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Dealing with others in chat rooms who attack and make false accusations against you out of spite. One thing I have noticed since first chatting here back in May of 2005 is that there are some childish, petty and really disturbed people who like to troll the chatrooms and always cause trouble and try to bully and pick on people. They often try to make it appear they are the nice ones are good guys when doing so which is laughable. They have to be severly deluded if they really think they are fooling most people in doing so. I shall give an example or two of what I speak. Once a women poped into the group no one had ever seen before or knew and anounced I have formed a new anti-scammer group that will catch all evil doers and ban them. Now I had mixed feelings when hearing this, I was very leary about hearing all this about scammers and didn't hardly trust anyone on line anyway. So part of me naturally agreed with catching them. However when I noticed others concerns that such "groups" have bene used to falsely accuse and bann innocent people in the past here I became concerned as I knew the argumentive people and trouble makers on here would love to use such a group to attack those they didn't like. So I expressed my concern over this outloud the person rushed to assure us that could nerver happen. I remained sceptical and other long time members whom I had a lot of respect for shared the concern. Any way people tried to view this persons profile and they had it turned off, some began to ask this person questions about it, the person started getting real defensive and irriatible when asked about having the profile turned off and barked out "I have nothing to hide!". That's was my first indiction this person wasn't what they were pretending to be or on the up and up. I eventually went ahead and joined the "anti-scammer group" don't ask me why after my first impression of one of the founders. I noticed that the person I had refered to who was female seemed to be on a malicious hate filled vendetta against all men in several of her post, yet claimed to be a goody goody church goer. I thought thats odd such hatred based on something so silly yet claiming to be a goody goody Christian church goer. On these thread after I had read her comments claiming partically all men on chat rooms or dating forums where scammers I had to chime in against this bias and injustice. I merely replied in so many words that's not really true cause I know lots of good guys who are sincerely seeking true love out there and we have to deal with a large amount of female scammers. So trying to blame that all on all men and saying women are always the perfectly innocent victims is not ture and is dishonest to say the least. Every single post I made on this subject which I thought was very reasonable and mild on my part was subsequently deleted by this person. I know I wasn't dealing with a fair and honest person after that exprence but it got worse. I noticed some of the women who joined the group complain they were supposedly the intended victims of a male scammer, but yet these same women claiming this I had seen in the chat room trying to sit there and convince people to mail them money with some sob story or other that seemd highly unlikely. Finally a light switched on in my head these people in this group at least some of them were doing the same exact thing they were acusing others off! It was like their dirty underhanded strategy, to point the finger at others to cover up what they themselves were really like. They thought they were being so diabolically clever. Now let me say this I am not trying to be down on women in general in reporting these events, only discussing the people I am refering to whom shall remain nameless. Later on after watching this person try to provoke qnd start numerous arguments in the chat rooms over silly, meaningless things on numerous occasion I knew this person wasn't exactly dealing with a full deck. A long time friend informed me recently that when they first started chatting with me the very same person had accused me of being a scammer. I had to laugh even though the lies and false accusations weren't really funny. The friend was like yeah I have been talking to you how many years now and know that's ridiculous? I was like yeah thats just silly. Then also I saw the persons name in a another Christian chat room I sometimes chat in, along with one of her cohorts from big church I never really thought very highly of. I tried to ignore them. But knew it spelled trouble and suspected they were up to no good and wanting to stir things up. Later someone woman poped in the room saying there is a scammer in the room. I knew I wasnt or never had been one, but had wondered if the one suspect woman from big church had tried to tell her and others I was out of spite and hatred. Recently after being away from big church to try and recuperate my nerves after dealing with all the childishness and bickering in here I had recently returned and started chatting more again. No sooner had I started than some of the same people came in and tried to provoke fights over something completely silly and try to twist it around to make it look like my fault. If I dared try to defend myself at all they tried to claim that I was the one being 'mean" and tried to get their pals to gang up on me in a little hate group. I was like ok this is 12 year old behavoir and some of these people acting like this are in their 40's and 50's lol. I thought man what a nut house I have ran into on here. What realy took the cake I was recently chatting with my aforesaid long time friend from here and a few people tried to interupt the conversation and provoke me by silly baseless attacks over nothing and then declared when somewhat put in their palce 'we are just trying to "defend" you and save you from scammers' when the person I was talking was enjoying chatting with me and was calling me all the time and starting most of the convo's herself and didn't feel like they need someone to "defend" them from me chatting with them. They then seemed to be trying to drudge up the old tactic about calling people names as a strategy to attack them, when it was rather obvious what they were really doing was trying to interupt a man and woman who seemed to be taking a like to each other and putting a stop to it before any real friendship could develop. Like they were afraid a real couple could get together from here and they must squash any possibility of that happening, very strange indeed. I had figured out a long time ago and heard many others say that there were some satanist and "wiccans" and others who hate Christians who troll the chat rooms on here and possibly other supposedly Christian dating sites to try and provoke trouble and perventing any matchs made between sincere people on them. I think this goes a long way towards explaining the phenomena I have just described in the proceeding blog. I am not sure all this was even worth bringing up, but it at least helped get it all off my chest. |
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