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trinityangel123 56F
61 posts
6/25/2008 11:04 pm
how in the world do i get a guy interested in me?


im having a problem...is my profile scary? is it becuse i live in another state from them? what is it?

im ready to date now and dont know how to go about it...need advice...

Sweethoney2007 64F
6565 posts
6/25/2008 11:35 pm

Need a picture.

Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."


Happy49er2 75F

6/25/2008 11:37 pm

Pray and ask the Lord to prepare a Godly man for you. He knows the desires of your heart, so have faith. GBYH


Dundeal
(William Watson)
67M
18097 posts
6/25/2008 11:39 pm

sorry to say i cannot read your profile but if i was looking i would love to see a picture up there, cheers

May the Lord bless you and keep you


AlanB2 68M

6/25/2008 11:59 pm

Honestly! Getting a photo would help you... I know it sounds shallow but, it is the way of the world im afraid.



‘HE will rule them with an iron scepter.’... He treads the winepress of the fury of the wrath of God Almighty.... On HIS robe and on HIS thigh HE has this name written:... KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS."


kywong 69F
953 posts
6/26/2008 12:48 am

Hi Trinity, welcome to BC and the blogs.

Like the others a photo does help a little, but not necessarily.

A word of caution though - be aware of the many scammers that come after new people on here, well anyone who is a full member actually.
Go have a read of You are so interesting there's a little fun discussion going on about the scammers which might give you some clues on how to spot them.

Otherwise just enjoy the journey here. There are a lot of nice people blogging and chatting.

One thing I have desired of the Lord, that will I seek:
That I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life,
to behold the beauty of the Lord,
and to inquire in His temple. Psalm 27:4


looking4aknight 62F

6/26/2008 1:42 am

Trinity, Right now my main concern is you!!! You appear to be a scammer... No pic, strange profile hmmmmm

Please remember to keep our soldiers in your prayers!!! Kristy


NJBeliever 48M

6/26/2008 4:45 am

    Quoting looking4aknight:
    Trinity, Right now my main concern is you!!! You appear to be a scammer... No pic, strange profile hmmmmm
LOL.


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
6/26/2008 5:22 am

just add body peircings and tattoo's


shibaluvr 64F

6/26/2008 7:02 am

Stop trying here, turn off the computer and go out into the world where men actually are.


Independance
(Patricia )
62F

6/26/2008 7:12 am

just go the the "Hair Mixer" web site and pick out a "I wish that I looked like that" picture and post it.

Life is an adventure.


Sweethoney2007 64F
6565 posts
6/26/2008 8:58 am

Independance


Patty you are so funny sometimes !

Seriously Trinity, picture.


Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."


looking4aknight 62F

6/26/2008 9:09 am

    Quoting  :

Rod, Hmmmmm, The scammers are just getting better I'll bet you this ones a guy,lol. And you fell for it

Please remember to keep our soldiers in your prayers!!! Kristy


looking4aknight 62F

6/26/2008 9:11 am



Please remember to keep our soldiers in your prayers!!! Kristy


looking4aknight 62F

6/26/2008 9:12 am

    Quoting Independance:
    just go the the "Hair Mixer" web site and pick out a "I wish that I looked like that" picture and post it.
Not fair!!!Then I'll have competition

Please remember to keep our soldiers in your prayers!!! Kristy


pricelessjoy 73F
5916 posts
6/26/2008 6:02 pm

    Quoting Independance:
    just go the the "Hair Mixer" web site and pick out a "I wish that I looked like that" picture and post it.
Patty you are so funny!!

Welcome to the blogs! You will meet more people here than through your profile and you will get to know them better. Some very sweet men in here. (Oh my gosh, did I really say that)??!! GBY ~PJ~

May God Bless You in ABUNDANCE


Independance
(Patricia )
62F

6/26/2008 6:43 pm

    Quoting pricelessjoy:
    Patty you are so funny!!

    Welcome to the blogs! You will meet more people here than through your profile and you will get to know them better. Some very sweet men in here. (Oh my gosh, did I really say that)??!! GBY ~PJ~
yea but, all the sweet guys are taken or not interested, don't know why 'couse am all that! lol.

