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My First Love The hard part sometimes about waiting on God for the one is that you might all ready have the one and now you have to wait on God to finish the final project so that you both line up with His perfect plan. I have been in love for 3 years with a man I know is my husband however He is not ready for Gods plan of marraige and ministry and I am having to let completely go from him in order to be in Gods perfect will. Scripture says when you are in His perfect will all will come to you. Am I willing to let Go and Let God do His work even to the understanding that this man I have loved so deeply might not answer the call? Will I trust God that everything He has shown me will come to pass and in that season of just me and God, that God is all I really need for all things pertaining to happiness and life? Unity with God takes a serious commitment of time and relationship. To hear from God pertaining to Love and relationship with man is a very important thing to sustaining peace and joy within yourself. like faith is so neccessary to maintain. We don't have Gods understanding and we don't always know what He is doing...but will we trust Him? I find the more I seek God in understanding His Love and ways of relationship the more I can be blessing in relationship to man and not fowl it up in my impatience, anger and frustrations, doubts and fears. Learning you can trust in God and that He is faithful and He knows best. Knowing He will withhold no good thing from you...takes time and serious relationship with Him. How do you spend your time with God and converse with Him? I have learned that the Word holds such truth that God does have all the answers pertaining to my life. By His Holy Spirit He talks to me through scripture, music, art, prayer, people and Church. Codependancy is stronger than we know in our lives. Who do we depend on for support? Most of us have put all our eggs in a basket on someone or something that can not give us all the answers or provision. Letting Go....Letting God be God in our lives...and receiving all the Blessings He promises! Now that's True Love in it's finest! As I go through this trial of heart ache and seek Him I will trust Him for He is my heavenly Father who Loves me like His favorite little girl and knows best! |
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12/31/2008 6:04 am |
I think you missed the point. It was not that that is all I do. I am a very successful business women in ministry who desires to share it with someone else. I am too busy to sit around all time as you say and think about the one for me. I apologize if I offended you. I just know that life is not about me and being successful is truly not about being independant in yourself but in Christ. One of those blessings is sharing yourself with someone else and yes for a season it might me children, friends family, etc. My career does not fulfill me, the Love of Christ which was God in man who died for me does. My relationship with man comes only through establishing that first in my heart. This article was referring to something that a lot of people face in lonliness because people really do struggle with this and need to know God did not make man or woman to be alone. You may have all kinds of love to give others and others around you to love you, however, to have someone to share the rest of your life with when you get old and rocking in a chair and all those other people are gone is a true blessing. The scriptures support this. It is better to have someone to lift you up when you are down and to be your support. Part of the problem we women face in America is we can be all we want to be and are equal to men which is not the actual problem, the problem is that we forget we need someone to hold us more intimately to support our dreams, thoughts, ideas and someone that when two or more are gathered in His name, we can encourage each other, pray together when we weep, walk out everyday struggles together when the kids get on our nerves and we need someone to talk to who can understand. Don't get me wrong as women we need not be codependant on anything but Jesus! But God is all about the love and relationship! If we don't have love(intimacy, family, friends then we don't have anything at all. Children need to see this. It was the creation God intended for children to see. Not single parenting, walking it out by yourself all the time and avoiding the very thing that could bring the blessings in our life our hearts were truly made to desire....Love has many facets. The article is just one of them! Let Go! Let God be God and be Blessed Sister! with love Sonja Marie
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12/28/2008 12:23 pm |
I'm very grateful that I am not sitting around waiting for God to deliver a man to me. If that was all that occupied my thoughts I would be feeling like such a waste (and there was a time when that was important to me because I believed I alone was not good enough.) No offense, I guess I am lucky that I got the marriage and family stuff done with and out of the way, my dreams and fantasies are about making a success out of myself, being a strong independent woman who doesn't need some man to rely on, and finding complete and whole happiness with my children, my self and God. I realize that there would be a different set of urgency for someone in their mid 30's to 40 who didn't have any children, or marriage to reflect upon. Life really isn't all about marriage, and you don't need marriage to have family to love and be loved. People should look for love in the family that they already have, rather than dreaming about a family that is ideal for their future. The plans and dreams never turn out how you expect anyway. Good luck, but please focus on something other than waiting around for Mr. Right to accept you. God will not make him, and if he doesn't show you how special you are now, he never will. I'm sorry hun, but this is truth as I see it.
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