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Divorce and it's aftermath............... 11/6/2007
Divorce can be a very painful experience. Personally I
was devastated by my "discovery", and had HUGE
problems dealing with what my husband had done. It is not
uncommon for one to do things in which are totally unlike
themselves. They can act, speak, and do "crazy"
things while dealing with the pain.
Lack of sleep was a biggy for me. I sat up all night dwelling
on things. It was hard ...
5 Comments, 60 Views,
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sometimes its good 11/5/2007
sometimes breaking up is good if you want to move on, don't stay in the relationship and if you dont
want to be there just because you feel sorry for the person,
or you are worried about how the person will react, you are
just hurting the person more, then you become a liar and
a cheater. think about it.
this is the melodymac from the poetic melody blog
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learning the value of patience in a realtionship! 10/31/2007
I have been seeing this guy off and on for 1 1/2 yrs. During
this time I have broken up with him 3 times. Only to have something
draw me back to him. I have prayed about this so many times.
And have even ask God to take this man out of my heart. I am
madly in love with him and I know that he loves me. But he can
be so inconsiderate at times. Not calling when he says he
will and working so ...
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steps to 9/18/2007
The Steps To Breaking Up The Steps To Breaking up when you need to do it, do it with
as little pain as possible! by owen
Just the words, break up, indicate a situation riddled
with impending pain and loss. Even if both parties involved
agree it is in their best interests to part romantic ways,
there is still a certain amount of loss attached. The best
way to approach a break up is to ...
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Forgiving others and Forgiving ourselves 9/12/2007
It is hard to forget the wrongs that others have done to us,
Or sometimes the wrongs we have done to others. For instance
abuse, whether physical, verbal, is not easily forgotten.
Or even mental abuse. Such as in a divorce where one or both
people think, that maybe there was something they could
or should have done to save the marrage. They blame themselves
and the pain that is felt is ...
2 Comments, 102 Views,
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Break up advice 9/4/2007
In general, breakups happen because the two simply can't
find happiness together. Either one or the other realizes
that they aren't a perfect match and they decide that
it's time to move on. Often they move on, emotionally,
long before they move on physically. Aloofness, coldness,
a tendency to start arguments are all signs of someone beginning
to pull away.
Even though it can be the ...
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Sometimes 9/2/2007
Breacking up is hard.I still think about the special times
we shared.It was for the best.When I see couples walking
holding hands, It reminds me of us.A big smile and a laugh
is in my thoughts alot.I want you to be happy and have a good
life.Mostpeople wouldn't want you to be happy, But
That isn't me.I hope you have found that special person.
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Prayer For Today And For All Of You My Brothers And Sisters In Christ 8/28/2007
Please take a moment to relax your mind and humble your heart
to focus on Christ. Allow God, to be the only person on your
mind while you read this prayer. Friends that pray together,
stay together, there are a lot of hurting people on this
site in search of answers, prayers, forgiveness, etc.
Dear Lord, I thank You for this day. I thank You for my being
able to see and to hear this ...
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8/26/2007
(NOUN)
1) A mammal found extensively throughout the planet, often
clustered in groups in front of television sets (See SLOTHS).
Thought to be a member of Homo Sapiens due to physical similarities, though social and emotional behavior leads
many researchers to consider Teenagers to be a completely
different species altogether (See PARENTS) Very territorial.
(See ITS MY ROOM STAY OUT OF ...
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Friendship 8/1/2007
l think that its best when people break up, they should at
least be civil enough to seperate the lovingship or darlingship
to the friendship. l find it more bearable that way as you
will one day sit down and see what went wrong and laugh about
it and not repeat it again the next time round in your other
relationship........ think of a situation where
are involved, well being enemies is just ...
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Should I date someone at work??? 7/11/2007
Hey everyone,
I would like to see who thinks dating a coe-worker is good
or bad idea, and why they think that. I am not going to judge
anyone for there answers and I will consider them carefully.
I would just like to see what people think.
Thanks,
Lord
8 Comments, 127 Views,
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Proverbs 31 woman 6/26/2007
In many male profiles I have noticed "looking for
the Proverbs 31 woman". I would like to put forth a
discussion regarding Ephesians 5:22-33.
The Lord has instructed both women and men to be a certain
way within a relationship. I see men looking for it, or at
least saying they want a Proverbs 31 woman.
Woman how come we are not doing the same? Looking for Ephesians ...
3 Comments, 120 Views,
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Why is it so hard to say goodbye 6/19/2007
I have been in a few serious long term relationships in my
life that ended up
not working for verious reasons. A few
men just stopped calling me and stopped
taking my calls. No reason, no goodbye
...nothing. Just ignored me and hoped
I got the hint. How hard can it be to
tell a women that you aren't happy with
the relationship and want to stop dating.
I would much prefer that he ...