Life is an adventure.


trinityangel123 56F

6/26/2008 10:28 pm

im not a scammer i just have onre photo and its nothing like yours...im afraid...so....i want to put my best foot forward and would like someone to like me for me and not anything else...yes i know men are visual but i want them to know a little more about me before i send it out.

i will check on how to spot a scammer to whatever that means i dont plan on anyone pulling the wool over my eyes like last time!!!!


trinityangel123 56F

6/26/2008 10:39 pm

i have tried looking in church...and just being friends....and 7 yrs is what an x friend told me...i found out later she was a backstabber and said lies about me behind my back...but maybe it is 7 yrs! lol...i am comlpex like most women you men dont get us until later and sometimes even then its hard for you to get us lol.

kristy...im sending my only photo 2 nite lol...im sending it out so ther is no guessing about me i am not a liar or a scammer and i resent anyone saying that...

furthermore i dont believe in tatooing my self and body peircings...i have only pierced ears.one set of hole on each ear!

i also believe in being honest so it will be a real photo...geez i think it sux its not professionally cdone like alot of you guys out there ...i just dont have the money for it...lol...

so its just little old me lol...guua try and post it now geez iy terrifies me



well keep given advbice and ill keep praying and trying.... God Bless all of you


trinityangel123 56F

6/26/2008 11:18 pm

ther a photo lol...just learning how to take them with my digital!


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
6/27/2008 3:16 am

The Lord can bring you someone. Just relax.


trinityangel123 56F

6/27/2008 1:25 pm

yes well i hope he can find sumone for me...its free will you kno? God can pick one and the --guy could bail!--

ther are alot of beautiful women out there...and men are visual...i dont have really a chance...it will take a man who is blind...sigh...agh my melonchaly side at it again....no pity party...no pity party....thats my mantra when im this way...sigh...

well you guys keep pouring out the advice as the Lord leads..i need it! and thanks for the encouragement!


trinityangel123 56F

6/29/2008 6:47 pm

hey...ndnthomas...thats what im doing...lol...keeping things on thup and up literally...yhinking on things above. not easy to do iguess because when guys hear my backround...and my sons with needs...and i want it all to be platonic...they are out of here sorta speak...lol...creeps then i tell you...full of sin they are.

im not needy and im not looking for a night in shining armor to rescue me im just looking for a serious companion and possibly more God willing...but i wont let it get me down.

God is in charge so whatever He wants ill give it to Him.
thanx for the encouragement !


deric169 61M
650 posts
7/5/2008 7:06 am

If God picks a guy for you, the guy isn't going to bail. Your trying way to hard, your putting the cart before the horse. Then when things don't happen in the time frame that you expect, you get frustrated and jump to conclusions as to why it's not happening.

You need to relax, quit being hard on yourself, instead work on your self confidence, don't let the opinions of others control your life, be independent.


Being humble and yet self confident is one of the toughest jobs a person can take on, but it is a quality that will make heads turn and people remember you.

Don't believe everything you think, God is not a cookie cutter God!
Laughing at yourself is better then laughing at someone else.


deric169 61M
650 posts
7/5/2008 7:16 am

    Quoting deric169:
    If God picks a guy for you, the guy isn't going to bail. Your trying way to hard, your putting the cart before the horse. Then when things don't happen in the time frame that you expect, you get frustrated and jump to conclusions as to why it's not happening.

    You need to relax, quit being hard on yourself, instead work on your self confidence, don't let the opinions of others control your life, be independent.

    Being humble and yet self confident is one of the toughest jobs a person can take on, but it is a quality that will make heads turn and people remember you.
I'm speaking from experience, it's something I have to work at on a daily basis, but it works.

Stepping out into no mans land with confidence works, when you fail you pull yourself up by your boot straps, brush the dust off and try again, showing complete confidence, even when inside your scared to death. The key is to do it without stepping on other people or hurting them in the process - that is being humble.


Don't believe everything you think, God is not a cookie cutter God!
Laughing at yourself is better then laughing at someone else.


trinityangel123 replies on 7/7/2008 6:22 am:
hey deric that is what I do..pull up my boot straps its just that I get sick of it all and unfortunately I have a melonchaly epersonality...I am sensitive and I had been thru alot...so I am skeptical. I just want to do things right this time around. I didnt do it right last time..I have to do it in Gods timing....but I have to step out in faith...so here I am...

I will be offline for awhile...the 15th is my last day and I am going to miss one particular guy I chat with often...but thats the way it goes I guess.

Gods timing is always perfect.

I will wait but its not easy for me...I had prayed for patience awhile ago and now i get all kinds of things all the time that test my patience thats what i get for praying