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stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
we should be bold to let go our pride   12/1/2005

Pride the bible says comes before fall, and this have denied many people of their happiness. When yo hold on to your pride you are bound to loss so many valuables. Many have lost someone they loved to their pride. But my counsel is that be willing to loss your pride to someone that loves you and whom you love that to loss some that loves you and tat you love to your pride.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
what we should do after been born-again   12/1/2005

When we are born again we have Christ and the Holy Spirit inside of us but that is not enough for us to fight the issues of life because that only takes us from condemnation to life. Having be saved we need to equip ourselves withthe weapon of war from the word of God, this most christians fall to do even some christians who were doing this sometimes fall back to mere haed knowledge of God. ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
keep moving and don't stop   11/29/2005

“There comes a time in your life when you realize that if you stand still, you will remain at this point forever. You realize that if you fall and stay down, life will pass you by…so Keep moving and don't stop unti you achieve you goal”


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God Should be the guide.   11/24/2005

People talk of dates as if man can do anything without His creator. If you must meet a good friend, it is God that directs your steps. It is written, the steps of a good man are ordered by he Lord. You do not look at faces to determine who is who. You must be prayerful for God to lead you as He lead others in time past. For the Psalmist says, that "this God is our God and He will be my ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Love is not hard   11/19/2005

I saw a post asking why is love so hard. But i find out that love is never hard as the bible teaches but our greet and selfishness made it seems it is hard. When we truelly love and willingly express it love is so simple and interesting.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
touchofangel 44 F
2  Articles
I't not so hard!! After all is just a "DATE"   11/9/2005

I haven't been in a date for more than 2yrs. But I still have the same expectations, joy, happiness, nervesness, and 1000 more things. I'm not a little girl any more but, what get me going and thinking about this time is that once I decide to go on a date it will be to start a friendship, and through prayer and patience I will get the final work. I don't go out with just anybody, I'm ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
first dates   11/9/2005

i think going on a date for the first time is to spend most of the time knowing the person your dating, and never rush off to motels or club with that person.show that someone the type of person you are and who you like to be with.never shower them with gifts and surprises either.a rose is fine or a small token.and when dating please be yourself, ladies dont over dress for god sake.and men ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
Christains Sheep / part I   11/5/2005

Boy, do we need a shepherd. We as Christians (at least me) give are hearts so easily. Moreover, for that, we at times are so gullible, but you know it is not us, it's the world. We should be able to trust other in a relationship, we should be able to say hello to our neighbors without them thinking if we were making a past at there spouse, and we should be able to leave the car or house ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
medicalbob05 68 M
1  Article
Why we should be equally yoked?   10/4/2005

In my marriage I felt that we had all the parts covered. We were both in 12 step programs, we wanted , (she wanted a house, she wanted to give up work) These last two topics were not discussed with me. Even though we were both on a spiritual course, we were not equally yoked. Her agenda did not include God, also when she stopped going to meetings we had nothing in common. If you meet ...


1 Comments, 60 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
traveller13 73 F
35  Articles
FIRST DATE...WHAT 'S WITH THAT ???   10/3/2005

Is that first meeting prompted by a desperate need to be with someone..anyone ? or is it prompted by faith that God will cause the right person to be in our lives. <br> Are we meeting someone for the first time, full of all kinds of worldly and secular expectations. such as..he has to have a handsome face or she has to fit into size 2 dress etc or be able to understand Einstein's ...


0 Comments, 76 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
never anticipate fear on your first date   9/27/2005

never anticipate fear on your first date because that could beecome a seed on which the devil can build on.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
tml721 60 M
7  Articles
Where do I go to find love??   9/24/2005

where is she? The woman god has for me? Will I find her here at BC or some place else.? What do I do to find her? 42 years and not getting any younger, am I doing something wrong??


5 Comments, 101 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
Dating and courtship   8/27/2005

I agree with godsgirl1597 for searching the scriptures to discover that essentials of godly living.Titus 2v11 tells God's viewpoint about relationships in Christ. Godliness is inthing beloved. Never allow the devil mess you up and keep you at daggers drawn with God.This is my scriptural stand.


0 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
godsgirl1597 69 F
3  Articles
Courtship vs. Dating   8/10/2005

You know this whole dating thing has really got me searching the scripture and seeking God in a big way. I have come to the conclusion that "Dating Several" has no biblical support at all. The secular world totally goes for it, but aren't we called to be separate from the world? <br> I am thinking that when you finally decide you want to "date" one person, maybe the groundwork ...


2 Comments, 266 Views, 28 Votes ,5.60 Score
godsgirl1597 69 F
3  Articles
Unrealistic Expectations?   8/9/2005

After I wrote about Dating Several or Just One? I started thinking about the expectations we have about someone we might meet. You know, the whole criteria thing and are we being realistic. It was a total self inventory for me... I found out that as much as I love God, there was a "superficial monster" lurking in my brain. That monster will take over the heart if we are not careful. ...


1 Comments, 158 Views, 20 Votes ,7.34 Score
joydancing 72 F
30  Articles
No chemistry?   8/7/2005

So you chatted online, you heard their voice, you are excited to meet them. What to wear? What to say? Oh my! <br> You meet face to face for the first time and hmmmm after an hour, you are desperately searching for words to say, to thank them, to encourage them to keep seeking the "one". <br> NO REGRETS, each person I have met, an open book, with eyes that reflect ...


