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shadowwarrior752 71M
15 posts
5/23/2010 8:02 pm
ARE YOU PART OF THE PROBLEM?


UNLESS YOU HAVE BEEN ASLEEP IT SHOULD BE APPARENT THAT AS A NATION IT SEEMS WE HAVE DERAILED SOMEWHERE. YOU WOULD BE HARDPRESSED TO FIND A CITY OF ANY SIZE THAT WOULDNT YIELD EVERY FORM OF BEHAVIOUR FOUND IN ANCIENT SODOM AND GOMORRAH. THERE HAS BEEN MUCH RESEARCH AND DISCUSSION ON WHY THE UNITED STATES IS NOT REFERENCED IN REVELATIONS. THEORIES RUN THE GAMUT. ONE THAT HAS GIVEN ALOT OF DISCUSSION IS THAT WE ARE BEING GIVEN A CHOICE. WE CAN CHOOSE TO BE UNDER GODS BLESSING OR WE CAN PERISH. OUR RECENT PAST HISTORY SHOWS US THAT THIS DOWNWARD SPIRAL HAS BEEN ACCOMPLISHED BY THE VICIOUS ATTACK ON THE FAMILY UNIT. STOP AND THINK OF ALL THE ILLS HAVE BEE SET ON SOCIETY BY THE NO FAULT DIVORCE LAWS. AS A POPULATION THE CHRISTIAN POPULATION HAS THE HIGHEST DIVORCE RATE. IN FACT THE DIVORCE RATE OR SEPERATION RATE OF GAY COUPLES IS ONE TENTH OF WHAT THE CHRISTIAN RATE IS. THIS FACT IS OFTEN USED BY THOSE PUSHING FOR SAME SEX MARRIAGE. LETS FACE IT. THE MAJORITY OF PASTORS TODAY ARE WIMPS. THEY ARE AFRAID OF MAKING THEIR FLOCK MAD. THEY OVERLOOK BEHAVIORS THAT ARE WRONG. THEY FEAR A LOSS IN TITHES. A STRONG PASTOR WILL TELL YOU THE STRAIGHTFORWARD TRUTH. MARRIAGE IS MORE ABOUT MAKING YOU HOLY RATHER THAN MAKING YOU HAPPY. DOING MY MASTERS RESEARCH I INTERVIEWED COUPLES THAT HAD BEEN MARRIED MORE THAN 30 YEARS. THE COMMON THREAD WAS THAT DIVORCE NEVER CAME UP BECAUSE IT WAS NEVER AN OPTION. YET WHEN I INTERVIEWED DIVORCEES THEY ALL BELIEVED THAT DIVORCE WAS A VIABLE OPTION. THOSE WHO WERE DIVORCED DID SAY THOUGH THAT THEY WERENT ANY HAPPIER OR BETTER OFF YEARS LATER. SO ASK YOURSELF THIS. WHAT WOULD YOU DO DIFFERENTLY IF DIVORCE WAS NOT ALLOWED. IT MAY SUPRISE YOU BUT MOST COUPLES WANT THE SAME THING BUT THEY SPEAK OF THEIR DESIRES IN DIFFERENT LANGUAGES. IF WE COULD BRING THE DIVORCE RATE DOWN BY 50 % THINK OF WHAT KIND OF NATION WE COULD HAVE. SO ARE YOU PART OF THE SOLUTION OR PART OF THE PROBLEM?

beyondthefuture 51M

5/23/2010 8:23 pm

shadow, forgot to tell you that it seems everyone on the net except Clinton hates All caps. lol


TwoCents 77F
2510 posts
5/23/2010 8:30 pm

I guess I'm part of the problem because I'm probably looking at a divorce in my near future.


Live like there's no tomorrow
Laugh when you feel like crying
Love like you've never been hurt


beyondthefuture 51M

5/23/2010 9:01 pm

Twocents... ok i won't divorce you.


ladylightwalker

5/23/2010 9:37 pm

I'm so sorry Elizabeth. As most everyone here knows, so was I. But God did a work in us both, and still is. I'm so glad, cause it felt horribly wrong for us. Thanks for the post shadow, even if you were yelling lol...kidding... blessings



"Love is Patient..."


TwoCents 77F
2510 posts
5/24/2010 7:04 am

    Quoting ladylightwalker:
    I'm so sorry Elizabeth. As most everyone here knows, so was I. But God did a work in us both, and still is. I'm so glad, cause it felt horribly wrong for us. Thanks for the post shadow, even if you were yelling lol...kidding... blessings
This man may or may not believe this but I believe with all my heart God orchestrated this whole thing. I refuse to take one step without Him holding my hand. He alone knows! Everybody asks how are you doing? Are you okay? I'm fine and I have a peace about this whole thing. I'm not heart broken nor am I mourning. I'm really okay with this. Thanks for caring!


Live like there's no tomorrow
Laugh when you feel like crying
Love like you've never been hurt


ladylightwalker

5/24/2010 4:25 pm

Elizabeth, I'm glad you have peace sweet lady.



"Love is Patient..."


shadowwarrior752 71M

5/31/2010 5:09 pm

structurally you are wrong. god does nothing that goes against what is written in the bible. nor does god make us sick to teach us a lesson. i have studied marriage counseling for 4 years. the best teaching i received was from n.a.m.e.people have been misled and mistaken by pastors who weren't taught well or were IL-prepared to give the proper counsel. everyone believes that marriages first priority is happiness and then procreation. the first priority is holiness the second is procreation and by maintaining your holiness you achieve happiness in the marital union.