 5 step guide to saying "No Thanks." †   7/12/2006

First of all, relax before you read this. Breath from your stomach a few sighs (not from your chest), think of God's divine being, and know that everything is going to be fine.
Yes it may hurt your pride, or someone else's approval of you, and most of all the person you are saying "no thanks" to. However, God's approval is first and not people's approval.
...



2 Comments, 152 Views, 26 Votes ,4.54 Score
GMan2002 46 M
1  Article
The first meet   7/11/2006

Generally once you have decided to meet up for the first time it is wise to take a few precautions. You may have come to this conclusion through e-mails or even chatting on a mobile phone (you may or may not have been happy about giving this out).
Whatever the case you have both made the decision and are keen to meet face to face for the first time (eyeball each other).
...


5 Comments, 249 Views, 27 Votes ,6.82 Score
kre8iv1 59 F
6  Articles
You gotta have "Faith"   7/10/2006

Sometimes we can feel lonely in our singleness and that can cause us to act rashly. This is a song that has helped me through the years to deal with my singleness and celebacy. It is a secular song, but it will steer you in the right direction all the same.
"Well I guess it would be nice If I could touch your body I know not everybody Has got a body like you ...


3 Comments, 145 Views, 15 Votes ,4.97 Score
joyful0061 62 F
1  Article
No means No   7/4/2006

Why is it that men often do not get it, that when a woman says NO that it means NO, why do they think that the woman is playing hard to get. OK, we know that the world has thrown morals out of the window, but we as true followers of Christ should remember that God wants the relationship to be pure. I believe that we women need to respect ourself, if we do not do it ourselves, men ...


7 Comments, 145 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
bluesofty 44 F
7  Articles
Trouble with saying no!   7/1/2006

I hate this word with a pasion! Whether its someone asking me for a favour or simply peeps taking liberties i still struggle. I guess Joyce Meyer would call me a People Pleaser?? Is this a bad thing?


5 Comments, 117 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Remember   6/19/2006

Remember what God has done for you and the successes you have had in life when discouragement tries to take you down, with that you can find yourself at the top of you mind again and be able to overcome worries


0 Comments, 32 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
N3604AR 39 M
1  Article
Why people do not respond   6/15/2006

I have spent some time sending emails on this site with no response. I think that this can be one of the most fustrating things about online dating. It seems like most people feel that no response is a loud and clear NO I AM NOT INTERESTED. This couldn't be farther from the truth. If somone sits down and takes the time to write an email Wouldn't writing a response however sort be a ...


14 Comments, 408 Views, 36 Votes ,6.00 Score
mysavior26 43 F
8  Articles
Modern Day Life and Rebuking Temptation   6/6/2006

I sat down to think about the reality of living in modern day life which pertains to satan!We can't go by what this world offers and the word sustains that, so Why do some women and men ...mostly younger ones find it hard to rebuke temptation when you have it in disguise or even plainly in front of you? Look reality is , sometimes we forget that our greatest loss is not what we need as in ...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
make progress and not excuses   5/31/2006

In life we all have desires aspirations and goals as well as objectives. And as we pursue these comes obstacles and difficulties but the difference between people who made it through is that unlike others who sees excuses they saw progress and possibilities. Therefore let us learn to make progress out of every situations and not excuses. People who had worked in this direction are read and ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
it is more serious tolose hope than to sin   5/24/2006

Hope is an element that we all need in life to carry through the functions of in the face of the variety of life issues that we are confronted with in our everyday life. The importance of HOPE was made clear in the bible when the bible says of ABRAHAM that he hoped against hope. What that means is that even when there was no reason for Abraham to hope for a better thing, he choose to hope ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
there is no perfect man or woman when it comes to relationship or marriage   5/21/2006

there is no perfect man of women when it come to relationship or marriage. all we need do is the determination to compromise and accept one another. both parties have the responsibility make the other perfect by working out the relationship for good. with this and focus on God things will always work


0 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Scammers new tricks   5/13/2006

Hello, just want to let you know that scammers have develop new ways of getting at people. In addition to the promise of marriage, and offer of business deal and request to transfer of huge money to your account, they now employ the tactics of telling their victim that the have one sickness or the other, or that they were involved in an accident, or one tragedy or the other that will ...


1 Comments, 85 Views, 8 Votes ,6.03 Score
BLESSED2239 47 F
11  Articles
FRIENDSHIP IS VERY IMPORTANT..   5/11/2006

WITHOUT GOD IT IS IMPOSSIBL, TO LOVE , TRUST, SHARE. HE GUIDS US IN EVERY WAY .WHAT A FRIEND WE HAVE IN JESUS, APPLY THE LOVE IN ALL THINGS TODAY AND ALWAYS , YOU SEE WHAT GOD CAN DO..... ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Be a good listener   5/11/2006

Be a good listener, don't be hasty to conclude but be slow to talk. why it is possible for your tongue to get you into trouble when you talk much without restain, your ears will never get you in trouble. the more you listen the more you aquire knowledge, and on the contrary, the more you talk the more you give out yourself and exposses you weaknesses


0 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
kind words are cheap but does great things   5/8/2006

Whenever we recieved KIND words from people around us we get excited and refreshed. tat means Kind words has a healing balm within it. But as often as we get KIND words from people we sometimes forget that they are cheap and costless. and if we do know that they are cheap and costless why then is it difficult for some of us to give this cheap and costless yet power source of great happiness ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Jesus still think the best for you no matter what   5/1/2006

Even when Jesus knows about you, and all you are but he choose to believe the best about you and for you. because he sees you not as you are but as you will be when he get through with you by his refinning power and fire. what a friend we have in him


0 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
How much of God's image do you reflect   4/28/2006

The Bible says that we are created in the image of God, if that is true which I know is, how much of God's image do you reflect. when we so often think about ourselves and ourselves alone ignoring others who are in pain, in need or so. we ask God to show his power through us but how ready are we to allow him do just that, and we say God do you will but still we tell him how we want him to ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Punished Out Of Wedlock?   4/22/2006

a preacher told a pregnant woman, she was being punished. For getting pregnant out of wedlock. She decided not to have the baby, which she later found out, were twins. She took her boyfriend to the doctor appointment so she could discuss getting an abortion. the boyfriend, said no, because he wanted the . even though he already had 4 other , from a previous marriage, he also wanted these ...


5 Comments, 145 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
Charity53076 47 F
36  Articles
gas prices   4/21/2006

sign this petition to lower gas prices ITS LEGIT i got it off of channel 7 action news http://bigchurch.com if you cant get it off that site click on this site http://bigchurch.com PS give it to everyone u know


1 Comments, 19 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score