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hotliving 43M
7 posts
2/3/2012 12:32 pm
Dating Site Bigchurch.com


So many girls and which one. What do you think and its like reaching through darkness. A needle in hay stake.
Ive had to read the profiles and many looks to make my mind up quickly and think what i would like and she would like.

Ive now had enough and am just spinnning with Info about different
profiles and ladies.
I feel like going to the pub the try to patenience is now like mamny doing the same thing. I may give up but we will see what happens and stay committed.

gavinLS 69M
410 posts
2/3/2012 5:57 pm

Hotliving, I'll give u the same advice I've given most young people in BC: Don't get a lover. Instead, invest your timem, energy, and money into the aquisition of a good pick-up truck (2wd is sufficient, as long as it has a stick shift) and a dog. Your life will be much happier in the long run.


CalvarysPrice 67F

2/3/2012 6:34 pm

Hey Gavin--My Guy has a truck AND me so he best be a pretty Happy camper lol


Hisglory78 64M
187 posts
2/3/2012 11:22 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes indeed hotliving; and I am one of them. My first word of advice is pray about it.
If a particular gal catches your fancy, rather then try to contact her right away, revisit her profile a time or two a week. That tells her you are looking at her, because the site has a feature that sends an E-mail each time your profile is viewed by someone who matches a majority of traits you selected. It's pretty easy to notice the same person viewing you several times. My wife did that which caught my attention.
Having in your profile what you like and are looking for is good, but it can only be read by paid members. You might post it and see who bites. That's what my wife did to get my response. Once she posted her preferences, I saw her and replied within a couple days. We exchanged only briefly on the public blogs before we went to the site's E-mail system.

But still beware, and practice safe internet dating protocol. There are people on here who are not as they claim.