2 Comments, 89 Views,
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RE-MARRIAGE FOR THE DIVORCED (update) 6/16/2007
In going through my old articles I have found this one. I
have since encountered new information which sheds a lot
of light on the matter, and exposes a long held misunderstanding.
I will leave the old article up, but I will post a response
that points here.
It has been long understood that in the Bible, that putting
one's spouse away meant divorce, but it does not.
...
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Memories after a breakup 6/9/2007
All of you get into a relationship because you feel euphoric
love for your partner. You love whatever your partner does.
That love makes you feel very good. You experience great
joy and feel special. All this changes over a period of time
for some of you. First you begin finding mistakes in each
other. Then you blame each other for small things. You blame
each other for not caring. You start ...
3 Comments, 100 Views,
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Just wanted to change the number... 5/5/2007
Hi everyone, I have noticed for quite some time now the number
of articles on this subject has been at 666 and was surprised
that no one wanted to write an article to change it. So, this
article has nothing to do with breaking up as far as relationships,
just breaking up the horrible number that this column was
stuck on!!
God bless, have a great week...His4ever2006
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Through the fire... 4/29/2007
My fiancee just recently broke up with me. I'm a soldier
currently serving in Iraq. The pain I've felt over
the past month has been more than anything I've ever
felt before. But I've also realized that this is totally
part of His plan. See, the Lord has used this to get me closer
to Him than ever before. Ironically, I was reading Job for
the first time the week before this happened. ...
5 Comments, 212 Views,
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COLD SHOULDER 4/26/2007
WHAT DO YOU DO WITH A DEAD RELATIONSHIP IN A MARRIAGE? staying
under one roof but separate rooms, giving cold shoulder
for almost ten years, refused to divorce or take any action.
did not show up at the lawyer office.
9 Comments, 303 Views,
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Moving On 4/24/2007
We’ve all been there. Breaking up with someone you love
is one of the most painful situations you ever have to face.
In the aftermath of rejection, the hurt, the misery, the
loneliness and the feeling that the future just disappeared,
look as though they’ll go on forever. If you are the one being left, expect to be plundered by changing
feelings. You will vacillate from feeling ...
2 Comments, 153 Views,
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trying to understand people! 4/15/2007
I have so far written 2 articles. And had some good responses.
It is very helpful to me to sit down and put my feelings into
words. I have alot of family and friends that I have talked
to about the things going on in my life. But I do believe that
this outlet has been very good for me. I know that I have alot
to learn about realtionships. I guess in general about
people. There are very ...
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love is in the air 4/13/2007
where i find my love
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Online dating breaking up 4/12/2007
I have friends involved in the 'online dating'
scene. Having just started myself, I don't have any
stories about breaking up as I'm still in the getting-to-know-you
stage with a few guys. However, she said that she may talk
to a guy for weeks and out of nowhere he stops the conversation
and doesn't make another comment. This is after sharing
a lot of themselves with that person. I'm certain ...
2 Comments, 63 Views,
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My Story (feed back please) 4/10/2007
Dear reader's
I have had to tell about my life for a few profiles.And to
respond to lady's asking for detail's about the
thing's I have been through
the last three year's.So after telling my story
half a dozen time's.I had gotten good at putting
the major event's togeather, in a digested form.
But by putting it all togeather, it read like the saddest
story, you've ever heard.So the ...
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It's hard to do 3/17/2007
Thinking back over break ups I've been through, each
has helped me learn more about myself, about life in general,
and certainly about being in relationship.
While earning my Master's degree in Human Development,
I interviewed a group of people who have suffered the loss
of love through divorce or death. In each case, these folks
talked about the journey of grief that took them from a ...
1 Comments, 60 Views,
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test 3/16/2007
test
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love 3/15/2007
sab kuche .....
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I am breaking up 3/14/2007
I am breaking from whatever it is that kept holding me down.
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The Disappearing Act 2/22/2007
I'm no expert, but someone once told me that the soul
of good manners was the ability to put people at ease and
make them feel valued. That said, I'm going to use this
space today to discuss what I see as the most prevalent example
of bad manners in the single world: "The Disappearing
Act".
For those of you who are unfamiliar with this term, it's
what I call it when a person that ...
3 Comments, 96 Views,
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comforting quotes... 2/19/2007
Maybe somebody has heard these before, but I like to remember
these quotes when I am faced with breakups and/or hardships...
"When one door closes, another one opens"
"Sometimes we look so long at the closed door, that
we don't notice the one that is opened right in front
of us"
I've been through enough breakups in my time to know
that every breakup has led to ...
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INSIGHTS ON DATING/NOT BY CHANCE 1/31/2007
Bonds of friendship will form more
quickly and discoveries about other person, will be easier
to make when parental approval prompts openness and consideration.
Dating is a way of learning the other person's personality
traits and also a way of having fun while building relationship.
During dating period, one discovers what character traits
blend best with his or her ...
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