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Date Disappointment 3/2/2007
I recently went on a date with someone I met from this site.
What I thought was going to be a fun and exciting time getting
to know this man and developing a friendship turned into
a day of regret.
This man is a recent widower who claimed that after only
three months that he was ready to get back into the dating
game. I questioned this decision but thought that he was
just ...
4 Comments, 391 Views,
38 Votes
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Now try this out for Size... 3/2/2007
"Ladies"...tell me how does it feel when the
gentlemen you have went out with actually ask you if they
may Kiss you? Just curious as how this makes one feel honestly..
I was simply amazed that this mannerism even existed anymore....Wow,
How pleasant....Let me know your responses...
15 Comments, 369 Views,
20 Votes
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Is Having Sex on the first date as bad as eveyone makes it seem? 12/27/2009
I have never been one to have sex on the first date, but I have
friends who have. They have said to me that life is to short
and you must enjoy it while you can just be safe. However
I feel a man will never respect you if you let your gaurd down
so easy. I have men friends who say that it's not true
it just depends on the women. I have somw women who say if
it's been a while and the night ...
6 Comments, 307 Views,
16 Votes
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another date at the movies!!!! 3/20/2007
Hello people .
thank you for the responses.
<br>
I just got back from a date and the fella got very upset with
me because I didnt give him a kiss or hug or hold his hand in
the movie theatre. he got mad at me and told me that I was an
unafectionate person!
<br>
What do you think about that?
6 Comments, 291 Views,
12 Votes
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seeing beyond looks 9/5/2007
I have been writing to someone online for a few weeks now.
We even talked on the phone. than at one point we exchanged
pictures. I e-mailed her but I never heard from her again.
Are people really just looking for what is on the outside?
In my book, Those kinds of people are Shallow. Why do people
do that?
8 Comments, 180 Views,
13 Votes
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Going out again after a long time single 1/20/2008
Hi there,
I just wanted to encourage all you who have been on your own
a long time, and are facing the prospect of a first date again.
If you feel as nervous as you did when you were a
on your first ever date, remember, the person you are meeting
probably feels just the same - just be comfortable with
who you are, if they can't accept you the way you are,
it's not the ...
2 Comments, 172 Views,
19 Votes
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What should I do on a...... 9/4/2007
Hey everyone,
I wanted to know (sence I have never gone on a date ever in
my life, nor kissed a girl) What I should do on a first date,
and how to act. Where do I take my date? How many places should
I take my date? If there are more then one place, then what
place should be last before I take her home? Girls this is
mainly open to you, because I need a girls point of view.
(all ...
7 Comments, 135 Views,
12 Votes
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What Do You Take On Your Date? 6/8/2007
When you date someone what do you take with you? By this I
mean do you take your chemistry filter and attraction barmeter
and decide and base your decisions for love and romance
on feelings alone? Or do you pack other valuable goodies
such as your values?
I once read that people who make bad decisions in dating
or are caught in a pattern of bad choices sometimes only
take their feelings with ...
4 Comments, 110 Views,
12 Votes
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Always look your best 10/18/2007
No matter what happens, when ever going out on a date be
sure to look your best.Dont take it as an ordinary casual
date.After the first date you could take every other thing
casual.You will be judged by your date on your apperance.A
mans look is his STATE of mind.
2 Comments, 108 Views,
10 Votes
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So, i got his number 8/19/2007
And i called right away, BIG MISTAKE!,
i stuck my foot in my mouth big time, i didnt' know what
to say, i mumble and my mind drew a blank.I think i made a bad
phone impression. What do you say the first time you call
a men you're interested in?, should i rehearse a line?, what's
a good phone ice-breaker?, and can i fix my phone bad impression
with this guy?.[/[/I...
7 Comments, 104 Views,
7 Votes
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Before internet dating... 7/10/2007
we all had to work much harder at this! you met through family
and friends, girls waited for guys to call (and they didn't
have caller ID, IMing, cell phones, etc) so they had to call
and call if they wanted to meet someone. also, there were no 'compatibility profiles',
etc. until you were in counseling before you married (if
you pursued such a thing). Is this all good? i a too new to
it to say. ...
0 Comments, 100 Views,
3 Votes
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pre- date nerves??? 6/8/2007
hi guys i thought i would ask this one to see if anyone else
has felt like me. it has been 4 months now that i have been on my own, and during
this time i have not had any dates even though i have been
asked on plenty i have turned them down as personally i felt
it was way too soon. anyway recently on line i have met the most wonderful gentleman
he is the same age as myself shares many of the ...
4 Comments, 86 Views,
7 Votes
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Be a Good Listener 3/6/2007
Jesus said, "he who has ears let him hear"...OK
a little out of context...
Outgoing people tend to forget one of the most important
keys about communicating with people. People generally
LOVE to talk about themselves. This is something I had to
learn early in my career as a consultant in the high-tech
arena. Have you ever met someone and realized at the end
of the evening, that you ...
3 Comments, 70 Views,
10 Votes
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Finding a date in Church (for the ladies) 2/19/2009
In church is the absolute best place to find a romantic interest,
but it is also the very hardest place to get one started.
I recently wrote the following in response to another blog,
and as I think about it, this is a very good subject to get
out there for everyone. In this one I will handle for the
women, how to get asked for a date in church. Later on will
be one for the men how to make it ...
2 Comments, 59 Views,
10 Votes
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What's Going on With That? 1/10/2009
Just had a chat with Christian woman who met a nice fellow
at a community dance. He asked her to dance a lot of the dances,
and at the end of the evening, he asked her if she would be
attending the same dance the following weekend, as he was
planning to be there again. She said she wasn't sure
about her schedule. As it turned out, she didn't go.
