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Blogs > All4Him2127 > Purity


All4Him2127 52F
9 posts
12/1/2008 11:36 pm
What do you struggle with the most?

Flirting is one of the biggest things I struggle with. It indeed can get out of control very quickly. Eveyone care to share strategies they use to keep things in line?

ladylightwalker

12/2/2008 9:24 pm

 And welcome to blog land!


"Love is Patient..."


ladylightwalker

12/2/2008 2:14 pm

 All4Him, He really didn't lol. Altho when we finaly started emailing, he let me know he was interested. I really liked that he didn't flirt. I watched him for months, ( I was leary). I found that flirting was easy to fall into in chat. You get kidding around, and before ya know it you have said something you knew you shouldn't have. Been there. I don't chat hardly ever anymore. I only have a one inch screen in chat anyway lol. I'm On webtv here on slow dial up, and after they changed the format that's what I have. It's hard to keep up with a 1 inch screen lol.

So my strategy? Well I am with Thomas, so, I don't want to flirt, but when I was single, kidding and joking was fine. But I knew if they, or I, crossed the line. The line for me would be any thing remotely sexual. Or anything I felt uncomfortable saying. I knew inside what was kidding and joking, and what was full out flirting. Hope that helps. Blessings, Robin and Thomas


"Love is Patient..."


All4Him2127 replies on 12/2/2008 9:27 pm:
Robin and Thomas

Thank you for responding.

Congrats to you two!!!!

Yes that is what I am trying to do, feel things out and know where to draw the line. I think I am doing all right but just wanted to get some advice from other Christians.

Your comments helped a lot.

I met a guy online and we definitely have chemistry but I want to take the necessary steps to find out if we have what it takes for a lasting relationship. We need to see what God wants. Just hard for me to know how to do that because my past relationships were not led by God and I dont want to mess things up.

Thanks again

Dundeal
(William Watson) 67M
18097 posts
12/2/2008 1:52 pm

 i agree easier said then done, also hard to think when one person thinks one way and the other takes it another way, anyway welcome to blogland, cheers
May the Lord bless you and keep you


All4Him2127 replies on 12/2/2008 8:59 pm:
Thanks for the comment and warm welcome Dundeal

All4Him2127 52F

12/2/2008 7:07 am

 That's good. Easier said than done I think though.