2 Comments, 267 Views, 35 Votes ,7.29 Score
godsgirl1597 69 F
3  Articles
Dating Several or just One?   8/7/2005

I have been giving thought to the idea of dating. I recently decided that it was time to check back into this arena, my husband passed away a few years ago etc. One of the interesting things that I noticed when talking with guys, is that some of them have been on-line for a couple of years. In addition, they have had multiple dates, however never more than 2 or 3 with the same person, ...


1 Comments, 186 Views, 13 Votes ,6.16 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
The Most Important   7/7/2005

When it comes to first dating, the most important thing to look out for is the peace hat supassess human understanding, and not excitement, and sweet attraction and beauty, good command of words, and all the physical attribute that could turn eve the most firmly rooted rock. once that peaceis got everyother would follow. Butmost people rahter than look out for this peace which the holy ...


0 Comments, 82 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
seekingmyprince 45 F
7  Articles
Enjoy it   6/25/2005

My opinion is that first dates should be relatively short and under conditions where the two of you can talk and get to know one another IF you have only just recently met. On the other hand IF you've known each other forever AND just now beginning a "romantic" relationship the rules change. Do what you know you both enjoy and just have a great time.


0 Comments, 131 Views, 18 Votes ,3.53 Score
HawthorneHeights 39 M
14  Articles
first date etiquette   6/9/2005

Don't ever kiss on the first date.


2 Comments, 262 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
joydancing 72 F
30  Articles
Gold Beach Oregon   6/8/2005

What place on the map shall go to meet a bridegroom half way? Living in California with an Oregon state of mind, specifically Gold Beach, Oregon where my sister-in-law graduated from Gold Beach Union High with a class of 50 students. The postmaster was her dad, and she got to name the road she lived on "Hound Rd". Yes it is a small, quaint town, the kind I long to retire in. Loving the ...


2 Comments, 65 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
joydancing 72 F
30  Articles
Attractive Chemistry   6/7/2005

Attractive from the inside out is what I am talking about. That chemistry, that familiar and exciting recognition of a like mind, that inner stirring that can be trusted as His affirmation. The older we get, the harder it becomes to find someone completely compatible. However there are some characteristics that are essential. Mutual chemistry, that drawing, exciting attraction that happens ...


2 Comments, 129 Views, 19 Votes ,6.82 Score
Sow your seed in the morning,   4/26/2005

Sow your seed in the morning, and at evening let not your hands be idle, for you do not know which will succeed, whether this or that, or whether both will do equally well. Ecclesiastes 11:6


1 Comments, 178 Views, 17 Votes ,3.97 Score
conisings 58 F
21  Articles
I Don’t Care if it is the year 2005   4/16/2005

I Still Don’t Kiss on the First Date <br> Has this happened to you? You meet a guy who seems really cool and whom you think you can like. He asks you out, you have a great time. You’re just trying to chill and get to know a brother but before the night is over…he’s all over you. <br> Now, it’s one thing if the feeling is mutual, ...


5 Comments, 357 Views, 30 Votes ,6.96 Score
Home26 45 M
1  Article
God is Love   4/3/2005

If there ever was a proverbial "book of love" there's only one who could write it. From beginning to end all romantic ideas, ideals of intemacy, passions and romance uncorrupted and pure are God's original and self instigated standard for those whom he created to love and those to love him in return. <br> lol.. that was fun. I like to practice wordy thuroughness, though I'm ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
Greaterthings 43 F
14  Articles
Will you come back she asks?   2/28/2005

Will you come again she asks? No pressure to be placed But honesty at stake A moment of truth Heart breaths still Not knowing how to handle a ‘yes’ <br> She’s been a mess And possibly rude She’s frustrated that Hurt had to intrude <br> Her mind is confused Because her heart stands pure How can you not see the invisible? Does ...


0 Comments, 156 Views, 16 Votes ,2.25 Score
Randombird 50 F
17  Articles
A good first date   1/20/2005

I just want to share this. I went on a first date a few weeks ago. The guy turned up asking me if I wanted a tellie (!) - it was too big for my place but what a kind gesture! Eventually he gave it to someone else. He brought me a bottle of wine although he doesn't drink anymore. He opened doors for me all day and paid for lunch. And when he went to leave, he kissed my hand! Wherever it ...


0 Comments, 518 Views, 55 Votes ,5.20 Score
barum2b 32 M
1  Article
have you had one before!   1/15/2005

there is only one thing to life, this is that thing, we all need to have someone to rely on in a human form. it is this that makes people want to go out for a date, now it is the first date.what do you do ? who will buy if it is food? who will pay for the taxi , if it be in such an event? who will say what time to leave? i have more questions but anyway maybe becoz ihave to leave it ...


0 Comments, 162 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
Omni-Vision   1/12/2005

You open my heart and allow me to see. In less than an instant I've been set free. <br> I've been given sight like a bird on the wing. Over green meadows I hear the grass sing. <br> Soaring high, above the limitless sky, Past colourful sounds to the Light of His eye.


0 Comments, 60 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
Angelhart1953 68 F
17  Articles
Any suggestions for dateing after being widowed   1/8/2005

This whole dateing game really scares me. Since it has been at least 20 years since I last was 'on the scean' and boy have things changed!. <br> I was widowed in September 99 after fifteen wonderful years of mariage. One thing my husband made me promise him however was that I would not remain alone. <br> I now feel that I am ready to start exploring the posabilities ...


4 Comments, 279 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score