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BellaDonnas64 59F
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12/24/2008 7:38 am
being single and not feeling alone especially at Christmas!
I really enjoyed seeing a man with a heart after God to meet His wife. I happen too be on this journey and seeking what the scripture says as equally yoke, using wisdom from the word of a Godly marraige and reading many christian based books on dating, I have found the answer is in your heart. First of all
you must be able to discern a spirit filled person who chooses to make decisions all according to seeking to know God and pleasing Him. Co dependancy is a strong downfall of todays society whether it be things, addictions and especially people(mothers, or the opposite sex)
Learning to be at peace with being alone physically but knowing you are not alone spiritually is a true blessing and will help you to be content in all things thus freeing up the worry of finding the so called
right one. yes it does eventually come down to your choice but remember God knows what and who is best for you that will bring Him the fullest Glory! Isnt that what life is all about,really?
I have been one who has loved and lost a lot of people and things and overcome addictions, depression, anger, hopelessness and feeling alone. Feelings come from our emotions and must be in balance with Scripture. We must choose to love and first of choose to learn what love(real agape love)
is from Christ. Then we too can love unconditionally and be healed in our hearts to be loved.
It is so easy to carry baggage from place to place, relationship to relationship.
Proverbs helps us to have relationship with man but Psalms teaches us to have intimate relationship with God. That is the first step. Without Him it is not love at all.
The first two commmandments if followed make all the other commandments fall into place.
1st love the Lord your God with all your heart and all your mind and all your soul
2nd love your neighbor as yourself
Do you love yourself and who you are created to be?
Do you know the revelation of The Fathers love that He has only for you?
When you focus on these things then the rest falls in place!
Their are many decieving people in this world that seem right on the outside but after awhile they are
very ugly on the inside.
Todays society falls into sexual immorality and then it distorts the thinking because it is a very spiritual,
emotional gift from God only to be experienced through true love.
I hope this helps you in your endeavor to find true love and the one who is just right for you and your mission for God.
Remember God loves you no matter who you choose...He just wants you too have the best one for His glory and your peace, happiness and success!
In Jesus Name I pray for the love in your heart to grow and the wisdom of God to find the one He has saved just for you!
Let Go! Let God be God and Be Blessed
Sonja marie