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ruggedntender 75M
557 posts
10/31/2008 6:39 am
Dang, are Christians always so negative and depressing?

I had forgotten, as I always do, I had forgotten why I most times can only take a few months around Church people or Christians. So many seem to wear you down.. Almost seem a lot like many are energy or joy vampires draining others dry.

It is one thing to be a realist and see a lot of problems, but sheeesh we are even told to look up and rejoice. I thought it was said the joy of the Lord is our strength.. I am guessing many get their joy in broadcasting all the wrongs and destruction. Many seem to have to topple any who seem happy or even at times use a word like happy.

You know, I was saved at a very young age and soon learned any time a person has fun or is happy we are sinning, or so it seemed from the Christan's way of thinking.. I just wonder if any have scripture to show me where my thoughts are right... I am sure there has to be Book, Chapter and Verse to show where we will go to hell if we have fun, or have joy and happiness. I haven't found it, is it in there?


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
10/31/2008 10:58 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you for you posting and stopping in. I know there are a lot of great people, it was just so much of what I have seen posted seemed fairly depressing and so heavenly filled that one was afraid to just be a normal person..


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
10/31/2008 11:01 am

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Thank you very much .. and of course I understand one has to dig to find different type people... I am not sure I am any type that tries to shine, but I do try to see a lot of things a whole lot less condemning that many. I often wonder where any common sense Christians are at..


Sweethoney2007 64F
6565 posts
10/31/2008 11:27 am

There are also many christians who live in la la land. They only want to see the good and will even deceive themselves into thinking all is good. Lot vexed his soul night and day because of the evil in Sodom, the bible says. Better to be a realist that to have your head in the sand with the ecumenical bunch!

The good news is that Jesus is Lord and he will be coming back soon! The end of the story is good but before the end is all the issues in between.


Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."


pricelessjoy 73F
5916 posts
10/31/2008 12:34 pm

I am a Christian, anyway, I am pretty sure I am. Have fun? That is why I am here; to have fun and fellowship. Yes, like Marilyn said, "Seek those golden nuggets because it will be worth your effort"! My advice (I know, you didn't ask for my advice but here it is anyway ), just have fun and stay away from those that pull you down. There are many here that will lift you up! God bless you!

May God Bless You in ABUNDANCE


chocnroses 69F
2405 posts
10/31/2008 3:46 pm

    Quoting Sweethoney2007:
    There are also many christians who live in la la land. They only want to see the good and will even deceive themselves into thinking all is good. Lot vexed his soul night and day because of the evil in Sodom, the bible says. Better to be a realist that to have your head in the sand with the ecumenical bunch!

    The good news is that Jesus is Lord and he will be coming back soon! The end of the story is good but before the end is all the issues in between.
Amen to the head in the sand christian bit! There's a lot of them around! The bible says The Joy of the Lord is our STRENGTH, that's how we have joy, knowing He is real and His word is true and it doesnt matter if we forget to duck sometimes, the cr.. mostly doesnt affect us, amen!! Rejoice in the Lord and again I say rejoice, He's an awesome God! Woo hoo, welcome to la la land, this is where you get to find out a lot about your self and those around you, amen ...


chocnroses 69F
2405 posts
10/31/2008 3:52 pm

Thank you very much .. and of course I understand one has to dig to find different type people... I am not sure I am any type that tries to shine, but I do try to see a lot of things a whole lot less condemning that many. I often wonder where any common sense Christians are at.. Dont try to shine, just be yourself, honesty is very much appreciated as far as I'm concerned! As Marilyn says pray and ask for discernment God will usually show you who's the real deal and who's not! ..GBU ..


Eagles5
(Cindy S.)
69F
1276 posts
10/31/2008 4:56 pm

Touche'and Amen to your post there sir. I wholeheartedly agree. I am by NO means in la la land but....I DO LOVE FUN!!!!!

As for me and my house we shall serve the Lord AND....have FUN doing it!


chocnroses 69F
2405 posts
10/31/2008 10:25 pm

The "DANG" reminds me of the country song we all wrote on ReadingandRoses blog ... we're NOT boring! Check it out!


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
10/31/2008 11:21 pm

WOWOWOW, before I get around to reading all these replies I gotttta put down... seems to my head like the first post I do where I seem negative and like I have said some type of fighting words... it seems that is the post all come out to play on. I will now try to go read replies, but already it seems I have realized without something to fight about no one will read or comment on posts here, hope I am wrong and have words agreeing with me instead of disagreeable words posted here. Thank all of you.


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
10/31/2008 11:39 pm

    Quoting Sweethoney2007:
    There are also many christians who live in la la land. They only want to see the good and will even deceive themselves into thinking all is good. Lot vexed his soul night and day because of the evil in Sodom, the bible says. Better to be a realist that to have your head in the sand with the ecumenical bunch!

    The good news is that Jesus is Lord and he will be coming back soon! The end of the story is good but before the end is all the issues in between.
Yes, I agree with you that is what it said.. so I should be vexed I guess and ready to laugh when this all is turned to glass.. but but what if it is not my town blown away? I just wonder if there were a few other towns on the face of the planet at that time that had a few who were not vexed of soul?

