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ShakinaGlow 71F

1/11/2018 2:52 pm

If I were you, I would cease all communication with these scammers with whom you've established contact. You've already given out too much information to people who are greedy. But don't certain women on here essentially do the same thing? Meaning, there are women online who are hoping to find a man who will marry and support them financially. And, if those women come across as desperate, that might only attract more takers who wait in the wings to victimize the vulnerable.

15 years' ago, BigChurch was actually kind of lively with Christians writing blogs and making friends, even though scammers existed back then too. But now? It's nothing but the dregs of humanity, and Christians have pretty much blown this place.

You can forget about reporting scammers, by the way. The site managers on BigChurch do not care.



Sojourner06 60M
1768 posts
1/12/2018 2:40 am

Hi Iwang.

First of all: the Report Button doesn't work. Been that way for a very long time.

Secondly there are too many scammers at this site. - as you also found out.
Giving mailadresses out is only asking for problems.
I gave my mailadress to 3 people so far. After checking and rechecking again and again they are real people.
An idea is to copy their mailadresses - when given to you - and make a search at Google. Sometimes search results comes up with interesting things.

Invite them to visit your Blog here at BC. If they are real interested they might make a visit.

Blessings



Sojourner

I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You

Good News For Christian Man ABP

"REVELATION"


Sojourner06 60M
1768 posts
1/12/2018 2:56 am

- I forgot to mention it's possible to copy their photo and then make a search.

You can use Google reversed image search. Right click at the photo and choose Copy image address.
Then paste it.

There are many sites telling of scammers including the used (stolen) photos. E.g RomanceScam.

If the photo is there, it will be shown at the results of your photo search.

if my English isn't that good it's because I'm not a native English.

Blessings



Sojourner

I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You

Good News For Christian Man ABP

"REVELATION"


ShakinaGlow 71F

1/12/2018 7:54 am

Why don't you try calling BC customer service and asking if you're eligible for a gold membership refund: 408-702-1033 or 888-575-8383. You shouldn't have to pay for being inundated with BC scammers.


scottsforest 59M
1 post
1/15/2018 9:34 am

Be careful. Many scammers but there are still some real people. Scammers use Am a lot to start sentences... one thing to watch for... instead of I am. If money ever comes up in anyway... report the scammer. Blessing to the honest good people here looking for love and great new friends.


phoenix2016 65F
7 posts
1/30/2018 1:53 pm

there are signs,, of scammers,,, a pic to good to be true,,, poor spelling and grammer,, excessive use of terms of endearment,, widowed with a job in the contruction or enginneering industy,, etc etc,, I was on here for many years and most of the emails i got were scammers,,


phoenix2016 65F
7 posts
1/30/2018 1:55 pm

the time on the email is not a reliable indicater as they us proxy servers in other countrys to make it look like they are actual citizens. I dont even bother checking emails.. in 10 years on here, ,besides the few i got from the chat rooms,,, I had NO legit emails..be very very careful


phoenix2016 65F
7 posts
1/30/2018 1:56 pm

google chrome has a exte nsion u can ad which will let u search photos. its not 100 percent accurate but a lot of the pics will come up on romancescams or other websites as lifted pics,,