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Moving on? AS those of you know i went though a very traumatic year a few years ago at my job in California, in a nutshell I was bullied, set up to fail, harassed, and not rehired,, My question is HOW does one move on from something this traumatic? I KNOW i need to forgive the parties involved, but for some reason I am having difficulties moving on, it is affecting me here in a PTSD kinda way, It keeps replaying, I am concerned that it is developing into an obsession. I am trying to turn it over to God but HOW does one do this,, this is the ONLY thing that has happened to me that I cannot seem to move forward from,, Suggestions out side of counselling, I have no funds for that at this time... |
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11/22/2013 7:50 pm |
I think you do have to talk to someone who has spent years dealing with social problems in the work place. There's really is no ideal person. Only you know what you really went through, but maybe make the time to read what's out there first. There is so much information on the net. You can post other messages on other sites, and go from there, but I'm sure there are some Christian books on the subject too.
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Then you must have a really hard time even breathing, SoH. You harass everybody, and you bully the rest. But of cause you are not a Christian. What else to expect?? Blessings Mogens I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You Good News For Christian Man ABP "REVELATION"
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Hi SoH It's quite funny to see how you think you can judge others of what YOU think they have been doing wrong. Ever gave it a thought that you "you reap what you sow" judgement goes for yourself?? Your "Law of Retribution" which you have chosen to live under instead of being a Christian goes for yourself too?? Talking of harassing and bullying others... Have you ever seen what you are doing yourself?? YOU are harassing everybody else if they don't fall down on their knees and say you are the only right one in here. I can see all of your above writings are only pointing back at yourself. Your own words, deeds and writings are the accuser of your own sin, SoH. Together with the Holy Spirit. You are STILL not a Christian. You never where. YOU are just an abuser of others. Blessings Mogens I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You Good News For Christian Man ABP "REVELATION"
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I am not saying you are not a Christian, SoH. I am stating the FACT you are not a Christian. I am witnessing to you, that you are not a Christian. You have to repent all of your deeds and writings and come to Christ. All the time you have been in here your ears have been closed to the Gospel of Christ. So it makes no sense keeping preaching for you. I am not insulting you. And if you feel insulted it is because you need to repent and find Christ, the one that could be your saviour. Keep laughing. Blessings Mogens I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You Good News For Christian Man ABP "REVELATION"
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You are right. Your deeds and acts is mentioned in the Bible. It is called sin. I keep interfering "between another's conversation" as long as it has to be done. How Can you apply the Word of God when you don't know the Word of God? You seem to have read the Bible, but you haven't understood one word of it. You keep coming up with your "Spiritual Laws", but you don't know what is Spiritual and what is human philosophy. You are still not a Christian, so how should you be able to do so. Blessings Mogens I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You Good News For Christian Man ABP "REVELATION"
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Hi Restless If you want to erase and/or ban me from your Blog because you want to. Feel free to do so. Blessings Mogens I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You Good News For Christian Man ABP "REVELATION"
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Hi restless  meow's idea is a very good one. To possibly add to it, I would suggest explaining (in as much detail as you can remember and are willing to talk about) to that 'person' in the chair across from you of how the things they did to you made you feel, and how those things are still affecting you know. It will likely hurt and possibly make you angry to bring those things up again, but it appears to me that you've suppressed thoroughly dealing with this instead of letting it all out. If I'm wrong in my assumption that you haven't thoroughly dealt with it, please forgive me. I mean no harm by my observation and opinion. It helps to actually SPEAK (even if just to an imaginary person) of what was done in detail instead of just THINKING about it. A good cry also helps. Once you've explained yourself to that 'person', forgive him / her one-by-one for each instance you feel that you were wronged. Remember that we are all constantly battling the enemy and his demons. Some people either can not see or are ignorant of this, or simply are not spiritually strong enough to battle the enemy successfully. You have the power of our Lord within you to defeat the enemy, don't let the enemy or his demons even have an inch within your life. You CAN defeat him! I love you my sister-in-Christ, and will pray with you for his guidance and strength.
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Hi Mr. Meow Sometimes you have to place YOURSELF in that chair of yours. And try to be sitting on both sides. To forgive a man sets you free. For the man who was forgiven it takes to receive that forgiveness for being free as well. You can tie yourself up by not forgiving yourself. And you can tie yourself up by not RECEIVING your own forgiveness Blessings Mogens I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You Good News For Christian Man ABP "REVELATION"
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SOH is banned from here, IF his post were true then it would be balanced out by the care and love I’ve given 20 years of developmentally delayed kids in my field. God used this to answer a prayer i prayed, to be able to get out of a situation in Cali without owing the district a ton of money and be forever in debt to them, this was the ONLY way it could have happened. There were good things that came outta it, just the trauma of going though all that was what im dealing with still.... His Post was not true, and you know it! Since when do we as the children of God have to fear that "law of Retribution" of his? I think you know both Grace and Mercy. Without knowing both of them, you would never ever have so far in your life. So who is giving Grace and Mercy to true Christians like you?? Do we have to DESERVE the Grace of God; now we are living under the Law of Christ. It's true Jesus never turned down any part of the Law. He FULFILLED the Law, so the Law is still there to be obeyed, and we are in Christ and therefore obeying the Law. In Denmark we say the only word to describe Grace (Naade) is "for free" (gratis). We can do nothing to deserve it or get it. But it is given to us - for free. So you are living under His Grace. Grab it and walk on! Blessings Mogens I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You Good News For Christian Man ABP "REVELATION"
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