I am not trying to be a pain here, but bottom line is I guess unless we are vexed or "troubled persistently especially with petty annoyances" we can not be saved? I know and agree there is NO half saved. I do not doubt that. I put myself before you and all the OTHER saved people to tell me and God if I am saved. I am not vexed, I know that.. BUT in my book, I do not think that will steal my salvation.

I have been making a list at least mentally since about 5 years old of all the things that are going to send us to hell because the second I accepted Jesus as my saviour I have been told all these things that were going to send me to hell. We need to get all the works down in one book so we know what works we have to do to make heaven our home.. I just never heard that I had to be vexed, so that is one more we can add.

I still say it has been a good year and next year will be better.. Know what, I am saved and will make heaven my home, but that might well vex many if I dare say that.

AND, yes I do understand we should care.. I do, and I appreciate you and your concern as well as dedication... I am not coming against you, just trying to say that a lot of life is very good.. If we are saved we are a happy people I would think.


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/1/2008 12:03 am

    Quoting pricelessjoy:
    I am a Christian, anyway, I am pretty sure I am. Have fun? That is why I am here; to have fun and fellowship. Yes, like Marilyn said, "Seek those golden nuggets because it will be worth your effort"! My advice (I know, you didn't ask for my advice but here it is anyway ), just have fun and stay away from those that pull you down. There are many here that will lift you up! God bless you!
LOL, Sister.. and I feel I can call you Sister as you would have already quit posting in my stuff the first day if I could not... WHERE WAS I? LOL Sister, there are a few happy Christians.. a few who do see it all going to hell in a hand basket, but know we will be ok as He say He will never see the righteous forsaken and I think it talks of our not begging for bread.. maybe dumpster diving, but not begging. LOL ... OK, but I wonder what all else the 37th chapter says? Maybe that almost is an area where we could get an idea of a strong tower we can run into and be safe? I think it does say Fret NOT... I do realize Psalm's is in the Old Testament.. so far we have vex and fret out of the old.. maybe as I read on we will get to some New Testament.

Bottom line is maybe we can have a bit of fun and fret not a bit even if we are a bit vexed? I will read and see.. thank you for your words. I am a bit sorry I ask any of this it seems.. sheeesh last thing I am interested in is a fight.. seen that all my life in the churches.


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/1/2008 12:04 am

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LOL, there you go. I will try to stop in there in a few days and see.. thank you. LOL


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/1/2008 12:27 am

    Quoting chocnroses:
    Amen to the head in the sand christian bit! There's a lot of them around! The bible says The Joy of the Lord is our STRENGTH, that's how we have joy, knowing He is real and His word is true and it doesnt matter if we forget to duck sometimes, the cr.. mostly doesnt affect us, amen!! Rejoice in the Lord and again I say rejoice, He's an awesome God! Woo hoo, welcome to la la land, this is where you get to find out a lot about your self and those around you, amen ...
LOL, and and at times it is better to keep our head in the sand as most of this crap does not affect us. It does NOT..

I know we would have to talk a lot about the common phrase used of "In the world, but not of the world".. Maybe that means be so heavenly minded we are not earthly good.. or it could mean that we are quite earthly good because we know heaven is our home and where we are going.. or maybe that a lot of what is going on in the world is not with a lot of effect on us so we can have our head in the sand on some of it that might steal out joy?

I do know it talks about knowing who is His because of their love for one another.. Gollllly at times we don't even see what I would call a lot of love with people in the same church let alone crossing denominational lines. Maybe we need more people with their head in the sand a bit more so they can be tolerant of what I would consider their other brothers and sisters?

Thank you for your words and showing up here.


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/1/2008 12:33 am

    Quoting chocnroses:
    Thank you very much .. and of course I understand one has to dig to find different type people... I am not sure I am any type that tries to shine, but I do try to see a lot of things a whole lot less condemning that many. I often wonder where any common sense Christians are at.. Dont try to shine, just be yourself, honesty is very much appreciated as far as I'm concerned! As Marilyn says pray and ask for discernment God will usually show you who's the real deal and who's not! ..GBU ..
Thank you Sister.. I sense a great spirit in you, and it would take that to at all handle some of us that might be part of the body as it would have many parts and some of the parts we might not like as well as we do others.. LOL.. Well, assuming we are the body of Christ.. NOW, I guess if we are the Bride of Christ that makes it a lot of women and they do a bit of fussing a lot of times seems to me.. Shoooot, maybe I am thinking way to much here.. LOL You know somewhere it says you gotta love me... Doesn't it? Thank you and have a great day..


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/1/2008 12:42 am

    Quoting Eagles5:
    Touche'and Amen to your post there sir. I wholeheartedly agree. I am by NO means in la la land but....I DO LOVE FUN!!!!!

    As for me and my house we shall serve the Lord AND....have FUN doing it!
LOLOLOL.. I am not sure if anyone should agree much with me yet.. LOL seems some get in trouble agreeing with others. LOL I am not sure and I am judging from what few I have read that was maybe fighting, who knows.... shoot I had one ask me who all was fighting and I did not pay attention, but felt they were.. I just backed out of the stuff fairly quickly as I have have seen the fights most of my life and am not interested.