She later met him at another function, and said ...
1 Comments, 58 Views,
7 Votes
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Dating in your church 7/10/2007
How does one actually go about getting a date with an available
woman in your church. I've tried with two different
women, and failed on both. The first one was polite and said no, and I never brought
it up again, nor told anyone else I asked her out. We sometimes
talk a bit after service or class, but nothing meaningful
The second one was actually offended, and asked I not contact
her ...
4 Comments, 58 Views,
4 Votes
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hmmmm 6/8/2007
i was so nervous and so scared. i was just hoping that he wouldn't
kill me. fortunetaly, her just almost ran over a pedistration
not me...hahaha! but he was cool enough and he took where
ever i wanted to go and ate at whatever resturant i so desired.
the end of the relationship, was bad for me because it ended.
however, he thought we ended on a good note and the 9 months
(ya nine months!) ...
2 Comments, 54 Views,
5 Votes
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Keep it real! 7/10/2007
Too many people make the big mistake of paralleling a first
date with a job interview. You don't have to size up
your date for marriage just yet! Relax, have fun, and be
yourself! Trust me, the date will be a lot more enjoyable
if you let loose and engage in light conversation. Stay
away from the typical questions regarding work, family,
and future plans. Believe me, you'll be doing your ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
13 Votes
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The Missing Rib 3/26/2010
A girl in love asked her boyfriend. Girl: Tell me. Who do you love most in this world? Boy: You, of course! Girl: In your heart, what am I to you? Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in
her eyes and said, "You are my rib. It was said that
God saw that Adam was lonely, during his sleep, God took
one of Adam's rib and created Eve. Every man has been
searching for his missing rib, ...
2 Comments, 29 Views,
7 Votes
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Can I get a word in? 12/21/2009
I once went on a "first date", all the guy did
was talk about himself!! You know what happened at work,
so and so did this, and so and so did that. Me, me, me!!
I just wanted to scream, "SHUT UP!!" It's
bad enough you took me out to dinner, me all dressed up, to
the "Flaming Wok" in the food center at the mall.
Now I have to sit and listened to all of your woes!!
A first date ...
1 Comments, 29 Views,
9 Votes
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when people say "you don't know what I have been through" 11/12/2008
So many people are where they are today not because they
don’t want to move on but because they afraid to move on due
to what they have been through. Meanwhile whatever we have
been through are supposed to experiences to guide us from
making same mistake. To such people when you tell them to
do something or aspire to something, they quickly tell
you, oh I can’t and when you ask why ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
5 Votes
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One Liners For Today 6/8/2007
Marathon runners with bad footwear suffer the agony of
defeat.
When I get real bored, I like to drive downtown and get a great
parking spot, then sit in my car and count how many people
ask me if I'm leaving.
Yesterday I parked my car in a tow-away zone when I came back
the entire area was missing.
It's a small world, but I wouldn't want to have
to paint it. ...
2 Comments, 20 Views,
2 Votes
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Get REAL! 10/20/2008
If you are going on a first date.......GET REAL!! If you
are open and honest on your first date, I mean totally YOURSELF,
they either like you or NOT. If they don't then, hey,
you haven't waisted your time on somebody who isn't
going to like you anyway. Come right out and say, "I just want you to know that
from this moment on, I am totally myself. I believe in it,
and I would like for you to do ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
4 Votes
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Thought For Today 7/23/2007
Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grown beyond what you were.
0 Comments, 14 Views,
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Hello My BC Blog Friends 12/22/2007
When I post a blog, it doesn't mean you always have to
comment on them, I appreciate you taking the time to just
stop by and read and enjoy. On the other hand if you wish to
do something for me then you can also send:
Cash, petrol, Cash, chocolates,
Cash, pizza , CAsh, Fruit, CASh,
BURGERS, CASH, FRESH FISH, CASH,
COKE, etc, CASH along with other gifts and did ...
1 Comments, 12 Views,
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Beloved, 12/1/2009
"Beloved, do not be surprised at the ordeal that has
come to test you…you are sharing what Christ suffered;
so rejoice in it" (1 Peter 4:12).
Many a waiting hour was needful to enrich the harp of David,
and many a waiting hour in the wilderness will gather for
us a psalm of "thanksgiving, and the voice of melody, "
to cheer the hearts of fainting ones here below, and to ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
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Thou art God alone 12/1/2009
Thou art great, and doest wondrous things; Thou art God
alone."–Ps.
When anyone commences an important work, he takes time
and gives his attention to consider the greatness of his
undertaking. Men of science, in studying nature, require years of labour
to grasp the magnitude of, for instance, the sun and the
heavenly bodies. And is not our glorious God worthy that we ...
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genuineness 10/7/2007
when we walk with genuineness of heart there will always
be some great measure of satisfaction left behind in the
mind even though it might sometimes be painful during such
genuine walk. so we must endeavour to always walk in genuineness
of mind at all time
0 Comments, 7 Views,
3 Votes
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The LORD will give grace and glory"(Psalm 84:11). 12/1/2009
The LORD will give grace and glory"(Psalm 84:11).
Grace is what we need just now, and it is to be had freely.
What can be freer than a gift? Today we shall receive sustaining,
strengthening, sanctifying, satisfying grace. He has
given daily grace until now, and as for the future, that
grace is still sufficient. If we have but little grace the
fault must lie in ourselves; ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
1 Votes
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be concerned about yourself 11/23/2007
You have to do more things for yourself because it is when
you are happy and doing well that you can do better for others.
If you don't take care of yourself, you can't help
others because it is out of what you are that you give out
others.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
1 Votes
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