AND YES you said it: "As for me and my house we shall serve the Lord AND....have FUN doing it!" and that is what lets our kids know the Lord can be fun and still let you have a bit of chance of being saved cause many of the people will let you know you are going to hell even if you are not having fun.. Sheeesh they would crack a dried up face if they ever saw you have fun... LOL ..

Thank you so much.. OH, and I am quick to add.. I am not without knowing some of what I have been or do is sin, so I am not in anyway saying we can do all things without it being sin..


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/1/2008 12:46 am

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Is that we can have fun every other day or so.. or is we sin every other day or so... LOL OR OR OR is it.. I better shut up as I am sure I might not be sure yet what all people think.. LOL thank you..


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/1/2008 12:52 am

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RIGHT, you have hit what I have found to be so true in my years.. I at one point took a load of food to the sharecroppers and never said a word about the Lord when I would show up at the different doors... Most all hugged us and said we were the first Christians they had ever seen show up. They said they sure had a lot of people with Bibles show up about every week trying to get them saved and several of them said they were not sure any of those with Bibles were Christians.. It changed my world..


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/1/2008 12:53 am

    Quoting chocnroses:
    The "DANG" reminds me of the country song we all wrote on ReadingandRoses blog ... we're NOT boring! Check it out!
I will get over there and see it soon as I get a bit of time.. I have to head out to work here in a bit, but in a couple days will have some time.. Thank you..


soaringwithchris
(stephen m. )
67M

11/1/2008 6:19 am

Oh, Goody! I found another box to type meaningless stuff into! I hate Flies and White Dirt on my Blue Rug! NyQuil, Take me Away! It's the stuffy, Blah Blah Blah stuff that makes you say stuff like this--------> [post 139313] Oh, and Don't listen to Freckle Face(SpiritFilled) She's addicted to Klondike Bars! Now don't Hate me 'Cause I am Happy, K¿ P.S. I just asked my Baby if she wantsa Neck and she said "No Thanks, I already have a neck." Sophie says "Steve said WHAT! He must be blogging Nekked again! Dear Lord forgive me for this and PLEASE feed the Pygmies in Ghana! Gotta go, Larry wants to talk to me about Cable! P.S. Nice 2 meet you!

Half a Boy/Half a Man? Some women like us that way.

Soaring with Christ


soaringwithchris
(stephen m. )
67M

11/1/2008 6:27 am

    Quoting soaringwithchris:
    Oh, Goody! I found another box to type meaningless stuff into! I hate Flies and White Dirt on my Blue Rug! NyQuil, Take me Away! It's the stuffy, Blah Blah Blah stuff that makes you say stuff like this--------> [post 139313] Oh, and Don't listen to Freckle Face(SpiritFilled) She's addicted to Klondike Bars! Now don't Hate me 'Cause I am Happy, K¿ P.S. I just asked my Baby if she wantsa Neck and she said "No Thanks, I already have a neck." Sophie says "Steve said WHAT! He must be blogging Nekked again! Dear Lord forgive me for this and PLEASE feed the Pygmies in Ghana! Gotta go, Larry wants to talk to me about Cable! P.S. Nice 2 meet you!
There is s'posed to be a link in blue like this You All Suck! [post 139313] DANG Website!

Half a Boy/Half a Man? Some women like us that way.

Soaring with Christ


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/2/2008 12:53 pm

    Quoting soaringwithchris:
    There is s'posed to be a link in blue like this You All Suck! [post 139313] DANG Website!
Thank you for stopping in and I will try to get a chance to go see the link .. again thank you and HAVE FUN. LOL well maybe not..


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/2/2008 12:56 pm

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Thank you for your kind and real words. I guess I just need to understand that this is not much for a singles site or people having any intrest in their one.. That is a shame, but probably true. thank you.


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/2/2008 12:59 pm

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Thank you and bless you Sister.. I do not think you should ever let any keep you away from what you feel is your joy, but I do understand in the Church communities many feel they have to run MOST off. LOL seen it all my life.. I am not sure if they will have heaven segregated, but sure seems like they will have to.. or or or will most of us have to go to hell because the FEW take it over by force. LOL


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/3/2008 3:17 am

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Yes you are correct there are a lot of great people.. and of course many who care.. At least I learned how to know it all.. yep, I just shut up and listen to the women.. LOL.. Well, it is true.. without a woman I know nothing I am telling you.. Shooot I still say I am ok because I ask my ex how I was before we chose divorce and she said I was OK, so I am going with that until I get another woman to tell me different I tell you. I certainly thank you for stopping in.


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
11/4/2008 7:26 am

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Thank you, those were wonderful verses and blessed me.. I thank you. You may not be a half bad person. LOL I just did not know how to take you on my other post.. so forgive me if I came off a bit in the defensive.. I was not sure where you were headed with your thoughts.. I Love the Lord.. I do care a lot, but I am far from perfect.. BUT the Lord still loves me even when He is scratching His head trying to decide what to do with me. LOL Bless you..